Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #4

iamreal2u wrote:Yes..  no quotes today..just lumber, shaymooney and something about rivers.

K thanks.

stuckinsc wrote:

soccermom333 wrote:

sosleepy wrote:

Right. Totally. Her rodeo. Her heart. Her business.

But I think it's fair that we, as viewers, could be disappointed in this beautiful, vivacious woman falling back into her same ole, same ole date a bozo trap. It's just kinda sad that she's been spouting off about needing to feel safe and protected  for how long now? Since like January on our screens... And Jordan is her end game.

Haha!  She doesn't really care about feeling safe and protected....she just wants Jordan and all his hotness.  It is all about how he makes her FEEL.  And she wants him!  :Nod:

And I say good for her! I don't see forever with these two, but I see a really hot romance that they can look back fondly on and maybe just maybe they will make it long term. But I am okay with her following her heart, her libido, and her butterflies. JMO.

The last part !! "Heart, libido, and butterflies"

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:

Alanna wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:Has BBJ liked anything on IG today?

I don't think so. I think they did have a shv and haven't returned home yet. Neither has been spotted or posted anything with family. Jo esp would have been with her family yesterday if she was back in Dallas imo.

Good heavens, I hope BBJ is treating her with love and isn't logging into Raya the moment she walks into the kitchen for a cup of water.

STILL together? It seems likely that they were together last weekend too. And I don't know about Jo posting anything with family. She hasn't posted much about them at all since filming Bach or ETTE. She DID acknowledge Fathers Day though by posting an old pic of her and her dad.


Amen girl. Seriously.

Girl IDK!! I don't know the depth of love these two hooligans share. Maybe they cannot bear to be apart. Ho hum.

sosleepy wrote:I don't necessarily blame JoJo. She wasn't feeling it with the other dudes, and Jordan is textbook her type. Whatcha gonna do? I kneeeew on Ben's season he soooooo wasn't her type. She would have been bored about 5 minutes after cameras stopped rolling. She wants to be safe, knows what she needs... But she's 25! She's young. I never for one second believed JoJo was a place in her life looking to seriously settle down either. She'd just be wasting Ben/Chase/Luke's time. She'll have fun with Jordan until he burns her too (just like Ed burned Jill; Jef burned Em, etc, etc...) She'll get her media exposure, career launching pad... Then in a few years when she's older and wiser, she herself will probs actually be ready for marriage, and she'll find someone who actually makes her safe. All's well that ends well.

The more she lusts over and begs for Jordon's affection the more it shows her in a bad fake light esp when she keeps carrying on about how in love with Ben she was...IMHO she's not that good of an actress and I never for a second bought that she was head over heels in love with Ben. Again, esp because she herself could plainly see and even voiced that Ben was into Lauren ( almost only )..

I never expected this show to be the place where she finds the man she will spend the rest of her life with. Just like I would never in a million years see her picking somebody that could only offer her a 3 bedroom house as a home after what she's grown accustom to growing up and there's nothing wrong with that, but don't try to sell a story that would make one think she would.. A square peg is never gonna fit in a round hole...

I'm finding this season to be more entertaining off the show than what we've seen on it so far. Maybe because she picked Derek and James for those 2 1 on 1 dates, but I found it a tad boring esp when you could plainly see she was bored herself..

Now for the real life drama, she had better handcuff Jordon since Hope is on the prowl. Hope seems just like Jordon's type.

Alanna wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:

Alanna wrote:
I don't think so. I think they did have a shv and haven't returned home yet. Neither has been spotted or posted anything with family. Jo esp would have been with her family yesterday if she was back in Dallas imo.

Good heavens, I hope BBJ is treating her with love and isn't logging into Raya the moment she walks into the kitchen for a cup of water.

STILL together? It seems likely that they were together last weekend too. And I don't know about Jo posting anything with family. She hasn't posted much about them at all since filming Bach or ETTE. She DID acknowledge Fathers Day though by posting an old pic of her and her dad.


Amen girl. Seriously.

Girl IDK!! I don't know the depth of love these two hooligans share. Maybe they cannot bear to be apart. Ho hum.

LoveDovez wrote:

sosleepy wrote:I don't necessarily blame JoJo. She wasn't feeling it with the other dudes, and Jordan is textbook her type. Whatcha gonna do? I kneeeew on Ben's season he soooooo wasn't her type. She would have been bored about 5 minutes after cameras stopped rolling. She wants to be safe, knows what she needs... But she's 25! She's young. I never for one second believed JoJo was a place in her life looking to seriously settle down either. She'd just be wasting Ben/Chase/Luke's time. She'll have fun with Jordan until he burns her too (just like Ed burned Jill; Jef burned Em, etc, etc...) She'll get her media exposure, career launching pad... Then in a few years when she's older and wiser, she herself will probs actually be ready for marriage, and she'll find someone who actually makes her safe. All's well that ends well.

The more she lusts over and begs for Jordon's affection the more it shows her in a bad fake light esp when she keeps carrying on about how in love with Ben she was...IMHO she's not that good of an actress and I never for a second bought that she was head over heels in love with Ben. Again, esp because she herself could plainly see and even voiced that Ben was into Lauren ( almost only )..

I never expected this show to be the place where she finds the man she will spend the rest of her life with. Just like I would never in a million years see her picking somebody that could only offer her a 3 bedroom house as a home after what she's grown accustom to growing up and there's nothing wrong with that, but don't try to sell a story that would make one think she would.. A square peg is never gonna fit in a round hole...

I'm finding this season to be more entertaining off the show than what we've seen on it so far. Maybe because she picked Derek and James for those 2 1 on 1 dates, but I found it a tad boring esp when you could plainly see she was bored herself..

Now for the real life drama, she had better handcuff Jordon since Hope is on the prowl. Hope seems just like Jordon's type.

Ash has discussed this before. JoJo's type is a mix bag. Cam, Chad, Ben, Jordan are all different in looks, personalities, and interests from what Ash and others have observed.

Just because she wants a certain type doesn't mean she's going to just gravitate to whoever. All the connections have to be there. It's a checkpoint. It's up to her to decide what's high on her list.

And yeah, she lives wealthy. But it looks like she pays for her own luxury living, so I don't think she expects a man to foot her bills. She currently lives in a two bedroom apartment with a roommate..

Hope and JoJo look exactly alike. So if Hope is Jordan's type.. Then that means so is JoJo, at least looks wise.

IMO.

mercieme wrote:

SarahD wrote:
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Again, I'm floored by the double standards applied to women by women.
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This comment is gold & right on IMO. I had to snip the rest of the message out to emphasize it.

I work in a male dominated field which for decades have had fewer women in the corporate level which we refer to as the C suite. After so much analyis done to make improvements, not to my surprise the biggest deterrent to our progress has not been men but other women. I am convinced that the world will continue to be dominated by men because the above quote will continue to hold true till time passes....all jmho.

Yes.

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I really have a bad feeling about BBJ, and I'm not talking about these rumors but only about his interaction with Jo. I saw zero feelings from him, he's not even in the bubbly love. He**, he showed more feelings when Chad was let go! He's also the only one on SM who didn't acknowledge the episode at all. He only liked a tweet about the spa with Robby. I mean, I get that you're going to get heat for this episode and everything that going on but this is the first date with your suppposed fiancée, at least post a picture. I really want to support Jojo's decision but it's really hard...

Trav, I'm nervous for our little lady also with him. He did turn cold and he was pissed when she questioned him, so when she started whining and asking him for affection, I don't think she was being crazy at all. Why she ignores her own instincts I don't know. She's just totally in love.

Maybe Jo's dad was cold and aloof so she keeps recreating that relationship with guys - classic loveless dad syndrome.

I just don't know what she's found in him to be 'in love' with. He's not really trying to charm her. He's making more effort with the guys, IMO. Tbh, I don't see her having real connection with any guys, really, and I mean double sided connection, not just from JoJo.

Unfortunately, IMO, JoJo would see exiting the show single as a loss for her, and it's not an option for her.

BKay wrote:Maybe Jo's dad was cold and aloof so she keeps recreating that relationship with guys - classic loveless dad syndrome.

No, not at all from everything we've ever seen of him and her brothers! Unless it's all bs, he seems like the most loving and devoted dad to all the kids and especially to her as she's the total baby and the only one from this 30 year marriage. And those uber protective, present big brothers? She's definitely not starving for love, at least from what we know/see.