Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #6

yana_bach wrote:I dislike Andi as much as the next girl, but even if she told him 1 hour before the finale, no woman deserves to be called those words for something the majority of leads have done. She might be unlikeable, but Josh ain't no walk in the park either...

I don't think ANYONE is trying to say what Josh said was okay, but it's not okay for her to drag his name through the mud either. Just get over it. (Obviously not that easy but she shouldn't be sharing this with the world)

How meAndi just continue to dig and dig till she gets lower and lower and lower and sadder on the pole of respectable behavior? Is that her #winning?? I hope this is the path for her enlightenment however far down the road she'll gain even a tiny little flicker of it....

P.S. just looking at that instagram post -- forget about the "best memoir" it looks like the most miserable memoir esp looking at the cover page and the amount of negativity plastered on it oooooweeee who ever could have thought that the timid Andi first got our attention cos she was so nervous baring her body for the naked photoshoot group date with #1 is now baring her negative energy to the world....

Say on that ig posted above . Bachelorette dirty secret
oh andi ! Come on ! I just wish she just shut the hell up . But again it is part of her book promotion. She just need to let it go of everything. Okay let say Josh made her life miserable by calling her out some names and treated her like a poop but enough with outing him in public and talked about him on her book like that . For sure her rel with Josh she was not the only victim . Both of them period . Take the high road and live your life . Jmo.

yana_bach wrote:I dislike Andi as much as the next girl, but even if she told him 1 hour before the finale, no woman deserves to be called those words for something the majority of leads have done. She might be unlikeable, but Josh ain't no walk in the park either...

I actually consider all the leads whores since they are getting paid to date, make out and in most cases hook up with multiple people. No judgment here and I don't think there's anything wrong with it, but I do think the word is accurate. :winkie:

All JMO.

Diana wrote:

yana_bach wrote:I dislike Andi as much as the next girl, but even if she told him 1 hour before the finale, no woman deserves to be called those words for something the majority of leads have done. She might be unlikeable, but Josh ain't no walk in the park either...

I don't think ANYONE is trying to say what Josh said was okay, but it's not okay for her to drag his name through the mud either. Just get over it. (Obviously not that easy but she shouldn't be sharing this with the world)

I certainly don't condone his words, but we only have her side of the story - which she is putting out for all the public to read.

Well whatever happened with Nick happened before she was engaged to Josh.  It might have been hard but Josh could have gotten pass that if he didn't keep thinking about it and if he really loved her.  Look Kaitlyn slept with Nick before the FD and Sean seems to have gotten over it and they are doing fine.

Kaitlyn told Shawn before they were engaged, Andi did not.

I think Kaitlyn told Shawn that she slept twice with nick on the actual taping of her episodes . Andi told josh that she had sex with nick after they got engaged .

Kait also didn't lie to Shawn ever and make him look like an idiot defending her. Yikes. So gory

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Exactly! And Andi lied about it first.

I don't in any way agree calling anyone those names. Andi was stupid not being honest in the first place, but she didn't cheat etc. Josh not being able to handle her having sex with someone else is on him.

I also don't agree with airing your past relationship dirty laundry in a book you're making money of, and only tell one side of the story, the other persons faults.

In the end of the day, this will make Andi look petty and bitter. Hope it was worth it for her, but I highly doubt it. Jmo.

Well Shawn and Josh were two different guys . Josh can't get over easily thinking his woman had sex with nick other than him , while Shawn  just want Kaitlyn honest and let it go.