Jared Haibon - Bachelorette 11 -BIP - Season 3 - Discussion

Isabella wrote:The love in their eyes is making me melt.  Burn jealous rejects burn! Someone (actually Emily & Jubilee too) will definitely throw the remote after seeing this air.

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Ladybug82 wrote:Uggghh!  He's as annoying and exhausting as she is.  

And as far as being "wifed up" goes, unless it's Ashley I or you cut all ties with her that isn't happening any time soon.  No girl in their right mind would willingly walk into that situation.  He ain't that cute or hot and can't be that good in bed (to brainwash anyone into sticking around).  

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siena wrote:AshleyI straight up said she will never see Jared as just a friend. It is maddening that despite this Jared is still saying that AshleyI is a close friend, all in the context of her ongoing obsession. I gave him a pass somewhat because I thought perhaps he was moving in the direction of cutting the cord, but I don't understand how after seeing how Ashley's treated Caila (on and off the show) he still doesn't want anything to change. AshleyI manipulated the situation and told Caila that she couldn't meet Jared because she knew he'd like her, and yet he still considers AshleyI a friend. HOW? I don't understand what kind of "friendship" involves your friend sabotaging your future relationships, claiming you as their own, and saying that they're still in love with you and always will be.

That not long after all of this drama happens he still goes on vacation with Ashley is even more galling. Again HOW? I've been trying to figure it out because I thought Jared had a better head on his shoulders, but IMO there's some sort of twisted relationship they can't let go of. He's going to need a lot of luck in the future if he ever wants a long-term relationship with someone. Jared had the opportunity to make a real change, and I think he'll look back on this all with regret. All JMO.