Kaitlyn Bristowe - Shawn Booth - Bachelorette 11 - #3 - Discussion

Sprite wrote:

bleuberry wrote:Why doesn't she just smile without forcing her face into that pose. Very Joker-esque.

She probably can't.

AHAHHAHAH. I can't stop laughing at this statement and I think it's because it's probably true....

ETA: She and I are the same age and of course we look nothing alike and have nothing in common (certainly no one filmed me meeting and dating my husband if you think you've seen boring you haven't seen us and our first date at IHOP) but I find she is so different from me. I guess I don't have an instagram and she has one with hundreds of thousands of followers so maybe I would concern myself with changing my face with the help of a doctor or something if I was in her position but... I just can't imagine it. I've also been saving for two years now and have three more to go to get to go to Europe... her life must be nice sometimes. Anyway Kasha, not everyone her age is obsessed with it. I occasionally wear make up when my husband takes me out but I couldn't even tell you how to contour so.... there's that.

lovebites8727 wrote:Hahaa even possessionista would prefer Boothstowe reality show than benlo . This people should shut up

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I completely agree with these two, I think that watching BenLo will be like watching paint dry. They are entitled to their opinion, just like everyone else. When I saw BenLo were getting a show, I thought well that will be boring, I couldn't make it through his season when there were other people to focus on. JMO.

soccermom333 wrote:^^^No one is perfect.  I think Kait has lost some weight but also gained muscle definition from all her working out.  I think she looks great...jmo though.  Happiness agrees with her.  

Diana wrote:the way she brags about being thin makes me uncomfortable. She looks awful and shouldn't be bragging about anything JMO.

dina wrote:she has been extremely bullied for being thin and people called her sick and anorexic in her previous pic, so she posted that pic with that hashtag. some people just have naturally skinny bones, doesn’t mean she is anorexic...

Kaitlyn just like Lauren is naturally thin. So I am okay with both of them getting annoyed at the comments about them being anorexic. I am jealous of the naturally thin thing, but don't think either deserve the nasty comments about their weight. I am also okay with both of the them owning their natural bodies and standing up to those who bully them about their bodies. I think it makes the bullying worse, but I can't imagine how it feels to have people for your whole life probably telling you that you are unhealthy when they don't know you and have no idea if you are eating, or healthy or whatever. I don't agree with bullying fat people like me, so I can't agree with bullying those who are naturally thin, and I will not criticize them for embracing the way they are made. Again JMO.

Ladybug82 wrote:If she didn't say rude, negative things and bully back those that made negative comments or simply comments she didn't like back on her SM, I might feel more for her.  But to claim to be all about anti-bullying she does it or sets her fans up to do her for her quite often.  JMO.

This is the problem with Kaitlyn, she bullies right back about everything. If it was just about the thin thing, I would be on board, but she does have a general victim mentality that makes it hard to feel bad for her.

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GuardianAngel wrote:Goodness gracious. I'm looking through her IG which I haven't done in I don't know how long. Has she had major work done? She looks completely different.

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Her and Andi are doing something to their faces. I don't understand why a 28 and a 31 year old are using filters and botox? Are they that insecure?

Its the picture before her bff wedding and her makeup was done by a makeup artist.we all know how contouring can really change your face... i think its just makeup jmo

She is also smiling widely in the top pic and has her mouth closed in the bottom pic. When I smile widely my eyes crinkle and I can look squintly where normally I almost look a little bug eyed. I had to take a photo for my relatively new job id and they don't allow you to smile with your mouth open or teeth showing because it can throw off facial recognition software. So to me the pics are apples to oranges. Plus those huge fake eyelashes that lots of women are wearing now make the eye shape look different as well. JMO.

Kaitlyn has no class.

The I'm thin, I'm in Paris hashtag isn't in response to being bullied, it's an in your face bragging...as if being thin and in Paris is the be all, end all, neener, neener, neener.  Imo.

bleuberry wrote:Why doesn't she just smile without forcing her face into that pose. Very Joker-esque.

It is highly probably if she had lip fillers and botox around her laugh lines that the face being shown is her best attempt at a natural smile. 
I am not joking.
The acquaint. of mine has the same type smile at 29. She gets all her work for free as she is the doctor's NP. It's like the face is frozen.

I'm curious if they will go to a game while in Paris, the Euro 2016 is happening right now. I know they're american / canadian, but still... there must be a reason they would go to Paris right this time, where all the hotels are probably 3x more expensive than usual and the city is even more crowded with tourists.

Didn't they get a free trip based on promo or something? That could be why they are there at this time. 

Bet2Win wrote:Kaitlyn has no class.

The I'm thin, I'm in Paris hashtag isn't in response to being bullied, it's an in your face bragging...as if being thin and in Paris is the be all, end all, neener, neener, neener.  Imo.

This sums up exactly how I feel about her.
I would much prefer somethin like "I am thin I am in Paris my fiancé is hot my clothes are cute, #lifeisgood", instead of laughing at someone else.

Camera angles skew and distort faces sometimes. I don't have a particular interest in Kaitlyn, but I do care about women in general.

Sometimes, with the contestants on this show, I try to think about their personal psychologies. The composite personality of an individual who would go on a reality show is likely an extrovert who enjoys, if not craves, attention; possibly an adrenaline junkie who loves thrills, adventures, excitement, spontaneity, and change. Structure is probably boring to them, which might explain the reason that the more normal contestants seem uninteresting. Equally, these types of people who seek attention are also super sensitive to criticism. It's probably not the smartest combo to put these types of people on a TV show, but TPTB do, they get a dramatic story, and this board exists b:c an audience enjoys the trainwreck.

If Kait decided to do any type of facial or body alterations, it's likely the result of insecurities. Yes, these contestants choose to thrust themselves into the "spotlight" so they possibly warrant any criticism that comes their way, but I often just feel badly for them.

Kait is a beautiful girl just like so many other leads and contestants who go on these shows. The audience only sees a sliver of who they are. Like average people, everyone curates what the world knows of them, but the reality, the truth underneath that is often so much deeper and vulnerable and raw.

I feel for anyone who is mistreated. Hurt people hurt people. I wish her a lot of love.

How about thank you to whoever it is that sent them to Paris, thanking the people of Paris, comment how beautiful it is, how lucky you are, and leave yourself out of it completely.

Paris was one of the most beautiful cities I have ever visited. You could lose yourself there.

veg_out wrote:Camera angles skew and distort faces sometimes. I don't have a particular interest in Kaitlyn, but I do care about women in general.

Sometimes, with the contestants on this show, I try to think about their personal psychologies. The composite personality of an individual who would go on a reality show is likely an extrovert who enjoys, if not craves, attention; possibly an adrenaline junkie who loves thrills, adventures, excitement, spontaneity, and change. Structure is probably boring to them, which might explain the reason that the more normal contestants seem uninteresting. Equally, these types of people who seek attention are also super sensitive to criticism. It's probably not the smartest combo to put these types of people on a TV show, but TPTB do, they get a dramatic story, and this board exists b:c an audience enjoys the trainwreck.

If Kait decided to do any type of facial or body alterations, it's likely the result of insecurities. Yes, these contestants choose to thrust themselves into the "spotlight" so they possibly warrant any criticism that comes their way, but I often just feel badly for them.

Kait is a beautiful girl just like so many other leads and contestants who go on these shows. The audience only sees a sliver of who they are. Like average people, everyone curates what the world knows of them, but the reality, the truth underneath that is often so much deeper and vulnerable and raw.

I feel for anyone who is mistreated. Hurt people hurt people. I wish her a lot of love.

That's because you are nicer than I am.

Kashathediva wrote:Paris was one of the most beautiful cities I have ever visited. You could lose yourself there.

Was there a city? I got lost in the food. :Nod:

Sorry for double post.