Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #3

Man I so wish my friends were still on Raya and could see if Jordan did indeed deactivate his account. Oh well.

I don't even need these emails to tell me he's an azz, since his actual confirmed ex called him out on his cheating and fame-mongering weeks ago already. I never thought she did it to draw attention to herself and I don't think these women supposedly emailing Steve did either. They just happen to know he's a crappy individual and want the world to know. I would too. I have no sympathy whatsoever for narcissistic cheaters, and if I could warn some unsuspecting women of their behaviour I sure as hell would. Just like I would report a r*pe. Extreme example, but you get the gist.

I also think there are few things more stupid than totally ignoring a person's past and acting like it's got nothing to do with the present. That's called burying your head in the sand. As they say, the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour. Sure, people can change over time and learn from their mistakes, but I don't consider repetitive behaviour a mistake, more a strong indicator of one's core personality and that rarely changes. Also there's apparently been no time at all between Jordan's past "mistakes" and the present, so how could he have changed? This isn't a 35-year-old who did something stupid in his early 20's, he was apparently still gathering his own harem just before going on the show and is still keeping an eye on what's out there. Just eww.

The womanizing doesn't bother me, but the cheating on Jo within weeks of getting back from filming boggles my mind!! I don't understand how he thought he wouldn't get caught? Does she think she's that enamoured with him that it won't matter? It's worse than Ed, who at least didn't cheat on the lead!

Duke702 wrote:Did she say she didn't know he was on until the episode by episode spoilers? Or did she say that's when she found out he won. Because it makes sense that she found out Jordan won. She could have confused the exact dates, but basically means she found out Jordan won from RS.

The friend claims that she and her friend didn't even know the "business trip" was for the bachelorette until the first email she sent to Steve, which is dated as May 23, so she claims they found out he was on the show on the day of the premiere, which is when he released the episode by episode spoilers.

I have been checking for a response or something from Jo or Jo. Would love to hear, if true, how he gets out of this one.

Jordan liked some tweets. Have to say that I'm surprised that he is acknowledging the existence of the rumours. You have to first of all, Ignore, Ignore, Ignore, and if that fails, Deny, Deny, Deny.

Alanna wrote:The womanizing doesn't bother me, but the cheating on Jo within weeks of getting back from filming boggles my mind!! I don't understand how he thought he wouldn't get caught? Does she think she's that enamoured with him that it won't matter? It's worse than Ed, who at least didn't cheat on the lead!

That's my issue as well.

mindless wrote:I don't even need these emails to tell me he's an azz, since his actual confirmed ex called him out on his cheating and fame-mongering weeks ago already. I never thought she did it to draw attention to herself and I don't think these women supposedly emailing Steve did either. They just happen to know he's a crappy individual and want the world to know. I would too. I have no sympathy whatsoever for narcissistic cheaters, and if I could warn some unsuspecting women of their behaviour I sure as hell would. Just like I would report a r*pe. Extreme example, but you get the gist.

I also think there are few things more stupid than totally ignoring a person's past and acting like it's got nothing to do with the present. That's called burying your head in the sand. As they say, the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour. Sure, people can change over time and learn from their mistakes, but I don't consider repetitive behaviour a mistake, more a strong indicator of one's core personality and that rarely changes. Also there's apparently been no time at all between Jordan's past "mistakes" and the present, so how could he have changed? This isn't a 35-year-old who did something stupid in his early 20's, he was apparently still gathering his own harem just before going on the show and is still keeping an eye on what's out there. Just eww.

Perfectly said, perfectly worded!

Ash2214 wrote:

Duke702 wrote:Did she say she didn't know he was on until the episode by episode spoilers? Or did she say that's when she found out he won. Because it makes sense that she found out Jordan won. She could have confused the exact dates, but basically means she found out Jordan won from RS.

The friend claims that she and her friend didn't even know the "business trip" was for the bachelorette until the first email she sent to Steve, which is dated as May 23, so she claims they found out he was on the show on the day of the premiere, which is when he released the episode by episode spoilers.

For many seasons, I had only thought to look for spoilers (I think I first found RS during Shawns season) when the season premiered. After hearing about and watching UnReL though, I really became interested in the bts and filming process which prompted me to really follow Bens season during filming. Eventually, that lead me to this site. Before bens season though, I only ever thought about the bachelor/ette when it came on tv. I could totally believe that them checking the spoilers was the first they heard about Jordan being on the show because out of site, out of mind. I think a lot less people are looking for the spoilers and giving this franchise the amount of attention some of us on this site do.

hae1001 wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:

Duke702 wrote:Did she say she didn't know he was on until the episode by episode spoilers? Or did she say that's when she found out he won. Because it makes sense that she found out Jordan won. She could have confused the exact dates, but basically means she found out Jordan won from RS.

The friend claims that she and her friend didn't even know the "business trip" was for the bachelorette until the first email she sent to Steve, which is dated as May 23, so she claims they found out he was on the show on the day of the premiere, which is when he released the episode by episode spoilers.

For many seasons, I had only thought to look for spoilers (I think I first found RS during Shawns season) when the season premiered. After hearing about and watching UnReL though, I really became interested in the bts and filming process which prompted me to really follow Bens season during filming. Eventually, that lead me to this site. Before bens season though, I only ever thought about the bachelor/ette when it came on tv. I could totally believe that them checking the spoilers was the first they heard about Jordan being on the show because out of site, out of mind. I think a lot less people are looking for the spoilers and giving this franchise the amount of attention some of us on this site do.

These two women are different than us and it has nothing to do with looking for spoilers. We weren't involved with Jordan. They are claiming they were. The woman who emailed RS claims her friend had a thing with Jordan up until filming. If that's the case, I find that interesting. If she was involved with him, I would find it shocking that she wouldn't once check out his IG or Twitter to see what he was up to when he disappeared during the two month period while he was away for filming. There was proof all over his social media accounts that he was on the show. These two woman were supposedly on a high end dating app. I would be surprised if they didn't have social media accounts and if they didn't check to see what he was up to.

I'm not saying this woman is lying about her once being involved with Jordan and then her friend, but that little tidbit I found a little fishy.

bleuberry wrote:Someone on Twitter called Jordan a Raya of Sunshine.

oh man, this is gold.

At least that Grant guy is probably happy right now. Jordan took the heat right off him. Phew!