The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Social Media - Media - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #4

It isn't JoJo's responsibility to be a role model to women who watch this show. Nobody's perfect. Just because it seems like she has bad judgement when she comes to men, doesn't make her an all around "pathetic" person. She's actually a wonderful role model to women, I'd say. She's kind, shows maturity in difficult situations, loving, honest & loyal (maybe to a fault, but there isn't neccesarily anything wrong with that), doesn't judge, etc. She's a great person IMO.

I don't think anyone that goes on reality TV is a role model to anyone & I have that opinion about public figures in general. I will never ask my friends & family to model their lives after any of these folks 'cos I don't know them on a personal level but to each their own.....jmo

JoJo had her mind made up about choosing Jordan months before filming since she spoke to his Ex about him long before either was announced as being on the Bachelorette.  It all seems completely scripted and preplanned.  I'm sure they will stay together for quite a long while because they both have to prove the naysayers wrong.  I don't see either of them being in a rush to get married so they will have plenty of time to decide if they are each others greatest loves....committed and safe. I have my doubts....lots of them.

JMO

Even though JoJo's suspected ending of her season isn't how I would have preferred it to end and her men aren't all that great...she has still made this season enjoyable for me...and THATS saying something. She's just such a great lead and girl, that I am able to look past all that because she's been doing such a wonderful job and I love her being SO much. Fav ETTE by far despite some questionable mishaps. And the fact that she was able to make it all work despite her slim pickings and crazy bullsh*t...She's just THAT good. Ms. Queen just has that effect. Magical powers, I tell ya'.

Seabear wrote:JoJo had her mind made up about choosing Jordan months before filming since she spoke to his Ex about him long before either was announced as being on the Bachelorette.  It all seems completely scripted and preplanned.  I'm sure they will stay together for quite a long while because they both have to prove the naysayers wrong.  I don't see either of them being in a rush to get married so they will have plenty of time to decide if they are each others greatest loves....committed and safe. I have my doubts....lots of them.

JMO

I really doubt she spoke to his ex at all, let alone when it was said she did: Winter. Seems far fetched. Even for this show. I'm thinking TPTB sprung it on her and she might have spoken to her on the phone or something.

IMO.

To someone up thread who asked me what I think happened (so sorry I can't find to quote), I have no frickin' idea what has or what will happen. No clue. This season so far, on screen and off, just seems more UnReal to me than others. Which is really saying something.

My guess is JoJo knew about Jordan and talked with Brittany because she is friends with her very very very close cousin Darious.  I assume he introduced the two gals.  But JoJo felt a strong attraction to Jordan so he probably was cast to see if they could make a go of it.  Whether the relationship lasts...who knows....but I bet Jordan was cast for JoJo.  Her attraction is OTT toward him...begging and pleading for him to be her HEA.  She is chasing him...not..vice versa.  I don't think anyone else cast ever had a chance.  I think JoJo wants the qualities in a relationship she claims to want but she leads with her sexual attraction first and foremost.....generally not a good idea fulfilling the life partner checklist.

JMO

I don't think she's looking for a life partner at 25 IMO

Seabear wrote:My guess is JoJo knew about Jordan and talked with Brittany because she is friends with her very very very close cousin Darious.  I assume he introduced the two gals.  But JoJo felt a strong attraction to Jordan so he probably was cast to see if they could make a go of it.  Whether the relationship lasts...who knows....but I bet Jordan was cast for JoJo.  Her attraction is OTT toward him...begging and pleading for him to be her HEA.  She is chasing him...not..vice versa.  I don't think anyone else cast ever had a chance.  I think JoJo wants the qualities in a relationship she claims to want but she leads with her sexual attraction first and foremost.....generally not a good idea fulfilling the life partner checklist.

JMO

Brittany isn't friends with Darious. That would be Lindsay, Jordan's brothers girlfriend. And I wouldn't say following someone on Instagram means you're "very very close close friends"...

IMO.

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:Even though JoJo's suspected ending of her season isn't how I would have preferred it to end and her men aren't all that great...she has still made this season enjoyable for me...and THATS saying something. She's just such a great lead and girl, that I am able to look past all that because she's been doing such a wonderful job and I love her being SO much. Fav ETTE by far despite some questionable mishaps. And the fact that she was able to make it all work despite her slim pickings and crazy bullsh*t...She's just THAT good. Ms. Queen just has that effect. Magical powers, I tell ya'.

Aww I love this post. I agree and am going to keep on for Jojo even if I'm not in love with who the F1 is going to (most likely) be.

The timing around Her supposed meeting the ex is very suspect. But then there are many holes with what we are seeing onscreen, her interviews during media arounds, spoilers and rumours. Well literally everything.

Very Unreal yes. Perhaps this is what was planned for the season in the first place. Give the viewing public a solid lead and a crazy storyline. After all they have to keep topping prior seasons somehow.

If Lindsay is Darious friend and not Brittany then aok. My point is by JoJo's own admission and line of questioning she clearly knew who Jordan was last winter.  I doubt it was some random accident that she just happened to meet Brittany...who just happened to bring up Jordan...to JoJo a person she would have no way of knowing knew Jordan....if she didn't.  My point is the whole season just seems entirely scripted.  I doubt much of this season was not preplanned including casting the F1 aka Jordan.

Another example of scripting will be In Touch magazine with Chad's allegations which just happens to show up for JoJo to read in South America.  Another TPTB scripted event to cause upset and drama for JoJo.

JMO