Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #4

BKay wrote:

mindless wrote:

Alanna wrote:
No, not at all from everything we've ever seen of him and her brothers! Unless it's all bs, he seems like the most loving and devoted dad to all the kids and especially to her as she's the total baby and the only one from this 30 year marriage. And those uber protective, present big brothers? She's definitely not starving for love, at least from what we know/see.

Yeah, it's more likely that she's lived such a sheltered life that she only sees the good in people. That's why she keeps giving them too many chances. I lived a very sheltered youth as well and trusted people far too easily in my early 20's. "Luckily" I came by a couple of liars and proper sociopath within a small time frame and realised some people are just rotten, even if they appear normal at first glance. Thanks to that I was practically paranoid for a while and did a lot of introspection since I blamed myself for being so gullible. Haven't been able to blindly fall for anyone since then and I consider that a good thing. It's best to determine people's true character first before letting your hormones take over.

Ok, so that theory is out. It's just so odd to me for a girl with a super-involved dad and two older brothers to chase a guy who isn't much interested in her. Maybe I'm typecasting, but generally speaking the girls I've known with Jo's family situation value themselves very highly and expect to be chased.

Make that THREE older brothers.

Yeah, I'm not sure. She seems to come from a very loving family...and she seems so confident and smart when it comes to other people and situations, but with men...she sucks.

Love this



https://www.yahoo.com/tv/chris-harrison-blogs-the-bachelorette-1455197329252406.html

via Chris H.blog

"Jordan got the first one-on-one date. After getting the first impression rose, he had really been waiting a long time to get that quality time with JoJo. The date to the island of the seals was out of this world. There are over 200,000 seals that call this place their home and they are friendly, but they are loud, and they are wild. Jordan and JoJo were pretty scared, but it didn’t stop them from jumping in and enjoying it. You can see they have an undeniable chemistry, but that evening they discussed some of the underlying fears that JoJo had. JoJo had been warned that Jordan wasn’t great in a previous relationship, and I think it’s really important that JoJo addresses these fears she has instead of working them all through in her head. Communication is key to all relationships and Jordan and JoJo have a head start on honesty and openness."

I loved this scene, it was hilarious

I'm worried for JoJo too. I was trying to give Jordan the benefit of the doubt but I see no love in his eyes for her at all so far. Just the need to compete and win, both her heart and the guys/viewers approval. Maybe something changes and he does fall for her by the end, but I doubt it. He has too many other options he won't want to have to sacrifice to make this work.

But I'm not a Robby fan either. My hope for Jojo is she dumps Jordan before the ATFR. She would save herself a ton of heartbreak and humiliation later and I think she would have the blessing and support of Bach fans everywhere for not being duped by this guy. I think she could come out of the show more popular than ever if she dumps him.

Happiness and healthiness go hand in hand in a relationship. She may currently be happy, but if she's constantly worried about trust, safety, paranoid, etc. she's not healthy.

IMO.

I hope JoJo read Tracy McMillan's tweets last night..

Btw, Tracy McMillan worked with JoJo's brother Ben on RFL as a matchmaker and dating specialist. Tracy personally has met JoJo. Tracy tweets about the bachelor/ette every Monday. She had some truth bombs about Jordan last night... JoJo follows her on Twitter, I hope she took notes..

We don't know if she is worried or unhappy at this point nor can we predict this in the future.
IMO.

This is one of the few times when I'm dying to hear a breakup announcement at ATFR. She simply deserves better. I don't care if she wants Jordan for whatever crazy reason, she deserves better than a manwhore who has pissed off enough women to fill an entire Bachelor cast. It would be painful to watch her defend this creeper all over the place.

[quote="ElonM"]Love this



https://www.yahoo.com/tv/chris-harrison-blogs-the-bachelorette-1455197329252406.html

via Chris H.blog

"Jordan got the first one-on-one date. After getting the first impression rose, he had really been waiting a long time to get that quality time with JoJo. The date to the island of the seals was out of this world. There are over 200,000 seals that call this place their home and they are friendly, but they are loud, and they are wild. Jordan and JoJo were pretty scared, but it didn’t stop them from jumping in and enjoying it. You can see they have an undeniable chemistry, but that evening they discussed some of the underlying fears that JoJo had. JoJo had been warned that Jordan wasn’t great in a previous relationship, and I think it’s really important that JoJo addresses these fears she has instead of working them all through in her head. Communication is key to all relationships and Jordan and JoJo have a head start on honesty and openness."[/quote]

This is an interesting statement from CH himself, which leads me to believe if Jojo did pick Jordan , then JOR came clean to her, and TPTB chose to edit it out about all the rumors and she knows the "truth" at the end of the day and chose to give him a chance and as she has said herself she believes in second chances"

BKay wrote:

mindless wrote:

Alanna wrote:
No, not at all from everything we've ever seen of him and her brothers! Unless it's all bs, he seems like the most loving and devoted dad to all the kids and especially to her as she's the total baby and the only one from this 30 year marriage. And those uber protective, present big brothers? She's definitely not starving for love, at least from what we know/see.

Yeah, it's more likely that she's lived such a sheltered life that she only sees the good in people. That's why she keeps giving them too many chances. I lived a very sheltered youth as well and trusted people far too easily in my early 20's. "Luckily" I came by a couple of liars and proper sociopath within a small time frame and realised some people are just rotten, even if they appear normal at first glance. Thanks to that I was practically paranoid for a while and did a lot of introspection since I blamed myself for being so gullible. Haven't been able to blindly fall for anyone since then and I consider that a good thing. It's best to determine people's true character first before letting your hormones take over.

Ok, so that theory is out. It's just so odd to me for a girl with a super-involved dad and two older brothers to chase a guy who isn't much interested in her. Maybe I'm typecasting, but generally speaking the girls I've known with Jo's family situation value themselves very highly and expect to be chased.

Actually I've met a lot of ladies like her who are the youngest with overprotective siblings who tend to rebel by choosing the guys big bros cant stand just to stick it to them, this in my experience happens a lot with ministers, pastor's daughters who go the opposite way from what daddy teaches on Sundays as well.

"Communication is key to all relationships and Jordan and JoJo have a head start on honesty and openness."

SURE. He lied to her face about cheating then activates his dating app a month after filming ending. Give me a break.

Has anyone figured out if Jordan really is back on the dating app "Raya" as RS claims?