The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Social Media - Media - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #4

soccermom333 wrote:^^^^I don't think it happened like that but the truth will come out.  Jordan is scheduled to be on a local radio show in Dallas.  I am sure he will "clarify."  

Do you mind posting the info/link/radio station/day/time etc. TYIA

I never like it when the exes coming crawling out of the woodwork to make noise and drama. It never looks good for them. But there is a certain caliber of men on this show that tend to avoid that. The Chris Seigfrieds, the Ben Higgins, the Sean Lowes, the Shawn Booths. So far, the Chase's, etc, etc. Somehow they managed to keep past relationships decent enough that women in the past don't feel the need to sell them out. IMO it doesn't speak super highly of Robby, Jordan, Grant's past relationships and dating history that they have so many women left hurt and angry. JMO.

babs wrote:If they broke up, either before or after signing for the show, then obviously the relationship wasn't very solid and probably needed to end.

ITA. I'm just thinking that the decent and right thing to do, would've had the guys properly contact the ex and do the breaking up, not leave them hanging with promises made before. That's cowardly and sleazy. Jmo.

In those cases it's only because the Xes were the ones that
broke it off. 

So, I completely agree with you. Imagine Ryan Sutter having exes coming out of the woodworks bashing him? Wouldn't happen. What's the saying about the company we keep?

I don't agree with what the exes are doing, I think it's lame. Be above that, find happiness within, find yourself first and then find a man to love you completely. That's how you exact your revenge.

But what it does send up are red flags. I'm not looking to date a guy who has a bevy of angry exes out there, just doesn't bode well for me. I can get over the player thing, that happens and then you find the right one and settle down. But to have scorned women all over the place, I'm just not loving that for myself if I'm getting into a relationship.

Just to add my two cents, I find it ridiculous that a friend has to do the "dirty work" for the ex (continously call the guy out.) If you have a problem with what someone has done, be a man/woman and call him/her out yourself IMO. Though, imo, it's better not to call anyone out at all.

Jmo.

If I was the scorned ex, I would consider myself lucky that I found out sooner rather than later and move on, hoping I would pick wiser next time.  I would not go on sm and air that I was played a fool.

https://twitter.com/bacheloretteabc/status/739562449725165569

That gif is so cute and hilarious given the theme of the date even Wells in the corner is adorable.

Touchy freely with Jordan.


And Wells is such a cutie

JoJo leaning against Jordan while laughing. Cute

That's an adorable Gif.

Jojo look so cute.

As far as the ex's go, I've always heard the best revenge is living well and I've always lived by that. Maybe they should do the same. If a man is a player or even worse the next girlfriend will figure it out on her own. IMO.