Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - #4 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Meh blog/YT l it's pretty much the same thing to me cause she will have to update it all the time, only this time it's her voice and not just written words. How will she keep up with both? Not that I care just a wonder

I have to give major kudos to Robert for having a relationship with Becca knowing that she is a virgin and intends to remain so until marriage! Most guys would not go along with that or they might go along for a while, but then become frustrated. Good on him! Jmho.

^^ Is this Becca's first long term, (seemingly) real relationship? Maybe she'll change her mind (or already has). Also, they are new, so there is still time for Robert to get frustrated and back out here. Alternatively, if they are for real in love (who knows, I don't know), sometimes i think the people who wait tend to rush to marriage faster than those that don't.

Becca is a Christian and therefore she feels it is important to wait for marriage. Most people don't broadcast that they are a virgin as it can be an embarrasing topic. My point was that Robert knows what he is walking into up front, so basically he is aware that she isn't going to just give up her "V" card easily. I have always admired that about Becca. She is willing to wait for her husband.

Good question about first long term relationship. I have no idea if she ever had a boyfriend.

If it's true love IMO it won't matter to the guy. Strictly my opinion. They've been hanging out together for awhile now, Robert would have bailed if that was important to him. I admire him for it not being an issue. I always thought he was a sweet guy and Becca confirmed it even more by thanking him for his patience with her.

She's always said the only other guy she's ever really dated was Dez Duron, which seemed like an on-and-off thing for many years where he just wanted to be friends.

Also, looking at Robert and Dez, becca clearly has a type!

Mommyof2 wrote:I have to give major kudos to Robert for having a relationship with Becca knowing that she is a virgin and intends to remain so until marriage!  Most guys would not go along with that or they might go along for a while, but then become  frustrated.  Good on him!  Jmho.

This amazes me, simply amazes me, honestly. Good for Robert to value Becca above having a sexual relationship for however long until they marry.

Oh right, I forgot about that guy. Thanks @nothatgirl

Well she had that on-off relationship with Dez Duron for 4 years or so, but they are childhood friends so I think they always had more of a friendly vibe rather than romantic, since she claimed she'd never been in love.

I do think wanting to wait until marriage scares off a lot of guys, since even if you're fine not having sex for a couple of years it doesn't mean you're necessarily willing to tie the knot before giving it a go. It's a bit of a leap of faith, which might become a viable option once you are in love, but many probably don't even want to get to that point once they learn what's involved. Friendship can turn into love though and then you just have to deal with it. I give Becca credit for sticking to her views, though she's certainly free to change her mind also, if she so wishes.

I'm so glad Becca launched her YouTube channel , but has yet to post an actual video.
Her first video will prob be her in Hawaii modeling for Billabong...

Why the f do you have a launch when there's nothing to actually launch? So incredibly stupid.

Exactly, she should have at least put up a makeup tutorial, or vlog or just SOMETHING