Bachelor New Zealand - Jordan Mauger - Season 2 - Social Media - Media - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #2

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The Date Doctor: What the Bachelor is really thinking

11:29am Wednesday 04 May, 2016

1. Fleur's fantasy date

What Jordan said:
“The hardest thing is yet to come", and “It’s been a pretty good ride, hasn’t it?”

What Jordan was thinking:
Letting you go will be the hardest thing I’ve had to do on this roller coaster journey so far. Jordan is sitting with Fleur and looking at her when he delivers that line, and I believe this is a warning message. Jordan may have already made his mind up which bachelorette suits him the most. Fleur will need to have a few tricks up her sleeve to pull things back in her favour; but it’s still possible. His comment about the "good ride" was in the past tense.

The result:
Things are not looking good for Fleur.


2. Erin's fantasy date

What Jordan said:
“I cook a pretty good breakfast..."

What Jordan was thinking:
Jordan is priming Erin for the sleepover and gauging her response to his comment about what she eats in the mornings. Jordan perked up when Erin said, “We need to compare scrambled eggs". He translated that comment his way, but he was way off beam. He went on to say: “I think that would be the test, on whether I’m a keeper or not, right?" He added: ”I think things are only just warming up."

The result:
Jordan did not read Erin well.


3. Naz's fantasy date

What Jordan said:
The entire dialogue between them as they lay in the grass by their love nest was open and clear.

What Jordan was thinking:
Jordan spills the beans and tells Naz: “I’ve met someone I’m truly falling for”! Naz replies, “Ditto." Text book stuff on how to reel in this type of guy.

The result:
If there are any Naz doubters still out there, then time to stop it immediately.



The Date Doctor's overview

Erin rejects Jordan’s sleepover request, a high risk decision by Erin, but a decision by a girl who obviously has her head firmly screwed on.

It was quite an awkward situation afterwards, though, and Erin looked to be feeling embarrassed.

Jordan reached for the water glass and just wanted the scene to finish. He became ridged after the rejection, and blinked heavily. Even though he gave Erin a quick kiss, as in acceptance of her decision, he seemed to put his guard up immediately.

It was a sensitive position to be in for the both of them, but if I had been in Jordan’s shoes, I would not have asked her to stay over at that stage in their relationship.

Unfortunately the invitation is mandatory.

Jordan, quite simply, left his romancing of Erin far too late in the series. Naz and Fleur's affections for Jordan are more advanced than Erin's.

There are two types of men in this world - the pursuer and the follower.

Two women - Naz and Fleur - have actively pursued Jordan’s affections and each have displayed differing forms of seduction.

Naz, with her blatant crafty and sexy manoeuvres, and Fleur with her need to be nurtured, both trigger Jordan’s need for affirmation.

Most of the other bachelorettes sat back and expected alpha male behaviour. Sure, he lead them through each date, as any good bloke would - and Jordan for the most part has displayed a gentlemanly and confident manner - but his expectation was actually to be pursued, and hunted down at the cocktail party, and told how deeply they felt for him.

Jordan was genuinely hurt that Erin wouldn’t stay over. He had a suspicion that she may decline, but nothing can really prepare a guy for the big turn down.

I saw his sensitivity again in that scene. In my opinion, Erin brings out the best in Jordan, but I’m not sure he realises what he’s just let go. Did he decide Erin didn't want him enough?

I certainly hadn’t expected this to be a competition of who wants Jordan the most.

SCOUT

HEA wrote:The Date Doctor: What the Bachelor is really thinking

The Date Doctor: What the Bachelor is really thinking

11:29am Wednesday 04 May, 2016

1. Fleur's fantasy date

What Jordan said:
“The hardest thing is yet to come", and “It’s been a pretty good ride, hasn’t it?”

What Jordan was thinking:
Letting you go will be the hardest thing I’ve had to do on this roller coaster journey so far. Jordan is sitting with Fleur and looking at her when he delivers that line, and I believe this is a warning message. Jordan may have already made his mind up which bachelorette suits him the most. Fleur will need to have a few tricks up her sleeve to pull things back in her favour; but it’s still possible. His comment about the "good ride" was in the past tense.

The result:
Things are not looking good for Fleur.


2. Erin's fantasy date

What Jordan said:
“I cook a pretty good breakfast..."

What Jordan was thinking:
Jordan is priming Erin for the sleepover and gauging her response to his comment about what she eats in the mornings. Jordan perked up when Erin said, “We need to compare scrambled eggs". He translated that comment his way, but he was way off beam. He went on to say: “I think that would be the test, on whether I’m a keeper or not, right?" He added: ”I think things are only just warming up."

The result:
Jordan did not read Erin well.


3. Naz's fantasy date

What Jordan said:
The entire dialogue between them as they lay in the grass by their love nest was open and clear.

What Jordan was thinking:
Jordan spills the beans and tells Naz: “I’ve met someone I’m truly falling for”! Naz replies, “Ditto." Text book stuff on how to reel in this type of guy.

The result:
If there are any Naz doubters still out there, then time to stop it immediately.



The Date Doctor's overview

Erin rejects Jordan’s sleepover request, a high risk decision by Erin, but a decision by a girl who obviously has her head firmly screwed on.

It was quite an awkward situation afterwards, though, and Erin looked to be feeling embarrassed.

Jordan reached for the water glass and just wanted the scene to finish. He became ridged after the rejection, and blinked heavily. Even though he gave Erin a quick kiss, as in acceptance of her decision, he seemed to put his guard up immediately.

It was a sensitive position to be in for the both of them, but if I had been in Jordan’s shoes, I would not have asked her to stay over at that stage in their relationship.

Unfortunately the invitation is mandatory.

Jordan, quite simply, left his romancing of Erin far too late in the series. Naz and Fleur's affections for Jordan are more advanced than Erin's.

There are two types of men in this world - the pursuer and the follower.

Two women - Naz and Fleur - have actively pursued Jordan’s affections and each have displayed differing forms of seduction.

Naz, with her blatant crafty and sexy manoeuvres, and Fleur with her need to be nurtured, both trigger Jordan’s need for affirmation.

Most of the other bachelorettes sat back and expected alpha male behaviour. Sure, he lead them through each date, as any good bloke would - and Jordan for the most part has displayed a gentlemanly and confident manner - but his expectation was actually to be pursued, and hunted down at the cocktail party, and told how deeply they felt for him.

Jordan was genuinely hurt that Erin wouldn’t stay over. He had a suspicion that she may decline, but nothing can really prepare a guy for the big turn down.

I saw his sensitivity again in that scene. In my opinion, Erin brings out the best in Jordan, but I’m not sure he realises what he’s just let go. Did he decide Erin didn't want him enough?  

I certainly hadn’t expected this to be a competition of who wants Jordan the most.

SCOUT

Karina wrote: @AllAboutLove The questions have not been done because I bet Fleur is F1 and all the Naz predications are a diversion tactic ??????

Fleur on IG. wrote:life_as_fleurHahah @trident_of_the_swamp. I'm in Hawkes Bay atm, staying with my parents for a bit

iamreal2u wrote:Reality Steve who, not needed, they give the winner away themselves.  Naz just posted another picture with Jordan and Fleur just said this on her IG

Fleur on IG. wrote:life_as_fleurHahah @trident_of_the_swamp. I'm in Hawkes Bay atm, staying with my parents for a bit

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