Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #4

Seriously, I keep trying to like Jordan. Dude admit what you did and know that JoJo wasn't going to dump you. Now I am waiting for the women he cheated on Brittany with to come forward. JoJo's head was screaming he is lying as she pointed out all his tells and then her little heart screams I don't care love me and forgive me Jordan. Just yuck. I still like JoJo, but I really want to scream, listen to your own instincts.

Well you guys have not nicknamed him BB for nothing. He's the BBJ.

This season is turning out damn hilarious. Must watch television IMO.

From the facial expressions Jo was giving BBJ, you could just tell that she knew he was being sketchy... But then the words coming out of her mouth and her actions towards him is a completely different story. I just don't get it. I mean, I DO, cause its unfortunately a common occurrence in a lot of young women. But still...its just tough.

Even if post show, she thinks she's happy, hopefully watching it all back and seeing people say on SM that he's a dumb azz, will give her a new perspective on it and open her eyes... Kathy is STILL tweeting about him though, so not yet...

IMO.

Alanna wrote:

BKay wrote:Maybe Jo's dad was cold and aloof so she keeps recreating that relationship with guys - classic loveless dad syndrome.

No, not at all from everything we've ever seen of him and her brothers! Unless it's all bs, he seems like the most loving and devoted dad to all the kids and especially to her as she's the total baby and the only one from this 30 year marriage. And those uber protective, present big brothers? She's definitely not starving for love, at least from what we know/see.

Yeah, it's more likely that she's lived such a sheltered life that she only sees the good in people. That's why she keeps giving them too many chances. I lived a very sheltered youth as well and trusted people far too easily in my early 20's. "Luckily" I came by a couple of liars and proper sociopath within a small time frame and realised some people are just rotten, even if they appear normal at first glance. Thanks to that I was practically paranoid for a while and did a lot of introspection since I blamed myself for being so gullible. Haven't been able to blindly fall for anyone since then and I consider that a good thing. It's best to determine people's true character first before letting your hormones take over.

I don't know what to believe.

Jordan said he didn't physical cheat but he was texting girls and so on.

RS and his ex said he cheated. What mode/mean of cheating are they talking about?

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:From the facial expressions Jo was giving BBJ, you could just tell that she knew he was being sketchy... But then the words coming out of her mouth and her actions towards him is a completely different story. I just don't get it. I mean, I DO, cause its unfortunately a common occurrence in a lot of young women. But still...its just tough.

Even if post show, she thinks she's happy, hopefully watching it all back and seeing people say on SM that he's a dumb azz, will give her a new perspective on it and open her eyes... Kathy is STILL tweeting about him though, so not yet...

IMO.

Who is Kathy?

I think JoJo has been given plenty of familial love in her life. I do remember her saying on RFL though that her parents were always busy (obviously since they're both DR's), so Ben was kind of the father figure.. Maybe that has something to do with it..? Idk. Just throwing things out there..

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:From the facial expressions Jo was giving BBJ, you could just tell that she knew he was being sketchy... But then the words coming out of her mouth and her actions towards him is a completely different story. I just don't get it. I mean, I DO, cause its unfortunately a common occurrence in a lot of young women. But still...its just tough.

Even if post show, she thinks she's happy, hopefully watching it all back and seeing people say on SM that he's a dumb azz, will give her a new perspective on it and open her eyes... Kathy is STILL tweeting about him though, so not yet...

IMO.

I agree with everything you said, especially the bolded. And then she runs into Robby's arms
But what do you mean with your last sentence? Who is Kathy? A close friend of Jojo?

ElonM wrote:I don't know what to believe.

Jordan said he didn't physical cheat but he was texting girls and so on.

RS and his ex said he cheated. What mode/mean of cheating are they talking about?

He didn't say texting. He said talking.

ElonM wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:From the facial expressions Jo was giving BBJ, you could just tell that she knew he was being sketchy... But then the words coming out of her mouth and her actions towards him is a completely different story. I just don't get it. I mean, I DO, cause its unfortunately a common occurrence in a lot of young women. But still...its just tough.

Even if post show, she thinks she's happy, hopefully watching it all back and seeing people say on SM that he's a dumb azz, will give her a new perspective on it and open her eyes... Kathy is STILL tweeting about him though, so not yet...

IMO.

Who is Kathy?

Her best friend.

traveler90 wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:From the facial expressions Jo was giving BBJ, you could just tell that she knew he was being sketchy... But then the words coming out of her mouth and her actions towards him is a completely different story. I just don't get it. I mean, I DO, cause its unfortunately a common occurrence in a lot of young women. But still...its just tough.

Even if post show, she thinks she's happy, hopefully watching it all back and seeing people say on SM that he's a dumb azz, will give her a new perspective on it and open her eyes... Kathy is STILL tweeting about him though, so not yet...

IMO.

I agree with everything you said, especially the bolded. And then she runs into Robby's arms  
But what do you mean with your last sentence? Who is Kathy? A close friend of Jojo?

Yes, her best friend. Kathy tweets about the show every Monday. She's been doing it since last season. She gives some subtle hints in her tweets. She was always mentioning Jordan and Robby. Last night she only mentioned Jordan in a positive way. She's the girl that said "if you're so passionate about it, go write it in a journal" to someone who was complaining about Jordan two weeks ago..

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:I think JoJo has been given plenty of familial love in her life. I do remember her saying on RFL though that her parents were always busy (obviously since they're both DR's), so Ben was kind of the father figure.. Maybe that has something to do with it..? Idk. Just throwing things out there..

My gawd Ben, you done screwed up!!!

mindless wrote:

Alanna wrote:

BKay wrote:Maybe Jo's dad was cold and aloof so she keeps recreating that relationship with guys - classic loveless dad syndrome.

No, not at all from everything we've ever seen of him and her brothers! Unless it's all bs, he seems like the most loving and devoted dad to all the kids and especially to her as she's the total baby and the only one from this 30 year marriage. And those uber protective, present big brothers? She's definitely not starving for love, at least from what we know/see.

Yeah, it's more likely that she's lived such a sheltered life that she only sees the good in people. That's why she keeps giving them too many chances. I lived a very sheltered youth as well and trusted people far too easily in my early 20's. "Luckily" I came by a couple of liars and proper sociopath within a small time frame and realised some people are just rotten, even if they appear normal at first glance. Thanks to that I was practically paranoid for a while and did a lot of introspection since I blamed myself for being so gullible. Haven't been able to blindly fall for anyone since then and I consider that a good thing. It's best to determine people's true character first before letting your hormones take over.

Ok, so that theory is out. It's just so odd to me for a girl with a super-involved dad and two older brothers to chase a guy who isn't much interested in her. Maybe I'm typecasting, but generally speaking the girls I've known with Jo's family situation value themselves very highly and expect to be chased.