Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #7

MiniDiva wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

She has a loose screw IMHO.

@guardianangel  she "is" a loose screw!  

 I think CH is much closer than just a friend and really is her pimp!  

JK!
JMO

Nice to see you!

Maybe this will help her.

She actually thinks she’s a Kardashian. Remember, Kim’s sex tape ? It was mysteriously “leaked”? And helped make her famous which helped make her rich....

Stacia620 wrote:http://www.nydailynews.comu/entertainment/andi-dorfman-dishes-life-bachelor-nyc-article-1.3741486

You can't make this stuff up!

Oh dear god, its worse than I thought.
She gets so much more annoying by the year.
I watched her break Nicks heart after she blatantly lied to him by saying to have confidence & to think of 'all we have shared' then claim it was all his fault for calling her out on tv,  I watched her choose Mr Buzz Light Weight in Josh, then read her tell all book about 'hit it & quit it' .
Now a book all about her exploits in New York.
I am all about equality, I dont see any reason why girls & guys cant date around as much as they want if that makes them happy. However selling your story of sexploits in a book is so tacky and imo unlikely to result in happiness. When Andi does finally meet her 'one' and it gets serious with him, is she going to proudly give him her two books in a big bow.
I am as horrified by the idea of her writing up her dating diary tell all as I would be of reading a single man's list of sexploits. It is not sexism it is just utter bad taste.

All imho
'Single Pair of Pants` by Candy Badscrawl
' Single Crate Of Wine' by MeAndi

Would you rather "talk on TV about making love with one person" or "write in a book about having sex with multiple men"? Which is worse?

You’re right! When nick talked about it, it was below the belt! Now she’s making a living off of doing it to other guys! Shameful

I think rules apply, but not to her. I also believe she constantly says things and then contradicts herself as if once the words leave her mouth she has forgotten they were ever uttered. 
She is a hot mess. JMOAA 
She was a beautiful woman, with a lot of things going for her and appears to be flushing it down the toilet. I don't know where her self esteem is.

Kashathediva wrote:I think rules apply, but not to her. I also believe she constantly says things and then contradicts herself as if once the words leave her mouth she has forgotten they were ever uttered. 
She is a hot mess. JMOAA 
She was a beautiful woman, with a lot of things going for her and appears to be flushing it down the toilet. I don't know where her self esteem is.

Me thinks she is the Empress With No Clothes - the only one in the room who doesn’t realize it.

Kashathediva wrote:I think rules apply, but not to her. I also believe she constantly says things and then contradicts herself as if once the words leave her mouth she has forgotten they were ever uttered. 
She is a hot mess. JMOAA 
She was a beautiful woman, with a lot of things going for her and appears to be flushing it down the toilet. I don't know where her self esteem is.

Kasha -- It's highly likely her self esteem went down the toilet with all the other stuff!!  Or, maybe she never had any real self-esteem in the first place.  JMHO.

Newto wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:I think rules apply, but not to her. I also believe she constantly says things and then contradicts herself as if once the words leave her mouth she has forgotten they were ever uttered. 
She is a hot mess. JMOAA 
She was a beautiful woman, with a lot of things going for her and appears to be flushing it down the toilet. I don't know where her self esteem is.

Kasha -- It's highly likely her self esteem went down the toilet with all the other stuff!!  Or, maybe she never had any real self-esteem in the first place.  JMHO.

She didn't. I think she's a pretty insecure person deep down and that's why she's all about appearances. She puts on this "badass" front, but it's not real which is why she comes across so fake and is constantly contradicting herself with her actions. She was acting insecure and looking for validation all through Juan Pablo's season, until she realised he really doesn't care. Even though I can't stand her, I kind of feel sorry for her. I think she needs to put down the wine and do some soul-searching sober. All JMO.

She has always spoken off the top of her head saying things the viewers want to hear IMO. That is the main reason she annoyed the heck out of me from the beginning. Her PI's during JPG's season were all BS IMHO followed by many more instances followed by her own BS during her own season.

I listened to the GMA interview the other day and she actually made a comment about being terrified of bringing a guy home on the first date. Her poor father, she wouldn't know what he would do to the guy. This is one small example of her BS. I guess Hy is ok she's not bringing home the countless guys she fly's out for, all paid expenses for one night stands.

At times I feel sorry for her and other times I feel she is doing this to herself and should know better but fame has overtaken her common sense IMHO.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IpFzQ3SmOiU

I feel sorry for her. When I say that, I don't say it as a good thing. 
She is not mentally disabled. Cognitively she has choices. She has so many privileges, mentally and physically. 
If she is shorted emotionally, she certainly has financial privileges to get help. 
She is one mixed up kid. I hope her parents and sister reinforce this.

I'm a very compassionate person, but It's hard for me to feel sorry for her for one main reason - I believe the motivation behind most of her choices is just lazyness and I have no respect for that. She could have had a career of her choice, sponsored by her dad, but she dropped law without a second thought because It's just too damn hard to have to work long hours if you can shill and make appearances. She could have continued her career when the Bachelorette fame faded, but no, she clung desperately to that 'writing ' career just so she didn't have to work, hoping to find a rich guy in the meantime. The only way she knows how to market herself is that fake wannabe- Carrie persona. And it just annoys me because I loved SATC and I think the series had a lot of heart and soul beyond the 'sex and cosmopolitans'.