Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #6

When Kaitlyn told Shawn about sleeping with Nick, Josh actually tweeted out during the episode that he respected Kaitlyn for respecting her relationship with Shawn by telling him the truth as soon as possible. We obviously now know why Josh tweeted what he did.

I know she says she was scared to lose him, but maybe it would have lessened the blow a bit if she was honest from the beginning. I would imagine being lied to for a couple of months, finally being told the truth and then having Nick spill it on live television while his family was having a charity event must have been difficult to handle. They're both at fault, but man, Andi is just foolish with all of this.

I don't know how her book will do but she got so many followers and seem to love her . Who knows ?

This is a he say she say , it might not be true that he called her those names. JMO, I am inclined to not believe what she is saying, no way was he that a abusive and she was that happy, in hiding and after the reveal. oh, if he was that abusive, how come she was still holding on and even went back for more. Dude rejected her and she IMO, is acting like a woman scorned. Unfortunately, this is what sells and salacious stories like the embellished tales she's telling is what makes the news these days  and her advisors/ publishers will be smiling to the bank.
Another thing, her relationship was very public and she presented a whole different picture, so what is really the truth? I was indifferent about her but this is a woman scorned kind of stuff. She sure has gotten back at the dude for not allowing her post happy sappy relationship status on sm.  Just my rambling.

yana_bach wrote:I dislike Andi as much as the next girl, but even if she told him 1 hour before the finale, no woman deserves to be called those words for something the majority of leads have done. She might be unlikeable, but Josh ain't no walk in the park either...

I don't think that Josh is an angel by any means, but I really think she is a first class spoiled, entitled b*tch. I thought that about Pookie half way through JPab's season and everything she has done since has only confirmed that opinion...over and over and over again.

I don't think much of any of them that sleep with several different people during FD's, but that is just me. It isn't necessary and nobody can force them to do it. If it is not such a big deal and the majority of them do it, why did she try conceal it from Josh? Because she knew it he wouldn't like it. In the heat of the moment a lot of things are said. I'd like to know what exactly she said to him since I remember her reaming out not only JPab, but also Eric, for almost no good reason. One agreed with her and the other one questioned her. How dare they! These were two guys she could care less about. I can only imagine the ugly coming out of her when in a full fledged fight with the "love of her life" when she didn't have to protect her image from the cameras!

It seems that Andi just continues to blame everyone else for her issues. Josh didn't want her working? Doesn't look like it since they have been broken up for a while and she has yet to return to work. She continues to dig her own hole. I would be mortified if I was her parents, but then again, they helped to create this prima donna and seem to be supporting her so, perhaps not.

Who knew after that little airplane video spoiler was released that F2 (#25), wasn't just a bitter ex, but spot on about all his observations? I would love it if all three ex's got together for some drinks and posted a pic of themselves toasting each other. No need for captions necessary. Just show them happy, laughing and toasting.

I want to remind all that this is a MEandI thread. 
So let's be very careful about who else we discuss in this thread--other couples and other cast should not really be discussed here. I know there are grey areas, let's just all try to be careful. 
Thank you.

Not holding anything back in the FS is just another way to stick it to her ex. I'm betting my Canadian Loonie that chapter is going to be just delightful.

It's no surprise she lied. IMO She faked and lied her way through since JPG's season. If my partner called me those names, it would only be once, because I'd be gone.

Ash2214 wrote:When Kaitlyn told Shawn about sleeping with Nick, Josh actually tweeted out during the episode that he respected Kaitlyn for respecting her relationship with Shawn by telling him the truth as soon as possible. We obviously now know why Josh tweeted what he did.

I know she says she was scared to lose him, but maybe it would have lessened the blow a bit if she was honest from the beginning. I would imagine being lied to for a couple of months, finally being told the truth and then having Nick spill it on live television while his family was having a charity event must have been difficult to handle. They're both at fault, but man, Andi is just foolish with all of this.

I remember this! His tweet didn't make sense at the time because we were all under the impression she was honest with him from the start.  In the excerpt Andi says she thinks he was more upset about her having sex with another man, but it seems obvious the lying really got to him. Trust was very important for him I remember. He talked a lot about it in their first date at the castle and also on the lie detector date.  The fact that she lied to him, regardless of her reasoning, doomed the relationship IMO.  

On RS column today .This is very interesting . Josh comment on Andi's accusing him by calling her a whore . He said he never called her a whore so who is saying the truth then so that means andi is a liar then .

Beach Lover wrote:

Ash2214 wrote:When Kaitlyn told Shawn about sleeping with Nick, Josh actually tweeted out during the episode that he respected Kaitlyn for respecting her relationship with Shawn by telling him the truth as soon as possible. We obviously now know why Josh tweeted what he did.

I know she says she was scared to lose him, but maybe it would have lessened the blow a bit if she was honest from the beginning. I would imagine being lied to for a couple of months, finally being told the truth and then having Nick spill it on live television while his family was having a charity event must have been difficult to handle. They're both at fault, but man, Andi is just foolish with all of this.

I remember this! His tweet didn't make sense at the time because we were all under the impression she was honest with him from the start.  In the excerpt Andi says she thinks he was more upset about her having sex with another man, but it seems obvious the lying really got to him. Trust was very important for him I remember. He talked a lot about it in their first date at the castle and also on the lie detector date.  The fact that she lied to him, regardless of her reasoning, doomed the relationship IMO.  

This is Andi's version. I don't believe her. Of course she claims it was her sleeping with someone else because if it was the lie then it is her fault.

As for the whore thing, Josh and Aaron were harsh to Aaron's ex, so I could see him saying it.

Regardless, as usual nothing is Andi's fault and yeah Nick and a bunch of us here were right. MeAndi and Josh were a toxic combo. Unfortunately, I think unless she starts accepting some responsibility she will be toxic to any relationship. Sharleen was disappointed in Nick at that AFTR, wonder how she feels about her friend MeAndi now?

lovebites8727 wrote:On RS column today .This is very interesting . Josh comment on Andi's accusing him by calling her a whore . He said he never called her a whore so who is saying the truth then so that means andi is a liar then .

That's RS saying what HE would say if an ex accused him publicly of calling her a whore. Josh didn't deny it, he gave a very high road statement.

I believe Andi on this one. But she's a real piece of work and doesn't make herself look any better either.

bleuberry wrote:I believe Andi on this one. But she's a real piece of work and doesn't make herself look any better either.

I believe her also, we've seen this same behavior from Josh and the Animal House Fratboy Parade of his before, but neither of them are looking too sunny here. Just oy vey.