The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Episode 7 - Discussion - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

I havent watched many seasons in the last few years... And wasnt going to watch this one as I found Ben to vanilla ... kinda like I felt when Ashleigh was the Bachette, and like that season, I'm finding myself really enjoying it!! I actually get the warm fuzzies when watching Ben and Lauren i can totally see them working out in the lng run.

northernviewer wrote:I havent watched many seasons in the last few years... And wasnt going to watch this one as I found Ben to vanilla ... kinda like I felt when Ashleigh was the Bachette, and like that season, I'm finding myself really enjoying it!!  I actually get the warm fuzzies when watching Ben and Lauren i can totally see them working out in the lng run.  

Same here. I don't even know who Juan or Andi are. ChrisS, well I peeked but it never peaked my interest. With this season, I had to search for an outlet to discuss my fascination with this season. I have to reclaim my RL but I'll hold out till March.

Becca Tilley ‏@beccatilley5 14h14 hours ago
i love yall.Thank u for showing me SO much kindness & love. And @benhiggi -u are wonderful! I feel lucky that I got to know u! #TheBachelor

I'm thinking Becca wouldn't describe Ben as "wonderful" if he had slept with the final 3 girls, crushed her BFF JoJo and betrayed Lauren. She knows if this is going to go down in flames for Ben. Probably a whole lot of hype over nothing (real). jmo.

grace8136 wrote:Becca Tilley ‏@beccatilley5  14h14 hours ago
i love yall.Thank u for showing me SO much kindness & love. And @benhiggi -u are wonderful! I feel lucky that I got to know u! #TheBachelor

I'm thinking Becca wouldn't describe Ben as "wonderful" if he had slept with the final 3 girls, crushed her BFF JoJo and betrayed Lauren. She knows if this is going to go down in flames for Ben. Probably a whole lot of hype over nothing (real). jmo.

Agreed. She wouldn't have mentioned Ben if she thought he was a player in the end! I'm interested to see the WTA to see how everyone reacts to him.

The more I think about the tabloid's piece, the more I think they took a statement like: "Ben took all three women to the Fantasy Suite" and turned that into Ben being intimate with all three women. When one really does not mean the other.

grace8136 wrote:Becca Tilley ‏@beccatilley5  14h14 hours ago
i love yall.Thank u for showing me SO much kindness & love. And @benhiggi -u are wonderful! I feel lucky that I got to know u! #TheBachelor

I'm thinking Becca wouldn't describe Ben as "wonderful" if he had slept with the final 3 girls, crushed her BFF JoJo and betrayed Lauren. She knows if this is going to go down in flames for Ben. Probably a whole lot of hype over nothing (real). jmo.

Good point! I'm sure she's in the know, since she's friends with both of the F2. Hopefully Ben kept it classy.

jcrbil wrote:The more I think about the tabloid's piece, the more I think they took a statement like: "Ben took all three women to the Fantasy Suite" and turned that into Ben being intimate with all three women.  When one really does not mean the other.

Ben also stated he set boundaries because of his faith . That interview was after the Finale was filmed. What those boundaries are, I don't exactly know except, would it not relate to sex ?

Please no Becca for B'ette. 3 seasons is just too much, she's nice, but not very compelling.

Bet2Win wrote:Please no Becca for B'ette.  3 seasons is just too much, she's nice, but not very compelling.

I second this. I'm sick of her face.

I missed the first part of the episode and am watching it now. One of the most cringe-worthy parts...Ben warning the girls that they might catch his parents having sex if they look through the windows! EWWW. He's so awkward sometimes.

IMO.

nothatgirl wrote:I missed the first part of the episode and am watching it now. One of the most cringe-worthy parts...Ben warning the girls that they might catch his parents having sex if they look through the windows! EWWW. He's so awkward sometimes.

IMO.

I thought that was funny and showed charisma. But it makes me wonder if he's heard/walked in on them before

nothatgirl wrote:I missed the first part of the episode and am watching it now. One of the most cringe-worthy parts...Ben warning the girls that they might catch his parents having sex if they look through the windows! EWWW. He's so awkward sometimes.

IMO.

Thank goodness TPTB did not explore that kinky avenue for a group date. MF must have been having an off day.