Bachelor In Paradise - Season 3 - All Episodes - Discussions - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #3

Fingersandtoes wrote:

Alanna wrote:I would bet anything Jared is unhappy with this because he loves Ashley orbiting around him.

Yep. He wants her to 'move on' enough so he can make out with Caila, but after that the worshiping has to be back on.

I don't get why he doesn't like her, especially if she worships him.. She's whiney but so what? She just needs the marriage act to finally happen for her. She'll get her head screwed on right after that.

Sprite wrote:

Alanna wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:I can see how Amanda fell for Josh her IQ would be stretching to say it is above 75. I
can not fathom--F-A-T-H-O-M how someone with their JD lived with this knucklehead for almost 9 months.

It's why she became a psycho. How depressing.

Sorry, but she was a psycho before she moved in with Josh. How she reamed out Eric showed that and it had nothing to do with Josh. They are both nuts and I could have done without either one of them ever dating anyone else...at least on my tv.

And Amanda apologizes. Dumb. Dumb. Dumb. And she thinks she is a good judge of character. Yeah.

Josh and Andi are both the same person, just different genders. I won't post my honest opinion of them.

Poor Amanda must love bad men. Doesn't she go on about how bad her ex husband was? Now she is picking Josh despite literally everyone warning her AND seeing and hearing him for herself? She's going to walk right into it, and she won't be able to say that she wasn't warned. She received many warnings. This should be interesting. Maybe if she sticks it out she can write a book too and join the Andi club.

I don't personally see what makes Amanda so hot either. Why are all those men fawning over her? Plus you'd think most never-married men would gravitate towards someone with less history.

I always get a chuckle out of Amanda saying she's a good judge of character. Sure you are, Amanda. As evidenced by your two kids and a divorce by 25.

mindless wrote:I always get a chuckle out of Amanda saying she's a good judge of character. Sure you are, Amanda. As evidenced by your two kids and a divorce by 25.

so true!

My DVR glitched and cut off the recording of BIP right at the part where Wells was going to kiss Shushana on their date on the beach. Did they have a RC at the end or was it a cliff hanger to be continued?

Please keep the bachelor discussion in TB thread so we don't have conversations all over the threads. Plus West coast viewing is not over yet.

MiaHawk wrote:My DVR glitched and cut off the recording of BIP right at the part where Wells was going to kiss Shushana on their date on the beach. Did they have a RC at the end or was it a cliff hanger to be continued?

No RC... to be continued....

IWouldMarryAshleyI wrote:It's also messed up that she couldn't even wait for him to hop in the limo with her. She just had to leave that instant and couldn't wait for him. She didn't even care if he came or not. Besides, I don't see the appeal.

Heck she probably didn't think Jared would leave with her... I don't blame her for heading out without him.

siena wrote:Jared on After Paradise: "I'm not going to hold anything that Ashley's said against her because they were said in jealousy and we've all said bad things."

I CANNOT DEAL WITH THIS INSANITY.

But somehow Caila can be bullied for her mistakes? Jared was the one who went on vacation with Ashley after all of this drama. He put his friendship with Ashley before anything else. And they're trying to blame Caila for this mess. There is nothing she could've done IMO to deserve the way she's been treated. I hope Caila gets far away from all of these awful people.

I don't see Jared having a healthy committed relationship until Ashley moves to another country and is banned from the country that Jared lives in. I lost a LOT of respect for him when he didn't use his family jewels to take up for Caila. What man does that???? Jared!!! That's who. I don't care how long I'd been friends with somebody I'm not gonna stand by and let them bad mouth somebody I'm interested in!!!

Carly is already in cheerleading mode for Ashley! They really do remind me of HS.I can only hope now that Wells will try to date Caila.I think they could have a real chance.If he is dating Ashley after the show is over,he is not as smart as I thought he was.

@LoveDovez I don't think there's much hope for Jared after seeing him on AP. It was bad enough that he said nothing when Ashley used slurs about Caila multiple times on the show. But to excuse it on AP with "oh we've all said bad things" is just so gross to me.

Ashley never seems to be held accountable for her terrible actions. She's always playing the victim, like we're meant to feel sorry for her. She still doesn't think she's done anything wrong, and people like Carly and Jared backing her up is part of the problem. At this point I don't believe a word Ashley says and I think this is all catered to furthering her reality tv career. I think Jared's opinion on people is worthless if he wouldn't even call out Ashley's behaviour. And I don't think any of those people in that mean clique have much integrity. Whatever keeps their position in the bach clique is what matters to them. The fact that the clique have decided to exclude Caila bodes well for her IMO. It's not a club I'd want to join. All JMO.

havadrpepper wrote:

IWouldMarryAshleyI wrote:It's also messed up that she couldn't even wait for him to hop in the limo with her. She just had to leave that instant and couldn't wait for him. She didn't even care if he came or not. Besides, I don't see the appeal.

Heck she probably didn't think Jared would leave with her...  I don't blame her for heading out without him.

I think she's just a flip flopper. She will never make a definite decision on anything, and even after she has made up her mind, she is likely to change it later. Apparently, despite the fact that Jared is a King, Caila wasn't even that interested in him.

I don't blame Ashley I. Remember she's never truly had a man, and she's been rejected terribly every time she's gone near a man. Jared is good looking and she might not find another man as good looking as him for some time. So she can't let him go. He's like her dream man. I can see Jared is one of a kind. Almost every single one of those women wants him. Think of Joe and Samantha, but imagine if Joe had dreamed of a chick like Samantha all his life and ONLY wants that type.