Bachelor New Zealand - Jordan Mauger - Season 2 - Social Media - Media - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #2

Karina wrote:
what is everyone watching now ?  I would like to join I miss the sleuthing

AllAboutLove wrote:

Karina wrote:
what is everyone watching now ?  I would like to join I miss the sleuthing

Currently sleuthing for Bach Australia S4 for Richie as his season is filming. Would love you to join! https://www.bachandbachettefans.net/f236-the-bachelor-australia-season-4-richie-strahan-all-topics-sleuthing-spoilers

Also as GA posted, pre-season sleuthing for Bette Canada S1 is taking place (it will air later in the fall I believe) https://www.bachandbachettefans.net/f242-bachelorette-canada-season-1-all-topics-sleuthing-spoilers and Bette US S12 Jojo airs May 23 and usually there are links to watch for those outside of USA when the season airs. I haven't been pre-season sleuthing so I will just watch the episodes and sleuth like with Jordan's season.

Idlemess wrote:Based on what I've seen so far and read, Jordan is not a cold or unfeeling person... he seems super into his family and his brother's children. There is something to that.

On the other hand, I think the difference is with the show. Who knows the real reason he did it. Was it to further his film/tv career, on a lark, or just the possibility of "finding someone" or "love". I'm thinking that as he went along and through the motions of the show, he did not get that vibe of maybe liking or being super attracted to any of the women (just hypothesizing here)  
Some might say that he was attracted to Naz but I'm thinking that as a living male his interest was peaked and the show must go on and it went... on Naz's sideshow. Jordan went through the motions and picked the one that was most likely to be forgiving although hurt when he chose to end the farce.    

mercieme wrote:God bless Fleur, she put a plea out for folks to stop the backlash against Jordan, love that she did it through a rival media network since media works appears to be a guilty part in all this as well...jmo

Bachelor NZ: Fleur's full statement

The last two days have been an emotional roller coaster. I have felt loved by the extreme outpouring of support from people all over the country and I want to say "Thank you" to every single one of you from the bottom of

my heart. I cannot begin to explain how overwhelmed I am by it all and put into words how much it means.

However, I am feeling physically ill by how badly Jordan and his family are being treated.  They have been verbally abused and sent threats, all of which is completely distressing to them.

Can we for one moment step back and think. Maybe the way Jordan has been portrayed over the last few days isn’t completely accurate and maybe what we see and hear isn’t always 100 percent true.

During the weeks after the show both Jordan and I noticed a change between the two of us and although I hoped that this was part of the process and something we could work through, Jordan told me in a very respectful way that he believed it was fair to go our separate ways because I deserved someone who could give himself to me 100 percent. What went on between the two of us is something only we know. New Zealand wasn’t in the room when I hugged him and thanked him for being honest and respectful. No one would know we are still in contact and supporting each other -- as friends -- through this.

To conclude this statement I want to say that I do not have any ill feelings towards Jordan and the last thing I want is for him and his family to be treated the way they are. Because as someone who knows him on a personal level, I know that he does not deserve this and the way he has is being portrayed is not the guy I developed feelings for.

I don't want to discredit any of the support I have been receiving, because it has meant the world to me, but I ask you to please step back and to focus on what is real and important in our world.

Of course I would have loved for the outcome to be different and to have explored a possible relationship with Jordan, but I am also very grateful for his honesty and integrity and feel we both deserve your support.  

http://www.newshub.co.nz/entertainment/bachelor-nz-fleurs-full-statement-2016051314#axzz48HP8lr00

AllAboutLove wrote:Fleur is a classy lady.

I will say though, Jordan not even speaking to media I still find very odd. He gets Fleur to do it and once again has someone else supporting him more than he is her. It just feels like the same thing he did on the show... I won't ever forget how he called Fleur "Cocky" because she didn't want to have to approach him again and how the girls need to approach him when he wasn't even interested in them in the first place. Seems like Jordan is used to people doing what he wants and making it about him and couldn't be bothered to make the effort on his part.

I would have more respect for Jordan if he just did an interview and said his own the reasons and TPTB/producers won't let him is not enough excuse since Fleur was able to sidestep and Jordan didn't have a problem punishing any girl who didn't approach him while on the show. I don't doubt that his reasons are real - that he felt nothing postshow - but I think he also felt nothing while on the show. Sure that sucks for him if he felt nothing deep with any of the girls but he barely made an effort and it was always about himself, imo.

I agree @AllAboutLove exactly what I have been thinking. Also as lovey as Fleur is sometimes saying things like this can inflame more negativity I notice on SM her plea certainly has not worked with lots of nasty comments and now some about Fleur. Best to leave it alone as Media work are not going to react in an appropriate manner and put rest to all discontentment.
Anyway, good luck to Fleur and hope she finds a man whom she doesn't have to do most of the work for -- even in a breakup.

mercieme wrote:God bless Fleur, she put a plea out for folks to stop the backlash against Jordan, love that she did it through a rival media network since media works appears to be a guilty part in all this as well...jmo

Bachelor NZ: Fleur's full statement

The last two days have been an emotional roller coaster. I have felt loved by the extreme outpouring of support from people all over the country and I want to say "Thank you" to every single one of you from the bottom of

my heart. I cannot begin to explain how overwhelmed I am by it all and put into words how much it means.

However, I am feeling physically ill by how badly Jordan and his family are being treated.  They have been verbally abused and sent threats, all of which is completely distressing to them.

Can we for one moment step back and think. Maybe the way Jordan has been portrayed over the last few days isn’t completely accurate and maybe what we see and hear isn’t always 100 percent true.

During the weeks after the show both Jordan and I noticed a change between the two of us and although I hoped that this was part of the process and something we could work through, Jordan told me in a very respectful way that he believed it was fair to go our separate ways because I deserved someone who could give himself to me 100 percent. What went on between the two of us is something only we know. New Zealand wasn’t in the room when I hugged him and thanked him for being honest and respectful. No one would know we are still in contact and supporting each other -- as friends -- through this.

To conclude this statement I want to say that I do not have any ill feelings towards Jordan and the last thing I want is for him and his family to be treated the way they are. Because as someone who knows him on a personal level, I know that he does not deserve this and the way he has is being portrayed is not the guy I developed feelings for.

I don't want to discredit any of the support I have been receiving, because it has meant the world to me, but I ask you to please step back and to focus on what is real and important in our world.

Of course I would have loved for the outcome to be different and to have explored a possible relationship with Jordan, but I am also very grateful for his honesty and integrity and feel we both deserve your support.  

http://www.newshub.co.nz/entertainment/bachelor-nz-fleurs-full-statement-2016051314#axzz48HP8lr00

Karina wrote:Very good I had to laugh reading this http://www.nzherald.co.nz/entertainment/news/article.cfm?c_id=1501119&objectid=11639003

THURSDAY

Jordan: My agent said the phone would be ringing off the hook with acting offers. I said, "Really?" He said, "Really."


FRIDAY

Jordan: No one phoned. I called my agent, and he said, "Sorry, who is this?"