Caila Quinn - BIP - Season 3 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

What is Caila thinking or doing if she's still giving Jared the time of day irl right now?? Man. I hope Steve's spoilers are right and there are only 3 couples out of this season with Caila back to the good fight: swiping for her prince.

With Jared still being besties with Ashley I. I am fully off the Jared and Caila train. I do believe he's a nice guy, like pushover nice. I wouldn't put up with my bestie trashing my significant other because they want me to themselve.

Caila deserves a man who will stand up for her and take the blame for his part in this mess. I wish she had said no to this trash after they played her with the Bachelorette role.

I was starting to like Jared because of how his face only lit up for Caila. But too much baggage, man.
I'm afraid TPTB will set Caila up to be a heartless b-- next week when she goes on a date with a different guy.

Jared isn't even defending her on Twitter! Who cares if he's the "nicest guy" if he can't even stand up for his girl? His lack of a backbone is infuriating.

Also jumping off the Jared\Calia train. Your loss,Jared. Had the potential to date an outstanding woman but couldn't muster the B*lls to put pyscho Kardashley in her place when it's long overdue. i

I will be so disappointed if Calia hasn't dumped his azz.

It's disappointing. I hope she's reconsidering this whole relationship. I guess being accepted and liked by former cast is more important to him than a sweet girl's feelings.

I said this in another thread but I would not be surprised if AshleyI deliberately befriended Caila because she knew that Jared liked Caila, and she could therefore dictate to her about meeting Jared. How manipulative!

My one big caveat to Jared has always been his friendship with AshleyI. I do think he's a nice guy, but he's continuing to co-create a toxic relationship with Ashley. He had the perfect opportunity to change that and instead he goes on a sponsored vacation with Ashley and friends. This isn't healthy or normal behaviour. I don't think Jared will ever be able to have a long-term relationship as long as he keeps maintaining his "friendship" with AshleyI. It's disappointing because I don't doubt that Caila and him had a genuine connection and that he really liked her. It is the exact reason AshleyI tried to control Caila even getting to meet him. What a sick and twisted way to be "friends" with someone. I can't believe anyone would support or praise that.

AshleyI admitted that her and Caila weren't BFF's on After Paradise and Caila said they'd hung out a few times. IMO Ashley likely brought up Jared deliberately to make a claim because of his interest in Caila. Who would say such a thing to someone you barely know? Caila said on the show that she found Nick attractive but she saw something in Jared once she met him in person. Why shouldn't she be allowed to pursue something just because of AshleyI? It's ridiculous.

I hope Caila gets far away from this franchise. All the cast are so cliquey and have just degenerated into a nasty bunch of people. She deserves better!

If it's not right, it's not right.
You have to kiss a lot frogs before you find your prince.

KB_Mom wrote:Also jumping off the Jared\Calia train.  Your loss,Jared.  Had the potential to date an outstanding woman but couldn't muster the B*lls to put pyscho Kardashley in her place when it's long overdue. i

I will be so disappointed if Calia hasn't dumped his azz.

There's always After Paradise on live television kidding.

Although I am now kind of glad Caila goes on another date next week. No guy is worth the wrath of Ash I. I would want to leave that environment asap.

The more I think about it the more frustrating it is that Caila has been getting the backlash. Jared should be angry at AshleyI that she told Caila she couldn't meet Jared because he'd like her. He should think that's insane. And the general public should be thinking why on earth does AshleyI even have the right to tell Caila who she can or can't meet after only hanging out with her a few times. And why can't Caila feel a connection when she meets someone and pursue that?? Caila even apologized to Ashley for hurting her, but IMO Ashley should be apologizing for even putting Caila in that position.

This Bachelor clique just gets worse and worse and has become some twisted high-school. They look at Caila as being the mean girl, but it's actually them. I think because they plan on this being their long-term career they all just stick together in a cesspool of self-adulation. Well if Jared chooses to not support Caila he will miss out on someone incredible, and he'll end up dealing with AshleyI for years to come. I am sure no wife would want to put up with that much baggage. He needs to cut the cord.

Lisa Terry ‏@lterry50 14m14 minutes ago
I want see @CailaQuinn like her father run a huge company someday and meet great man like her parents feel in love. Think beyond show girl.

Caila Quinn ‏@CailaQuinn 1m1 minute ago Manhattan, NY
Caila Quinn Retweeted Lisa Terry
this is so sweet - I would love that too.. Thank you for making me smile