The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Women Tell All -*Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Kristen Baldwin ‏@KristenGBaldwin
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Well no matter what happened in that few days, he says he and his fiancé are fine now and happier than ever. He redeemed himself somehow.

Rolly wrote:

2observe wrote:So did he tell Jojo about him being in love with Lauren???  I'm more than a little confused right now.

I wonder if he told her because JoJo asked him. Yikes! This will be a hard finale to watch.

They hid on a bathroom floor because in reality tv they are told that the only place they have real privacy is the bathroom. This I know because my daughter dated a reality tv editor for many years.  They were hoping not to be overheard. Both parties(Ben and JOJO are reality tv vets)

That preview is disturbing and I don't think it bodes well for Ben and whomever his chosen one is.. Yikes.

aviej wrote:Hmm, I was looking at both Amanda and Becca to see if they can give out any clues as to what the outcome would be given that they are close to both Lauren and JoJo respectively. Is it just me or was Amanda a bit angry at the end when they showed the previews...

Maybe she knows the hell Lauren went through . Jmo.

He did keep JoJo in the loop and didn't blindside her. The loop wasn't very nice, but she was well aware.

Diana wrote:He really shouldn't have proposed. I love Ben and Lauren but Lauren deserves better than this and so did JoJo.

I agree. Usually the lead pulls away from the F2 in the finale, which makes it a little bit better, but Ben is full throttle with both of them still. Like his mom said, it's kind of disturbing. I find it a bit sickening how many times he told both girls he loved them in this last episode. I haven't even seen the full scene yet, but that bathroom scene with JoJo is going to be tough. Even Amanda looked mad and was shaking her head.

I personally won't believe a word he says post finale about either girl because in my mind, he's going to be trying to say all the right things, whether it's how he really feels or not. Yikes.

Kashathediva wrote:

Rolly wrote:

2observe wrote:So did he tell Jojo about him being in love with Lauren???  I'm more than a little confused right now.

I wonder if he told her because JoJo asked him. Yikes! This will be a hard finale to watch.

They hid on a bathroom floor because in reality tv they are told that the only place they have real privacy is the bathroom. This I know because my daughter dated a reality tv editor for many years.  They were hoping not to be overheard. Both parties(Ben and JOJO are reality tv vets)

:Nod:

imouttatime wrote:Am I the only one relieved that he DID tell both of them in advance (before proposal) that he's in love with both of them? I am relieved as horrible as that must make both of them feel, that this wasn't news to them while watching the show.

I'm not sure he actually told Lauren, but he did tell her that he loved her BUT that his feeling were scattered.

Kristen Baldwin ‏@KristenGBaldwin
OMG it's the most dramatic subtitle... EVER! #WomenTellAll

JoJo knew what she was getting into day 1. I do not mean to sound cruel. Her brother  walked the walk, so she is very aware of the drill.

Fingersandtoes wrote:He did keep JoJo in the loop and didn't blindside her. The loop wasn't very nice, but she was well aware.

Yup. Cannot say he lied to her. He kept his word no matter how messed up he seemed. He just needed to escape the bubble.