Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #7

Bet2Win wrote:One word comes to mind:  Vapid

And Rabid.

Kashathediva wrote:@MiniDiva
Nice to see you. We missed you. 

Thanks Kasha!  

Kashathediva wrote:

Bet2Win wrote:One word comes to mind:  Vapid

And Rabid.

Another word comes to my mind...hooker.

What an utter mess she is. A 30-year-old going on 16. I just can't comprehend why she thinks it's a good idea to share all that with the world. Anything for a buck I guess. She just comes across as so clueless and desperate. Does she think she's got the better end of the deal if the men pay for her airfare? It's like she feels more important than a random one-night-stand since they spend a few hundred on her travel. All it does is make them feel powerful without the ethical issues involved in paying for sex. I'm sure it's cheaper than a high class escort as well. I hope she at least wanted to have sex with them all after meeting in person and didn't simply feel obligated. Sad.

I can't even imagine what her parents must be thinking. Are they still proud or wondering what the heck happened to their pride and joy? Anyone in their right mind would be mortified.

JMOAA.

The best part, her mother is accompanying her on all these press outings! And she seems proud! Yo Hy’s First wife, you drinking out of that same endless wine bottle that Andi’s got??

According to Andi both she and her parents are so proud that she is a best selling author.

Seriously, this is basically prostitution with payment in planes and Uber’s, what the eff?

@sparkler JMOAA  I don't believe that. I believe MEandI is saying that. 
What I believe is that her parents feel she may not be making the right choices, but they will support her regardless. That's just me. I could be wrong, but they do have another daughter making far different decisions and even though parents always try to love each child equally, they don't always agree with the decisionmaking one might make or the path they have taken. I guess they feel they will support their adult child regardless and hope they see the light. 
It's a challenge being a parent. Little children, little problems. Big children, big problems. It's a different world and I have to constantly remind myself it's not about me, but the kids(if I forget my daughters will be sure to remind me), and at the same time remember they aren't kids even if they act like it at times. 
You never stop being a parent or a mom. 
Now the snarkologist in me says: best seller of books or seller of booty?

ETA
@Alanna ITA.

@Alanna exactly!  But apparently that's not insulting in her opinion.  Only being asked what her rate was?  

Seriously, what happened to her?  I've never been a fan but I thought she was smarter than this.

@Ladybug82
This is awful, but a huge part of me really does believe she told the guy a fee and did get paid. I mean it would buy something really nice to add to her wardrobe.

Doubt she’d ever ask for cold, hard dough but totally think she’d ask for shoes or a bag or whatever in addition to all travel expenses covered because that’s somehow “very single girl living the high life in New York City” instead of straight up sex work, in her mind I think. Nothing wrong with that either if that’s what you want though, just that’s what it is and be okay with it then.

Oh the questions Andi receives in the bedroom...."What are your rates?" is so much worse than "Would you rather?"