Jordan Rodgers - Bachelorette 12 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

I don't feel sorry for any of them. If you are going to split with someone to be on this show, then you tell them upfront, that's what you're doing.

The ex is referring to cheating. IMO it has nothing to do with going on the show but more of what has gone down in the past.

The fact that he specifically said he mistakenly let football take over his love life is probably what ticked her off. IMHO.

ITA, IMO him rewriting the what went down between them ticked her off. If he's going to use their relationship on the show, then tell what happened, including the cheating.

I'm all for people spilling the beans if they're bought up on the show. Why the heck not? Jmo.

I mean Jordan is only 27, that is what most guys do especially those into sports, they have women throwing themselves at them. I bet the ex was still holding out hope of a future reconciliation. She seems not over him hence the outburst on IG. It probably stings he is moving on and watching his chemistry with Jojo didn't help matters.

I know plenty of men in their 25-30's who are not players, that is not an excuse.

IIRC contestants wait to share info such as cheating, divorce, children, "famous" siblings, etc. until some kind of relationship has been formed. I doubt viewers expect full disclosure at the meat-n-greet. IMHO.

FLChica wrote:IIRC contestants wait to share info such as cheating, divorce, children, "famous" siblings, etc. until some kind of relationship has been formed. I doubt viewers expect full disclosure at the meat-n-greet. IMHO.

Then they don't need to bring up their past relationship up on the show either. Most contestants don't even mention their ex or past relationship, it's not necessary at all. Behind their 'intro sl' is another human being, and using their mutual past on the show is a bit douchey, especially if the contestant treated the ex badly in the past. IMO it doesn't have to mean that the ex is even holding out hope for getting back together. It's just inconsiderate and hurtful. IMO.

Diana wrote:I know plenty of men in their 25-30's who are not players, that is not an excuse.

Same. Also, there's sleeping with loads of women because you can and then there's cheating because you can. Those don't have to go hand in hand. If you want to sleep with multiple people then stay single, simple as that.

I'm not gonna judge Brittany just yet. She was just reacting to the BS she saw him spouting on national TV on her own SM account. Hardly means she's hung-up on him and trying to ride his fame. I might change my tune if she starts giving tabloid interviews, but for now she's just speaking her mind on her own SM and she's free to do that as far as I'm concerned.

What a total butterface this guy is. There were hotter guys she could have invested in. JMO.

If someone lied on national TV that I was involved with, I'm pretty sure I'd like to make it clear what really happened. If he was so into his football career and didn't cheat, I bet we wouldn't have seen that tweet.

BTW I found it odd and someone can CMIIW, before he went into the mansion he said "nice seeing you". If I've never met anyone before, I'd say nice meeting you.

If I knew someone that I've met before, and see them again, I'd say nice seeing you.

I'd like to listen to that again, however not sure if I can find a viewable link.

There's one thing I don't get. Let's say Jordan did cheat on her (which we don't know for sure, right?) Why was Brittany still following him and had his pictures on her social media until recently? If I were the one cheated on, I surely wouldn't have kept his pictures. I would have erased him from my life. Instead she deleted his pictures when she found out how far he had come on the show. Why now? Why not do it right after the breakup? Did she still hold onto some hope of reconciliation? Or did none of the cheating happen and she is just bitter and wants to get her name out there? (didn't Nikki's ex do something similar?)
This is all of course just speculation, thoughtsthat were going through my head, and IMO. Of course, I don't condone cheating, if he did cheat, he's an a** but if that's the case I understand her logic even less...
And as @FLChica said it, people don't talk about this stuff at the meet-n-greet or in an intro-video. I know that JJ told Kaitlyn that he cheated on his wife while she was pregnant with Gemma (?) but maybe someone remembers if he says something of that sort in his intro-video (if it was shown)?
Although, there's always a chance that Jordan changed. A lot can happen in 2 years. I hope he really fell for Jojo, or if he didn't change, that she's in on it. I liked Jo^3 connection and chemistry and think they make a cute couple but I'll still be catious with all these rumors flying around... I don't want to be burned again like I was with Andi/Josh...
*Ducking because I know this won't be a popular opinion*

No need to duck. The similarities are very mysterious IMO.

GuardianAngel wrote:If someone lied on national TV that I was involved with, I'm pretty sure I'd like to make it clear what really happened. If he was so into his football career and didn't cheat, I bet we wouldn't have seen that tweet.

BTW I found it odd and someone can CMIIW, before he went into the mansion he said "nice seeing you". If I've never met anyone before, I'd say nice meeting you.

If I knew someone that I've met before, and see them again, I'd say nice seeing you.

I'd like to listen to that again, however not sure if I can find a viewable link.

See, I found it odd that he said "finally!" when he got out of the limo, as if they had been talking about meeting for some time...