Re: Ben Higgins - Lauren Bushnell - FAN Forum - Discussion - #7

[michelle1]

UMM I personally love her more for standing up cause its really sad, i was always disappointed ben never stood up for her, like even jj (regardless of what many think of him) stood up for her. But i do agree in the sense that people now know what her weak spot is. Honestly, people say jojo was a trooper for getting over ben after all that went down, but realistically i think its lauren that has been through hell and back (bens moms comments, two i love yous and all the bullying) just because ben chose her. Major respect for her after the show

[AmoreBella]

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[Guest]

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I know blood tests aren't required for wedding licenses in most states but it would be cool if this was a pre-wedding physical .

[mamahamme]

Does anyone else think he looks really tired? Lauren wearing her hair messy too seems odd. They probably had a rough night trying to comfort her after so much bashing. She certainly is a class act! I would have responded long ago. As I watched the video's that were posted Ben told JoJo he loved her like a friend but he loved Lauren as the woman he couldn't live without. Two different types of love if you ask me. So people need to move on past JoJo. How cruel is all I can say. I'm 200% behind Lauren. She's everything mixed into one. Ben is the lucky one to have found someone so close to perfect as you get.

[nannymargie]

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I know blood tests aren't required for wedding licenses in most states but it would be cool if this was a pre-wedding physical .

They could be going out the country for Ben's charity or taking their vacation like he talked about. I would like to see them getting away from everyone and just spend quality time with each other.

[sosleepy]

UMM I personally love her more for standing up cause its really sad, i was always disappointed ben never stood up for her, like even jj (regardless of what many think of him) stood up for her. But i do agree in the sense that people  now know what her weak spot is. Honestly, people say jojo was a trooper for getting over ben after all that went down, but realistically i think its lauren that has been through hell and back (bens moms comments, two i love yous and all the bullying) just because ben chose her. Major respect for her after the show

I think Ben's initial post was an attempt to stand up for her. Lauren got a toooon of body shame on both the shrimp picture, then the Marina del Rey selfie, back-to-back. Next thing we know she was posting snaps of her killer abs and work out routine, nothing she has ever done before, but I think it was her way of responding to all the body hate she got in the last couple days in a more subtle, classy way. So then, Ben, with his rose colored glasses on, posts a picture of his girl with a loving caption. An attempt to support her and show her love. And honestly, before I started to read the comments and figured out Lauren's response, my only thought was "Awwww... He loves her and he's standing up for her!"  He just didn't think it totally through with his choice of picture and the hashtags,  and of course, it created an opportunity for more body shaming. And then, and only then, did Lauren crack. With the third picture in a row of people being incredibly cruel.

I think they look lovely as always in that blood test picture! I don't think we can say they had a rough night or whatever based on that. I also think if this post caused so much contention between the two, Ben would have simply deleted it. He didn't, so we are probably making a bigger deal out of it than they are. JMO. :cutesmile!:

[AmoreBella]

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[Cinn3]

ImO this is the realest answer she's given thus far... i freakin loved her answer something i would say (we're the same age). Ben has cussed b4 we all do some more than others. & enough is enough... She hasn't asked ppl to think of her with grace and compassion thats something we do on our own. Shes human shes real & still fairly young. We all have flaws & we've witnessed her better sides just like Ben I'm sure.

Ppl have always said negative things on their insta but now its getting worse... whats happening? I think its jealousy that they are still together & prob seeing that jojo does not have a Ben in her group of guys. Charm- i totally agree with ur last few sentences ^^^ she will always carry that cross of ben loving 2 girls and choosing her. Love them both can't wait for their wedding ...and kids...

[July]

ETA: https://www.instagram.com/p/BGaxBXIpfrf/

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And it looks like Ben has his own kickball team too
https://www.instagram.com/p/BGa01Pfmy1l/

[jupi]

Awesome, it's really great how readily these other ladies have accepted Lauren into their group. They're not just Ben's friends anymore, they're hers too

[AmoreBella]

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https://kifac.org/denver-kickball-league/

So it's sports and party at the same time so fun.. They have to play with a cup in their hand

[Georgia Lindsay]

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So it's sports and party at the same time so fun.. They have to play with a cup in their hand

What a fun thing to do. I read the rules, and just couldn't stop laughing at some of them. So every team has to be male and female, so I assume that means Ben and the guys and Lauren and the girls are all on the same team. Let the fun begin.  Happy for them, they stay grounded and real!!

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