Jared Haibon - Bachelorette 11 -BIP - Season 3 - Discussion

AI was so positive that Jared will agree with everything she said re. their "friendship" when he appears on AP. I don't know whether to have some wine or a barf bucket on hand for this occasion. Maybe both. Stupid Tptb not bringing in Wells beforehand so Caila's only real option was Jared (Nick was waiting for Jen and would definitely have chosen Jen over Caila IMO). Blah.

Jared will back up AI for sure. He's making sure future love interests will stay clear of him.

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Yeah I don't know who Jared thinks is going to want to date him if he still has AshleyI in his life.

I also don't understand why he would even want a friendship with someone who has spoken publicly about going to "second base" with him, said that he'd led them on, and sabotaged his girlfriend and bullied her? It's a very strange choice to keep someone like that in your life.

IMO if he's been confiding in Ashley post break-up, as he did in the last episode, about his relationship with Caila then that's a huge breach of Caila's trust. To be discussing his relationship with the very person who has been undermining Caila from the beginning is very disrespectful IMO. If he goes on AP and sticks up for Ashley then he has truly lost all my respect. What he should be saying is that he understands why Caila would've felt unsure in the midst of all this drama and that Ashley was wrong and still is wrong for bullying Caila.

siena wrote:Yeah I don't know who Jared thinks is going to want to date him if he still has AshleyI in his life.

I also don't understand why he would even want a friendship with someone who has spoken publicly about going to "second base" with him, said that he'd led them on, and sabotaged his girlfriend and bullied her? It's a very strange choice to keep someone like that in your life.

IMO if he's been confiding in Ashley post break-up, as he did in the last episode, about his relationship with Caila then that's a huge breach of Caila's trust. To be discussing his relationship with the very person who has been undermining Caila from the beginning is very disrespectful IMO. If he goes on AP and sticks up for Ashley then he has truly lost all my respect. What he should be saying is that he understands why Caila would've felt unsure in the midst of all this drama and that Ashley was wrong and still is wrong for bullying Caila.

Can't even imagine the razzing he has gotten about this.

I know, right? And how embarrassing to be turned down for sex by Jared of all men. Neither of them have any dignity left.

Jared is his own worst enemy. He needs a backbone. JMHO.

He might need a lot more than a backbone. A lot more.

Kashathediva wrote:He might need a lot more than a backbone. A lot more.

True, Kasha, but it would be a good place to start.

Do you think he's embarrassed at all by the new Millionaire Matchmaker episode with AI? It's his own fault for encouraging the crazy.

Patti called him a 'douche' on the show. She missed an opportunity by not having him there on the show and calling him that to his face. He would have deserved it.

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