Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #7

dw_a_mom wrote:I just don't get it. She was blessed with so many gifts ... Maybe she doesn't have an accurate understanding of her own strengths and weaknesses, and how to maximize her talents? She's too focused on being what she isn't?

yes, many gifts....but missing humility and empathy.

I don't see the straw going in her mouth either, GA. It seems all she is concerned with is being famous and shilling to pay her rent. Unless, of course, Daddy supports her. It saddens me to read comments from (assuming they are )young girls who look up to her and tell her she is their idol. I wouldn't recognize her in any pictures unless she had a drink in one hand and duck lips for the camera. Have some pride and respect for yourself and put in an honest day's work. She is pathetic, still. All IMO.

She hasn't been promoting her book or tours that I can see. How long do you tour for?

I have a feeling in the next month around end of July she'll think of something to get her back in the media.

Just my thoughts:
 The book was on the NYT best seller list for 2 weeks. That was the combined print and e-books portion and then e-book portion alone. It never made the non-fiction hard cover. SO it was always the e-reader that carried it up. 
I think someone connected with her bought up a good amount of hard covers, so it made the "print" list week 1, but did not on week two.  The book's promotion promoted e-reader buying for 2 weeks. After week 2 it was not on the list at all, not even by e-reader. 
This is done and not unusual. That way someone can use the tag "NYT best seller on by their name. 
So after the initial 2 weeks were up, so was the desire and real purchase of the book.
JMO
I wanted to add this is done with "authors". A book can be published and there is a sweet spot of the amount of hard cover that need to be sold in order to make that list the first week in order to reap the reward of the moniker: NYT bestseller.

There isn't talk about the book anymore, by her or the media. I've seen it @ my local B&N but still don't feel like buying it. I've read enough online. :/

Though I'm sure it will be brought up again by a certain someone in a few weeks....

Yeah, her book will probably be talked about again, by MeAndi, once she sees #25 & #26 on BIP & dating some nice girls.  

She can't let them have the limelight, how dare they!!!

JMO

Oh look, she's having wine.   Her fish lips haven't moved since the last pic. Geesh.



Andi Dorfman ‏@AndiDorfman  46m46 minutes ago
When wine and selfies collide...   @jenperos @JamieErdahl

Does the wine ever stop flowing in her presence? Someone may need to do an intervention.

As someone who really liked her and then gradually became more annoyed by her subtweeting, digs, and all around fake-ness on SM, it's been such a nice change, her just living her life, and minding her own business. She can drink all the wine and have all the girls weekends at pool bars or whatever, idc as long as she continues to just do her and ignores her exes.

She is on fire

http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/live-feed/bachelorette-andi-dorfman-fantasy-suite-914569?utm_source=twitter

Oh sheesh. She's like a dog with a bone. I find it interesting that she's simply assuming that JoJo had sex with both guys she went into the FS with. Last I checked it wasn't compulsory to do the deed in there. Not that I care either way, but it's pretty presumptuous of her to group JoJo with Kaitlyn and herself just like that.

As for
"I never thought I would say that the revelation of me having sex in the fantasy suite would turn out to be liberating. But it has, because it’s opened up a dialogue and, in turn, has been a great platform for equality."

Perhaps you should thank Nick then, Andi, instead of still hating on him two years later. He treated you like an equal instead of a "lady".

lovebites8727 wrote:She is on fire

http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/live-feed/bachelorette-andi-dorfman-fantasy-suite-914569?utm_source=twitter

So her saying this, and she really doesn't get it, that's the thinking of a whore????  

"It wasn’t just recklessly having sex, but even if I was, so what? Whether it’s love, lust or just enjoyment, there’s the notion that sex has to happen on a deeper level when it comes to women, but not when it comes to men."

Edited, I moved the last part to the BIP Andi Snark Thread.