Joelle Fletcher - (JoJo) - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #2

Mommyof1 wrote:I think he's joking.  

Is JJ Lane a producer? Yea, probably a joke.

Wasn't JJ on Kailtyn season? He and Leah were going back and forth last night.

tennischick80 wrote:

Mommyof1 wrote:I think he's joking.  

Is JJ Lane a producer? Yea, probably a joke.

No. He's a jack a$$ former contestant. He was on Kaitlyn's season of Bachette with Ben and was one of the early season villians (ala Lace). Then he appeared in Paradise and somewhat redeemed his reputation.

No, JJ is not a producer.  He was on Kait's season with Ben.  They're friends, live in the same city and hang out.

JJ is known to be sarcastic and a bit of a smart a*s.  He is true though in the fact Jojo is in the F2, so there's no way that Jojo's brothers would be on the WTA.  If they were to appear, it would be at the AFTR.  Don't think he knows or is confirming that the brothers will actually be there just that the dude's rushing when they'd be there.  Let's face it, TPTB would love for them to be there to stir up more drama and wouldn't pass up the opportunity to have them there, I'm sure.

JMO.

Ladybug82 wrote:No, JJ is not a producer.  He was on Kait's season with Ben.  They're friends, live in the same city and hang out.

JJ is known to be sarcastic and a bit of a smart a*s.  He is true though in the fact Jojo is in the F2, so there's no way that Jojo's brothers would be on the WTA.  If they were to appear, it would be at the AFTR.  Don't think he knows or is confirming that the brothers will actually be there just that the dude's rushing when they'd be there.  Let's face it, TPTB would love for them to be there to stir up more drama and wouldn't pass up the opportunity to have them there, I'm sure.

JMO.

And if they show up...and particularly continue going at Ben....it will tell me that they just want more tv time and are looking to extend theirs. They can support their sister just fine off camera...if that is their reasoning for being there.

I believe the spoiler is correct this year but I do react as to happy Jojo seems on SM, even to photos taken shortly after the show stopped filming. I wonder if she has a great poker face or if she wasn't really that in love… or the spoiler is wrong (which would be far fetched imo considering we now also have the photos showing us that she was the first one to the ceremony). Maybe as she realized it wasn't really real as soon as she came out of the bubble?

^^^Or maybe she is happy because she is the next Bachelorette! I think she absolutely is best for the lead. For the majority of the season she seemed so confident and savvy. She is also very sexy.

Maybe she's happy because she got back with Chad and they just have to keep it under wraps until the finale airs ...

I know it's not likely but I still hope the spoilers are wrong. Wouldn't that be something! JoJo is still the better match for Ben IMO I'm sure there is a lot that we don't see but the conversations shown with JoJo seem deeper and more mature. Lauren still seems like a HS crush to me. JMO

If she isn't F1 JoJo would be a great 'ette. She seems like such a well rounded person.... beauty, humor, maturity, intelligence and sensitivity. Whoever ends up as her F1 will be very lucky. She deserves much better than Chad.

What gives me some solace is that JoJo seems pretty exuberant post-filming so life must be going well for her right now. I can't help but think Ben gave her the closure that she needed to move forward. Good men do that. 

Ok, so he he told her ILY one too many times, but as many have suggested...at least JoJo knows there were genuine feelings there, that she wasn't just being strung along in vain, and that Ben was truly maybe one of the most conflicted Bachelors (that I have seen anyway) near the end. 

I doubt she is back with Chad. She will have fine gentlemen lining up to date her now. I'm sure she learned a lot from her time with Ben. I know there was probably some initial sadness and heartbreak, but I hope she learned she deserves a nice guy who will reciprocate the love she deserves and who treats her with respect (much like Ben did).

ITA, Rolly!  I feel JoJo is the better match for Ben.  He was always laughing and smiling on their dates.  They just mesh well, plus their physical chemistry is off the charts.  As he said all season, "I am more myself with JoJo than anyone else."  That's so important to be able to just be yourself.  Who wants to pretend to be someone they're not?

Miyala wrote:I believe the spoiler is correct this year but I do react as to happy Jojo seems on SM, even to photos taken shortly after the show stopped filming. I wonder if she has a great poker face or if she wasn't really that in love… or the spoiler is wrong (which would be far fetched imo considering we now also have the photos showing us that she was the first one to the ceremony). Maybe as she realized it wasn't really real as soon as she came out of the bubble?

My opinion on Jojo looking happy post show is that if a guy said all the stuff Ben did to me at the end only to pick someone else, I'd be over him pretty fast. That's a pretty good way to demolish the bubble in one swoop.  I'd hope Jojo wasn't angry or bitter, but she probably quickly knew he must really be into Lauren, and he really messed with her head for someone supposed to care about her.  I'd feel totally played. It wouldn't be worth dwelling on an 8 week tv show fling that ended like that IMO, as much as it might have hurt in the moment.

All that said I still like Ben and as a tv viewere am finding the whole thing great to watch.  I just think he is young, inexperienced and got too caught up in being really into 2 gorgeous girls at the same time so made some mistakes. Is there a way to do this thing perfectly?  I doubt it. I'd rather see that in a Bachelor than someone just going through the motions at the end, like Ben was doing with all the rest of the girls, IMO.