Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #4

sosleepy wrote:I'll say it again. There is a PATTERN for the precious few married club members from this franchise. 5 married couples - 10 individuals. All 10 came into this show at a place in their life where they were READY for marriage. All had a maturity about them - a readiness to put the single life behind them. None of them had crazy rumors with anonymous and not anonymous (Brittany) women, with RS posting left and right about all the intel he's getting about "playa" ways. YES- I know RS says he gets blind items about just about everyone from this franchise, but he said it himself, it's an email or a text here or there, nothing worth running a column over. With Jordan, it was left, right and center, to the point he couldn't ignore it. That doesn't follow the pattern of a person from this show who is ready or able to turn an 8 week showmance into a life long commitment.

By contrast, the last 2 F1's who got this kind of playback were Ed and Jef. I loved both, gave all the same excuses for them that I'm seeing here for Jordan. I'm just not falling for that again. Is Jordan the worse thing ever? Nope. He's a 20-something year old pseudo celebrity, playing the field. Not a huge deal to me, but in no way do I think this will end in a forever thing for JoJo. I just find it really hard to see Jordan bucking these patterns.

bluwavz wrote:@SarahD You make a good point. The other women have been shamed but JoJo has been getting sympathy even though she was warned. How is she different from any of these other women if she picked Jordan knowing what he was? Shouldn't she have known better? Especially if her ex did cheat on her? Then again we have as much proof that Chad R cheated on JoJo as we do that Jordan cheated on Brittany. Only one of those guys has been given the benefit of the doubt though.

I like JoJo so I hope this ends well for her but it's hard for me to believe a guy like Jordan miraculously became a changed man and fell madly in love with a woman he barely knows on TV. As nice and beautiful and sexy and great JoJo is, he's probably met a lot of women like her in his real life. The only difference is she's the Bachelorette and comes with other perks.

In the end though I know she will eventually be okay and this Jordan nonsense will become a thing in her past and she'll look back at it wondering what she was thinking. Good luck to her.  

All JMO.

Alanna wrote:Guys, what can "we" women do about this situation with the wicked wicked BBJ???  I don't see how anyone is giving him a pass and really who cares what we think? Jo was the rose distributor and she made her feelings loud and clear.

SarahD wrote:.....snipped....
Again, I'm floored by the double standards applied to women by women.  If the guy is a cheater, it must be the women's fault because they're cheap.  Jojo is on a pedestal but other women who shared Jordan's bed are all cheap and dogs and it's their fault. ...snipped...

sosleepy wrote:

Alanna wrote:Guys, what can "we" women do about this situation with the wicked wicked BBJ???  I don't see how anyone is giving him a pass and really who cares what we think? Jo was the rose distributor and she made her feelings loud and clear.

Right. Totally. Her rodeo. Her heart. Her business.

But I think it's fair that we, as viewers, could be disappointed in this beautiful, vivacious woman falling back into her same ole, same ole date a bozo trap. It's just kinda sad that she's been spouting off about needing to feel safe and protected  for how long now? Since like January on our screens... And Jordan is her end game.