Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #5

IMO it is also a matter of generation. I was not raised to go clubbing and hook up. I went clubbing, yes. But mostly to have fun with friends and potentially meet someone for a long term relationship because it was the only place where young people of my age gathered together. I met my share of players and 'you are the one'. I fell for one or two myself. I learned.... with time. I learned because I burned myself.

The question is: does jordan want to learn and grow? What would make him want that? A woman he knows piratically nothing, has a hidden on and off relationship (not living together for me feels that way).

I saw no puppy love in jordan's eyes during the show. none. Here is a scap from episode 6 that is showing IMO how much he was interested in jojo.


my scap from recorded TV

So for me, saying that he found the love of his life with jojo and is a new man with all his past rumors..... sorry, but no. I am not buying it.

But again, lets have this conversation this winter. lets say december and see what happens in the next coming 6 months.

This is my opinion only. TY

Personally, the way I look at it is it's not enough to label who is crazy in a situation. 
That isn't going to solve anything. It doesn't matter if one is and one isn't or one partially is or whatever.
Our own society and current events illustrate this. 
We all have to be mindful of our own behavior. We can control ourselves hopefully. We can't control others.

HEA wrote:IMO it is also a matter of generation. I was not raised to go clubbing and hook up. I went clubbing, yes. But mostly to have fun with friends and potentially meet someone for a long term relationship because it was the only place where young people of my age gathered together. I met my share of players and 'you are the one'. I fell for one or two myself. I learned.... with time. I learned because I burned myself.

The question is: does jordan want to learn and grow? What would make him want that? A woman he knows piratically nothing, has a hidden on and off relationship (not living together for me feels that way).

I saw no puppy love in jordan's eyes during the show. none. Here is a scap from episode 6 that is showing IMO how much he was interested in jojo.


my scap from recorded TV

So for me, saying that he found the love of his life with jojo and is a new man with all his past rumors..... sorry, but no. I am not buying it.

But again, lets have this conversation this winter. lets say december and see what happens in the next coming 6 months.

This is my opinion only. TY

I don't understand why you say Jordan doesn't look interested here. He is walking with the guys. What am I missing? There are plenty of SC'S that show that he is interested in JoJo.

If a man is cheating because a woman isn't meeting his needs, does that mean he just needs his needs met?  What are the needs btw? Physical? Emotional? Mental? I don't think it has to be an ongoing cycle. Sometimes "something" clicks in our brains to make us realize the path we're on is not right. And a lot of that is from insecurity. Feeling beneath ourselves in some way. It's usually why we lash out at people, things, etc. A discomfort. Heck, I've definitely cheated on a test or two back in the day, but I stopped because of that FEAR. Fear of getting caught, fear of letting myself down, fear of knowing I was only hurting my education and future, fear of letting God down. So yes, sometimes all you need is a little wake up call. 

IMO.

HEA wrote:IMO it is also a matter of generation. I was not raised to go clubbing and hook up. I went clubbing, yes. But mostly to have fun with friends and potentially meet someone for a long term relationship because it was the only place where young people of my age gathered together. I met my share of players and 'you are the one'. I fell for one or two myself. I learned.... with time. I learned because I burned myself.

The question is: does jordan want to learn and grow? What would make him want that? A woman he knows piratically nothing, has a hidden on and off relationship (not living together for me feels that way).

I saw no puppy love in jordan's eyes during the show. none. Here is a scap from episode 6 that is showing IMO how much he was interested in jojo.


my scap from recorded TV

So for me, saying that he found the love of his life with jojo and is a new man with all his past rumors..... sorry, but no. I am not buying it.

But again, lets have this conversation this winter. lets say december and see what happens in the next coming 6 months.

This is my opinion only. TY

You might want to take a look at the Jordan fan thread not to comment but there are lot's of SCs,gifs,pics and video that shows how interested they are in each other. Their chemistry/connection is undeniable IMO . The issue with them is can she trust him with her heart?

You know, let's say for argument's sake that BBJ did cheat and Jo knows it's true. What is she supposed to do? She's the Ette and he's the ONLY one she wants imo, like really wants post-show. I don't think she had much choice here, she wants him and doesn't want to be without him, regardless of other men available. So seems to me her choice is to choose him and hope for the best, which is what she did. Time will tell.

I've said it before and will say it again (and again), Jojo is the one that pursued him from the get go, knowing what she knew about him.
This is on her. fully. Now she must pull up the big girl panties and ride with it.
IMO it will be a fun ride. So fun.

We don't know that this is even an issue for JoJo. Maybe he is demonstrating to her how much he cares for her, or how much he loves her and she has no concerns.

IMO I have little patience for someone who keeps bringing up the past when it comes to relationships. Discuss it, get over it, or move on if you can't get over it. (this IMO would have ended another 'ettes relationship much sooner if they took that approach)

I would think they have had many conversations about their past. It's what happens now that will make the relationship secure. I'm one of those who believe a cheater cheats because they are not happy in their current relationship. Not saying it's the right thing to do, just saying that IMO if the right person comes along, where they are so in love and would do anything for them, they would never dream of cheating again.

Great post GA !

If we as viewers were oblivious to the guys backstory, SM, etc., as well as JoJo, would we be see a love story between Jordon and JoJo?  The answer for me is yes.  There is a sweet vignette of JoJo and Jordon posted in one of threads that says it all, IMO.

MiniDiva wrote:If we as viewers were oblivious to the guys backstory, SM, etc., as well as JoJo, would we be see a love story between Jordon and JoJo?  The answer for me is yes.  There is a sweet vignette of JoJo and Jordon posted in one of threads that says it all, IMO.

Can you find it ? tia ?

nd4reality wrote:

MiniDiva wrote:If we as viewers were oblivious to the guys backstory, SM, etc., as well as JoJo, would we be see a love story between Jordon and JoJo?  The answer for me is yes.  There is a sweet vignette of JoJo and Jordon posted in one of threads that says it all, IMO.

Can you find it ? tia ?

Posted July 3rd in Jordan Fan forum, created by @Dessler I believe. Great video, love it!

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