Joelle Fletcher - (JoJo) - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #3

Lucas15 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:Ben is a nice man. Period. If you do searches on him in any way, shape or form that is what is continually a constant. There, IMO, is a lot of good character in him.

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And this is a part of the reason I never saw Ben and JoJo as a viable couple. On their HTD we got a glimpse of the house her parents live in (and that she possibly grew up in). I don't know anything about the neighborhood where it's located, but you don't build a house like that next to a slum, so that house has to be well into the millions. Her father Dr. Joseph Fletcher is a gastroenterologist and her half brother Ben Patton and was "was "the youngest investment manager" at the sovereign wealth fund for the royal family of Abu Dhabi." This is a wealthy family with very accomplished and successful members. JoJo seems to have dated some athletes and her most recent boy friend Chad Rookstool owns and runs a successful hair salon.

Does anyone see a pattern here? This is a wealthy and successful family and JoJo travels in "social" circles many only read about. JoJo is likely to best pair up with someone used to traveling in the same circles as she does. As nice a man as I (we) think Ben is - that isn't who he is and probably isn't who he wants to be. I think JoJo would quickly tire of just a "nice man" and perhaps try to push him into being something he's not and I think Ben would find himself out of place - at least economically - and not like being pushed into something he's not. The potential casting of Jordan Rodgers for the next season of The Bachelorette is more right up JoJo's alley than Ben ever will be.
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Lucas15 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:Ben is a nice man. Period. If you do searches on him in any way, shape or form that is what is continually a constant. There, IMO, is a lot of good character in him.

[IMO]
And this is a part of the reason I never saw Ben and JoJo as a viable couple. On their HTD we got a glimpse of the house her parents live in (and that she possibly grew up in). I don't know anything about the neighborhood where it's located, but you don't build a house like that next to a slum, so that house has to be well into the millions. Her father Dr. Joseph Fletcher is a gastroenterologist and her half brother Ben Patton and was "was "the youngest investment manager" at the sovereign wealth fund for the royal family of Abu Dhabi." This is a wealthy family with very accomplished and successful members. JoJo seems to have dated some athletes and her most recent boy friend Chad Rookstool owns and runs a successful hair salon.

Does anyone see a pattern here? This is a wealthy and successful family and JoJo travels in "social" circles many only read about. JoJo is likely to best pair up with someone used to traveling in the same circles as she does. As nice a man as I (we) think Ben is - that isn't who he is and probably isn't who he wants to be. I think JoJo would quickly tire of just a "nice man" and perhaps try to push him into being something he's not and I think Ben would find himself out of place - at least economically - and not like being pushed into something he's not. The potential casting of Jordan Rodgers for the next season of The Bachelorette is more right up JoJo's alley than Ben ever will be.
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Lucas15 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:Ben is a nice man. Period. If you do searches on him in any way, shape or form that is what is continually a constant. There, IMO, is a lot of good character in him.

[IMO]
And this is a part of the reason I never saw Ben and JoJo as a viable couple. On their HTD we got a glimpse of the house her parents live in (and that she possibly grew up in). I don't know anything about the neighborhood where it's located, but you don't build a house like that next to a slum, so that house has to be well into the millions. Her father Dr. Joseph Fletcher is a gastroenterologist and her half brother Ben Patton and was "was "the youngest investment manager" at the sovereign wealth fund for the royal family of Abu Dhabi." This is a wealthy family with very accomplished and successful members. JoJo seems to have dated some athletes and her most recent boy friend Chad Rookstool owns and runs a successful hair salon.

Does anyone see a pattern here? This is a wealthy and successful family and JoJo travels in "social" circles many only read about. JoJo is likely to best pair up with someone used to traveling in the same circles as she does. As nice a man as I (we) think Ben is - that isn't who he is and probably isn't who he wants to be. I think JoJo would quickly tire of just a "nice man" and perhaps try to push him into being something he's not and I think Ben would find himself out of place - at least economically - and not like being pushed into something he's not. The potential casting of Jordan Rodgers for the next season of The Bachelorette is more right up JoJo's alley than Ben ever will be.
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Lucas15 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:Ben is a nice man. Period. If you do searches on him in any way, shape or form that is what is continually a constant. There, IMO, is a lot of good character in him.

[IMO]
And this is a part of the reason I never saw Ben and JoJo as a viable couple. On their HTD we got a glimpse of the house her parents live in (and that she possibly grew up in). I don't know anything about the neighborhood where it's located, but you don't build a house like that next to a slum, so that house has to be well into the millions. Her father Dr. Joseph Fletcher is a gastroenterologist and her half brother Ben Patton and was "was "the youngest investment manager" at the sovereign wealth fund for the royal family of Abu Dhabi." This is a wealthy family with very accomplished and successful members. JoJo seems to have dated some athletes and her most recent boy friend Chad Rookstool owns and runs a successful hair salon.

Does anyone see a pattern here? This is a wealthy and successful family and JoJo travels in "social" circles many only read about. JoJo is likely to best pair up with someone used to traveling in the same circles as she does. As nice a man as I (we) think Ben is - that isn't who he is and probably isn't who he wants to be. I think JoJo would quickly tire of just a "nice man" and perhaps try to push him into being something he's not and I think Ben would find himself out of place - at least economically - and not like being pushed into something he's not. The potential casting of Jordan Rodgers for the next season of The Bachelorette is more right up JoJo's alley than Ben ever will be.
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Kashathediva wrote:Bringing this forward from the last thread: here

Lucas15 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:Ben is a nice man. Period. If you do searches on him in any way, shape or form that is what is continually a constant. There, IMO, is a lot of good character in him.

[IMO]
And this is a part of the reason I never saw Ben and JoJo as a viable couple. On their HTD we got a glimpse of the house her parents live in (and that she possibly grew up in). I don't know anything about the neighborhood where it's located, but you don't build a house like that next to a slum, so that house has to be well into the millions. Her father Dr. Joseph Fletcher is a gastroenterologist and her half brother Ben Patton and was "was "the youngest investment manager" at the sovereign wealth fund for the royal family of Abu Dhabi." This is a wealthy family with very accomplished and successful members. JoJo seems to have dated some athletes and her most recent boy friend Chad Rookstool owns and runs a successful hair salon.

Does anyone see a pattern here? This is a wealthy and successful family and JoJo travels in "social" circles many only read about. JoJo is likely to best pair up with someone used to traveling in the same circles as she does. As nice a man as I (we) think Ben is - that isn't who he is and probably isn't who he wants to be. I think JoJo would quickly tire of just a "nice man" and perhaps try to push him into being something he's not and I think Ben would find himself out of place - at least economically - and not like being pushed into something he's not. The potential casting of Jordan Rodgers for the next season of The Bachelorette is more right up JoJo's alley than Ben ever will be.
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I totally agree. This just reminded me of Brad 2.0 walking into Chantal's mansion.  Jojo walks in circles with Eva Longoria that her brother dated before.  It's not like Ben is poor by any means but one thing that stuck in my mind is what Lauren said that she was brought up by her parents to work for what you have. Ben and Lauren are cut from the same cloth. Very similar lifestyle, core values, etc.  

Jojo is just from a different circle. She drives a BMW. I don't think a typical 24 year old will be driving a BMW a couple years after you graduate coming from your hard earned money when you have student loans to pay. Not that I'm impressed or envious of her wealth...just a different circle.  Not a match for Ben. That's why I never saw them because I read about her before this season. I gave it the benefit of the doubt coming in to this season because I really thought she was pretty.  But after that M&G and BenLo's first date, I was on the BenLo train. BenLo are just perfect for each other.

Lucas15 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:Ben is a nice man. Period. If you do searches on him in any way, shape or form that is what is continually a constant. There, IMO, is a lot of good character in him.

[IMO]
And this is a part of the reason I never saw Ben and JoJo as a viable couple. On their HTD we got a glimpse of the house her parents live in (and that she possibly grew up in). I don't know anything about the neighborhood where it's located, but you don't build a house like that next to a slum, so that house has to be well into the millions. Her father Dr. Joseph Fletcher is a gastroenterologist and her half brother Ben Patton and was "was "the youngest investment manager" at the sovereign wealth fund for the royal family of Abu Dhabi." This is a wealthy family with very accomplished and successful members. JoJo seems to have dated some athletes and her most recent boy friend Chad Rookstool owns and runs a successful hair salon.

Does anyone see a pattern here? This is a wealthy and successful family and JoJo travels in "social" circles many only read about. JoJo is likely to best pair up with someone used to traveling in the same circles as she does. As nice a man as I (we) think Ben is - that isn't who he is and probably isn't who he wants to be. I think JoJo would quickly tire of just a "nice man" and perhaps try to push him into being something he's not and I think Ben would find himself out of place - at least economically - and not like being pushed into something he's not. The potential casting of Jordan Rodgers for the next season of The Bachelorette is more right up JoJo's alley than Ben ever will be.
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grace8136 wrote:IA.. I'll think she has the personality and looks to be a great bachelorette and the guys will be fighting over her, but how many guys that are actually a good fit for her would sign up for this show? They are busy with their careers. jmo

pander3575 wrote:If I was one of the guys I'd be worried about her brothers.