Caila Quinn - BIP - Season 3 - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

bluwavz wrote:It's too bad Caila wasn't there from the beginning. This could've been the next Janner. Just two nice and normal folks. Oh well the 3-ring engagement circus should be hysterical.  

You've come around on Jaila Blu?! I agree. Caila should have been OG with Jared.

I think I could eventually come around. The press release says he and Ashley I have a heated conversation and Jared threatens to leave before the rose ceremony. It sounds like he finally puts his foot down. Besides someone has to be the normal couple post-show and it sure isn't going to be the three engaged trainwrecks. Jaila will probably outlast them all.

All JMO.

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Well good for you blu....I still think she can do better than Jared. I see her with a highly sophisticated, intellectual and well travelled with a goofy and fun side too but what do I know.

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Do you guys think they are dating IRL now?
I like Jared, although he doesn't seem to be the most sophisticated, he certainly is one of the kindest. I think Jaila could bring out the best in each other, just like Janner, and I hope it works IRL for them.

Yes, I definitely think they're dating IRL. There's been quite a few sightings of them together since filming ended (and as recently as yesterday). There's also a lot of match ups with social media posts and visits between Rhode Island and NYC etc.

Who knows what the future will bring, but I hope they're both enjoying themselves and having fun. Time will tell if they're compatible long-term but it seems to me that there's an authentic connection so they might as well explore it further. In terms of their temperaments and chemistry they seem well matched to me. It's too bad that outside drama derailed their time on the show. Seemingly though they've since been able to overcome that IRL which does speak to that connection.

bluwavz wrote:I think I could eventually come around. The press release says he and Ashley I have a heated conversation and Jared threatens to leave before the rose ceremony. It sounds like he finally puts his foot down. Besides someone has to be the normal couple post-show and it sure isn't going to be the three engaged trainwrecks. Jaila will probably outlast them all.

All JMO.

I agree with your post, because of Caila, I might come around to softing my stance and liking him more, but... How do we explain that weird trip with Janner, Ashley I and and her sis?  When I think of that it brings me back to thinking he needs to grow a pair and tell Ashley I to back way, way, way off.  

I know all signs since the trip indicate that they are fine, so she must have trust in Jared and they met have come to some kind of understanding with Ashley I, but... I'm sure it must bug Ashley alittle that her prince has found a new princess with gorgeous, flowing hair, much more princessy like than hers.  

JMO.

In the long run, I don't see it as anything more than a nice college try and friendship.

I agree that the trip away on the paid vacation is still confusing and that AshleyI probably took it as validation of her bad behavior (although the fact that it was sponsored and with friends is notable to me). I do hope Jared starts to distance himself from Ashley more and more because that dynamic is pretty toxic IMO. If Ashley can't let him go, as much as he's trying to be nice about it, being too friendly with Ashley and not setting boundaries is going to damage any relationship he's in (whether that's with Caila or someone else in the future). Surely building a healthy relationship is more important than placating a clingy friend. I guess we'll see how it all plays out over time. It's a shame because without that dynamic present there would've been so much less drama for Caila and Jared.

I agree too that Caila has all those princess qualities, which I think is probably why there's so much jealousy. Unfortunately rather than admiring positives in others, people sometimes choose to tear them down because of them. Caila seems to have a great attitude and outlook though which will stand her in good stead wherever life takes her.

I think the benefits of this weird friendship in the franchise are a huge factor too IMO, and IMO that's not a good look on Jared. Ashley is still liking tweets about Caila being in the wrong, so it's not just a show sl that can be brushed off. IMO Caila deserves more than to date a guy whose BFF is in love with him, and publicly trashes Caila. That just doesn't work, IMO. I'll see how it pans out, Caila and Jared might not even last. They look cute on screen though. IMO.

They look cute but I wish for Caila to find more than a spineless wussy that hides his weak-will under the guise of being a "nice guy." Run, Caila, run. Imo.