The Bachelorette - Season 12 - JoJo Fletcher - Social Media - Media - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #4

He shut the phone off, no explanation, he goes on the show, comes back and they spend Thanksgiving Christmas and NY's together? She's ticked off because after the premier he said he put his name out there after they broke up? I think I'd be ticked off way before the premier and the last thing I'd do is spend holidays with him.

What am I missing here?

Here are my about ex's crawling out of the woodwork. It makes them look desperate for attention. I've never understood the reasoning for this. Ex's are called ex's for a reason. Time to move on with your life, ladies! Jmo.

GuardianAngel wrote:He shut the phone off, no explanation, he goes on the show, comes back and they spend Thanksgiving Christmas and NY's together? She's ticked off because after the premier he said he put his name out there after they broke up? I think I'd be ticked off way before the premier and the last thing I'd do is spend holidays with him.

What am I missing here?

I think she's saying they were fine over the holidays and then he abruptly broke up with her and didn't tell her he was going on the show. The friend thinks he broke up with her the day he found out he was going on the show and he's trying to say it was before that. That all happened around Jan. 25th and filming started March 16th. I don't know why she didn't talk to him again in between. Maybe I'm missing something too though.

Ok I know why I'm confused. I'm thinking Bachelor filming ends before TG.

If he just upped and left without breaking up with her, yeah that's a major idiotic move. I don't get the continuous SM vengeful behaviour. No one really cares do they? It's not like he's the first one to do this. The ex's just make themselves look like spiteful individuals. Maybe it's just me, I'm not the type. I'd say so long, have a good life, I don't want to see or think of you again, move on.

If it's true, it shows what type of person he is.

I think I read somewhere that this relationship was for 7 years. If they broke up before he applied then I don't see where he owes his ex an explanation.

GuardianAngel wrote:Ok I know why I'm confused. I'm thinking Bachelor filming ends before TG.

If he just upped and left without breaking up with her, yeah that's a major idiotic move. I don't get the continuous SM vengeful behaviour. No one really cares do they? It's not like he's the first one to do this. The ex's just make themselves look like spiteful individuals. Maybe it's just me, I'm not the type. I'd say so long, have a good life, I don't want to see or think of you again, move on.

If it's true, it shows what type of person he is.

It's not just you. All the "I'm going to embarrass him on sm" posts by the ex's and their friends (in Jen's case) says a lot more about the girls, imo. The cheating, lying guys did what they did (it's on them), now you are showing the world who you are. That's on you, nothing to do with the guy anymore.

I guess the next ex, or friends of ex, will be Robby's.

I think Robby's ex wants him back so she may take a back seat until the dust settles. Let's hope so.

babs wrote:I think I read somewhere that this relationship was for 7 years.  If they broke up before he applied then I don't see where he owes his ex an explanation.

I thought it started in 2014. If it's true that he was talking about marriage and babies in December, I can see why she was hurt by the sudden break up. But, IA, that it's not going to matter to most people, especially since he's out at episode 5 and not a major factor in the show.

I didn't expect Robby's ex to be the one that comes out smelling like a rose in all this. Kudos to her for keeping a lid on it, but I guess episode 5 or 6 might tip her over the edge yet.

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babs wrote:The revenge of the exes

They must've read Andi's book and felt empowered.

Yep! ^^ I see thong flags hanging from multiple kitchen cabinets everywhere.

Mommyof1 wrote:Here are my about ex's crawling out of the woodwork.  It makes them look desperate for attention.  I've never understood the reasoning for this.  Ex's are called ex's for a reason.  Time to move on with your life, ladies!  Jmo.

Yes! Great post. Time to move on for sure. I do think some of the ex's are either looking for attention or like the attention they are getting. ;)

Most won't be relative when the show ends unless they talk to a tabloid then maybe for a couple more weeks after the final rose. jmo

According to JoJo's Twitter, she will be throwing out the first pitch at Heroesbaseball in Dallas on Friday night. Isn't that the weekend she's supposed to have a safe house visit though?

These exes are hilarious, but it also speaks loud of the type of guys these ones are. Jordan, Robby & Grant seem like opportunist users. IMO Jordan's ex was reasonable with her one sm post, but going to all tabloids is just too much. I've never seen vengeful exes like this though. Jmo.