Bachelor In Paradise - Season 3 - All Episodes - Discussions - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #3

AshleyI lucked out then on finding two guys willing to put up with it. I don't know, I think there's a bit of insanity involved even if they're too nice LOL.

That's why I prefer kindness. Being nice is more about other people's perception of you. To be truly kind to someone might even mean going against the grain or saying no because it's ultimately for the greater good of that person. Jared and Wells being too nice has meant someone like AshleyI has been rewarded for behaving terribly. The kinder thing to do would be correctly criticize her for her actions hoping that she'll grow from it. As it is, everyone seems content to coddle AshleyI for behavior anyone else would be strongly reprimanded for. That's insane to me.

That was confusing. It's got to be Wells who goes on 3 dates, right? Did Ashley really get emotional after one date with him? Who are the new women?

Correct. Wells goes on three dates. The first one is with Ashley, the second one is with Jami and the third one is with Shushanna on a double date with Brett and Lauren H, according to RS's spoilers.

And of course Ashley got emotional after one date with him. What's new?

So the next episode is the last one for Caila, right?

bluwavz wrote:Correct. Wells goes on three dates. The first one is with Ashley, the second one is with Jami and the third one is with Shushanna on a double date with Brett and Lauren H, according to RS's spoilers.

And of course Ashley got emotional after one date with him. What's new?

Not sure why I was surprised.

I don't see Wells with any of them tbh. Please tell me that AI goes home next week.

So Wells goes on three dates and he even asks Ashley for a kiss!!! What a turn around for a guy who Joelle had to roll around in water with then make the first move to get a kiss!!! I am eagerly awaiting his entrance.

bluwavz wrote:It's not that Wells is insane, it's just that he's one of those "too nice" weak submissive men like Jared. Alanna was right.

I'm not sure Wells plays nice.  He took a direct shot at the franchise by saying in an interview that he would rather promote puppies than tooth whitener when asked about opportunities that have come his way after being on Bette.  Also, he did some  "drunk tweet" vids of the show which were funny but not the typical Disney image.
I'm giving him the benefit of doubt until his segments air.

albean99 wrote:

bluwavz wrote:Correct. Wells goes on three dates. The first one is with Ashley, the second one is with Jami and the third one is with Shushanna on a double date with Brett and Lauren H, according to RS's spoilers.

And of course Ashley got emotional after one date with him. What's new?

Not sure why I was surprised.

I don't see Wells with any of them tbh. Please tell me that AI goes home next week.

Sorry man but he gives her a rose even after all this. If it's any consolation he does dump her in the finale. I will enjoy that.

So this is what I got:

1. Caila goes on a date with Jared. Ashley arrives. Sabotages and bullies her.
2. Jami goes on a date with Wells. Ashley is pissed. More of her same old antics.
3. Shushanna goes on a date with Wells. Wash, Rinse, Repeat with Ashley.

There's one common denominator here. Ok maybe two. The first is Ashley. The Second are pansy azz men (Although Wells does eventually learn to dump Ashley. But They're still hanging out post show - so there's that)

Wasn't there a spoiler for Shushanna where she's fed up with the show/producers and basically told the to eff themselves? There's a scene in one of the earlier promos where she's crying and saying "Why are you [trying to] making me cry?".

I'm going to hazard to guess that Ashley made Paradise (more) awful for all three girls and I'm sure her behaviour towards them are the same post show. No wonder Jami And Shushanna sent out those tweets to support Caila.

Yes it's very interesting that the two women who went on dates with Wells are the ones who are Team Caila.

RS said Shushanna decides to leave the show at the cocktail party because she thinks the show is stupid and that she goes off on the producers. Good for her.

Common denominator AshleyI franchise puppet and unstable psycho b*t*h on camera and IRL. Add two wussy men and 2 attractive women, 1 beautiful woman. Cue the theatrics, waterworks and OTT name calling from the "realist" cast member of the LA clique. No wonder the "fake" ones chose to leave.
Sometimes this show and the "professional" LA Bach/Ette cast members - LA mean girl clique really really really piss me off. When being nice/smiling is considered fake by some of the fakest and phoniest people in the entire Franchise.

bluwavz wrote:Yes it's very interesting that the two women who went on dates with Wells are the ones who are Team Caila.

RS said Shushanna decides to leave the show at the cocktail party because she thinks the show is stupid and that she goes off on the producers. Good for her.

I wonder if they will dare to show that? More likely, she will be shown as being heartbroken at having to leave. Personally, I'd prefer the truth.