Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - #4 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

I have a question - i watched CS's season, but i can't remember. Did Becca specifically state on the show or afterwards that she's saving herself for marriage? I mean, being a virgin and waiting till marriage is not one and the same - i lost my virginity kind of late, but i had no intention of waiting till i'm married, i just waited for the right person.

I'm not sure Yana... But great question.

I don't know how any body can wait for marriage... unless you get married young of course.

But Hats off to all of you that can or did or is!! I'm just a horny old lady I guess!!!

Yeah, it's kind of like buying a pair of shoes or clothes and never trying them on until the wedding. I don't want to be disappointed with how it fits. I'll try it on a few times or maybe wear it every day just to make sure.

yana_bach wrote:I have a question - i watched CS's season, but i can't remember. Did Becca specifically state on the show or afterwards that she's saving herself for marriage? I mean, being a virgin and waiting till marriage is not one and the same - i lost my virginity kind of late, but i had no intention of waiting till i'm married, i just waited for the right person.

I don't think it was clarified during Chris's season, maybe because the show seems to shy away from any religion related issues. Her virginity didn't even come up until Ashley I was freaking out about hers during a cocktail party and Becca empathetically told her that she's a virgin as well. She has definitely clarified it in some interviews afterwards though that she is waiting for marriage. I waited until the right person as well, but couldn't imagine waiting until I've committed myself to that person for life, since I prefer to know what I'm committing to.

yana_bach wrote:I have a question - i watched CS's season, but i can't remember. Did Becca specifically state on the show or afterwards that she's saving herself for marriage? I mean, being a virgin and waiting till marriage is not one and the same - i lost my virginity kind of late, but i had no intention of waiting till i'm married, i just waited for the right person.

Not sure. On her date with Ben on his season she confirmed she was a virgin for religious reasons when he asked her point blank, so I assumed she was waiting for marriage, but who knows. Someone like Ashley I is I think just waiting for her perfect Aladdin, not marriage.

A little hit OT, regarding the virgin topic.
In where I live, Christian does follow the Bible teaching that they wouldn't have pre-marital sex. I was shocked to know that Christian in the west does not follow this, like Ben H and Josh. They are those faithful ones right?

Actually it was RS that stated Becca is a virgin, before the show got to that part airing.

ByReality StevePosted on January 5, 2015 8:43 am

2) People.com also claimed in a story that Chris took a virgin to the fantasy suites. Well, we know Kaitlyn, Becca, and Whitney were the final three girls who went to Bali for the overnight dates. I can confirm for you that Becca is the one out of those three who is a virgin, so the story is correct.

reality steve . com

‘I’m a virgin and I’m waiting until marriage to have sex,’ she told the camera before enlightening Chris later on.

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Maybe Becca is willing to play.....but will.she.go.all.the.way?

Score touchdown for Robert if that's the case. OR he respects her greatly and is willing to play along. Perhaps he took a vow of "not all the way"

I don't care if they go all the way and snapchat it or periscope it or the aftermath. I don't care if they have a consumation station post wedding like a photo booth. Way past the 15 min mark. Way, IMO.

mindless wrote:

yana_bach wrote:I have a question - i watched CS's season, but i can't remember. Did Becca specifically state on the show or afterwards that she's saving herself for marriage? I mean, being a virgin and waiting till marriage is not one and the same - i lost my virginity kind of late, but i had no intention of waiting till i'm married, i just waited for the right person.

I don't think it was clarified during Chris's season, maybe because the show seems to shy away from any religion related issues. Her virginity didn't even come up until Ashley I was freaking out about hers during a cocktail party and Becca empathetically told her that she's a virgin as well. She has definitely clarified it in some interviews afterwards though that she is waiting for marriage. I waited until the right person as well, but couldn't imagine waiting until I've committed myself to that person for life, since I prefer to know what I'm committing to.

I don't think she herself ever clarified during Chris's season, but I remember Danny Hoyt on AfterBuzz clarifying while he was recapping the season.

(I'm also waiting for the right person, not marriage...no one wants a Charlotte in S&TC situation, amirite?)

Yes, I admire her for her choice, but I'm sick of hearing about it.  Way tooo much personal info.  If she waits good for her, if she decides Robert is the one and goes for it well, then good for her.  I just don't want or need to know.  

Personally, I'm with the ones that think when the shininess, new attention, likes and opportunities dry up, she'll drop him and move on to the next one that can put Her back in the center of all the attention.  She seems to thrive on and crave it.

She is indeed a tease with all the SM playing, baiting and encouraging she does, IMO.  It kept me somewhat entertained during boring Farmer Fred's season, but I'm long over that.  I went from not minding her and somewhat liking her to wishing she'd just go away.  Her time to shine in the bach nation spotlight has come and gone, IMO.  JMOAA

I think of Becca as an attention addict- imo it's her drug, her high and she goes into severe withdrawal if she doesn't get her "fix." And like any addiction, it's progressive- the size of the "dose" needed to get high gets bigger and bigger over time.