The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Epi 9 - July 25th - FS - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

GuardianAngel wrote:It was like pulling teeth to get an answer from Jordan. He can't see where he see's himself in one year? BS her and say with her of course.

That wasn't good enough she had to probe more. That's why she's insecure.

I think her past relationships (on the show and off) have caused her to be extra needy.

The only way to deal with it is to stick with her and prove it. And IMO, she's still gonna be needy and insecure, to an extent. Maybe not as much as now, but still needy, whiny and insure...that's just part of Jojo's DNA it seems.

JMO

Stop.kissing him of your just going to send him.home.

LoveDovez wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:One shouldn't feel insecure, they should just know.

Totally. I knew my husband loved me. I didn't have to question his every move. Of course, we weren't on a TV show, but I think you know when someone is in love with you and when they aren't..

For the true romantic--for most women--what they want to hear the man they love say when they ask them where they see themselves in the next year: living and breathing every moment with you. Living new highs, experiencing everything as new, because it will be new when I'm with you. 
That kind of message. Something from the heart. Not something you have to drag out of him like a breech birth.

Chase has th best hair out of the final 3 guys ...I'll give him that ...

Ladybug82 wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:It was like pulling teeth to get an answer from Jordan. He can't see where he see's himself in one year? BS her and say with her of course.

That wasn't good enough she had to probe more. That's why she's insecure.

I think her past relationships (on the show and off) have caused her to be extra needy.  

The only way to deal with it is to stick with her and prove it.  And IMO, she's still gonna be needy and insecure, to an extent.  Maybe not as much as now, but still needy, whiny and insure...that's just part of Jojo's DNA it seems.  

JMO

She's a worrier in general. Ben said so. It's obvious.

mizzoufan wrote:Stop.kissing him of your just going to send him.home.

Well...it was the plan all along for her to dump Chase in the FS per producer prodding IMHO.

i think the Chasebot is malfunctioning

Ooof.  He tells her ILY and she let's him go?  Where is she going?  I'll be right back?

northernviewer wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:It was like pulling teeth to get an answer from Jordan. He can't see where he see's himself in one year? BS her and say with her of course.

That wasn't good enough she had to probe more. That's why she's insecure.

I think its more do to his work that hes not sure what to say .... Isnt he trying to change careers?  Get into acting?

Sports.  He's been hired (after the season started airing) by SEC network to do some announcing or something for them.

Ladybug82 wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:It was like pulling teeth to get an answer from Jordan. He can't see where he see's himself in one year? BS her and say with her of course.

That wasn't good enough she had to probe more. That's why she's insecure.

I think her past relationships (on the show and off) have caused her to be extra needy.  

The only way to deal with it is to stick with her and prove it.  And IMO, she's still gonna be needy and insecure, to an extent.  Maybe not as much as now, but still needy, whiny and insure...that's just part of Jojo's DNA it seems.  

JMO

I think it'll be imperceptible to the outside world if her man is just able to constantly be there for her and prove it over and over again with love and devotion. That's just who she is compounded with her past experiences imo. And also, no traveling job! That is a big trigger apparently.

GuardianAngel wrote:It was like pulling teeth to get an answer from Jordan. He can't see where he see's himself in one year? BS her and say with her of course.

That wasn't good enough she had to probe more. That's why she's insecure.

I don't even know where I am going to be in a year!

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