Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - #4 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Nice looking

ElonM wrote:I guess its official.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BNLPlmLAfFG/?taken-by=beccatilley

This video shows him off better than vamped site

GuardianAngel wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm still not buying it and think this is a whole marketing thing for Vampped and for herself to remain relevant. Why wouldn't she just come out and say that they're dating if in fact they're a couple? She always ignores the question of whether or not they're dating. Why is that? Is she afraid of the backlash because he has apparently slept with/hooked up with multiple girls from the franchise? Is she afraid because he's not a big name from the franchise? Better yet, why don't we see pics of them on regular dates? It just all seems too fishy to me.

She shares way TMI on social media, and constantly post pics of them during Vampped vacations and Bachelor-related functions, so that eliminates the theory that she'd want to keep the relationship private. We also know that she's a huge attention seeker on SM and to some (including myself), she comes off as a bit phony. She's proven on social media that she'll do or promote just about anything to gain attention and build her brand (IMO even more than Jade), and not to mention she is trying to keep a steady blog. I'm sorry, I'm sure she's a friendly person, but I just don't buy her sincerity and don't trust her.

Thank you, that's exactly how I feel. I was one of the few that liked Robert, when every SM outlet including RS who gossips like my 84 yr old mother, that he was a horndog, and slept with Des's room mate and pretty much hooked up with every women in the universe.  Robert follows everyone on SM, he's always sticking himself at all the functions, he's gross blah blah blah so this is not any negative opinions toward him from me, because I've always liked him.

It's Becca, and her childish behaviour IMO. Yes if she wanted to keep it private, and she wanted to make sure she was feeling it, then stop posting all those IG pics on SM and deliberately saying she was single or that they are just friends. She was posting pics with him before she went on Ben's season. She practically begged Milsy to get a hold of her obviously to be on Ben's season. She was posting very sexual pics all along. If she didn't want anyone to talk about them, then why post pics of her and lying on chairs at some resort, his leg over hers and many other instances. What's wrong with showing off your guy and being proud of him, if you're a couple?  She's not some big celebrity that they have to make an announcement they are a couple after months of speculation.

I hope for Robert's sake they are happy because I just don't trust her one bit.

She wasn't posting any cosy pics with Robert before Ben's season. I think there were some pics of them at the same events, but the first pic that made people raise an eyebrow was posted by Kiptyn a few days after Becca came back from filming Ben's season: https://www.bachandbachettefans.net/t3231p552-becca-tilly-bachelor-20-2-sleuthing-spoilers#886495 People were surprised since they seemed to be holding hands. It's not until some time this year that they started to be around each other on a regular basis and document it on SM, which Robert does almost as much as Becca (he's just less active in general). I'm sure it took them a while to figure out their relationship, since this is Becca we're talking about, the girl who even at a LCD refused to make any sort of declarations or false promises even though Chris tried to drag them out of her in every way possible. She moves at her own pace clearly. Even if they were seeing each other, they might not have been sure if it's serious or something long-term. I wouldn't want to announce a relationship to a million followers until I was sure about it either. It's not like she's tried to hide the whole thing, so I don't really get what the problem is. Are you supposed to hide your budding relationship until you're ready to shout it from the rooftops or keep everyone updated on your every feeling the whole time? It's her life and her SM, she can do as she pleases.

FTR, I think it's kind of cute that it's been like a good old-fashioned TV series were the main hook is the sexual tension between the two leads and everyone's like "Can't they just get together already!", but then we have to wait 3 seasons for a simple kiss. Does that sort of thing even work anymore with people being so impatient these days?

All I'm saying is if she wasn't sure, then don't post a large number of SM pics in provocative manner with a guy who supposedly is just a friend. IMO she was using him. What was the purpose of it? To gauge SM reaction? Would it tarnish her popularity? I think they are cute together, and I'm happy Robert seems very happy, but her teasing behaviour is so childish IMHO.




77w May 31 2015

Well he must've been using her as well then since he was posting pics and vids of her. And the pic above is from one of those events with Bachelor people. Was she dating Zack too?

Maybe she was dating Zack too, to see which one would be more beneficial to her? I have no idea.

It's possible love snuck up on them. Wonder what her family and friends think.

I don't consider Becca 'too good' for Robert by any means. They're both fame whores, she might be a bigger one.
She announced to millions of viewers that she's a virgin, which she really didn't have to and it's incredibly personal information IMO that's no one else's business. So i guess whenever she has a boyfriend people will start to speculate on whether that's still the case or not. Maybe that's why she's hesitant to make her relationship status public? Idk, i would be, but then again I wouldn't make that information public in the first place.

She lives her life out loud. And thinks out loud. And is on social media daily. Living out loud. Over sharing to some. To others they love being included in her life. It's what I see.

Re the teasing thing, it reminds me of all the virgins I knew who flirted up a storm with the notion " You can look but you can't touch." When there is chemistry, Part of the fun is pushing the envelope because you don't allow yourself to go 'there'.

I believe what people in bach nation, and others who know her well, all say about her. She is well liked  and we'll thought of.

JMO

Also, playing the devil's advocate, sometimes the public persona is not the private persona. I believe everyone has the potential to have "the stranger" syndrome (Billy Joel).
I doubt if this applies in this case, but it can't be ruled out to a certain extent for most of us, IMO.

I found the video incredibly obnoxious. It's just weird that someone was filming them kissing and cuddling all lovey dovey for a video to post in Insta It seems like she can't get over her Bachelor days, and since she didn't meet Robert in a bachelor set, she made the set herself by having somebody film them. It just seems phony, I mean how weird is it to have somebody follow you with your man while you are kissing and acting all lovey in front of the camera

I am not saying their relationship ain't real. It could very much be real, but the video rubbed me off the wrong way. a Picture of them smooching would've been more than enough! All IMO

That video was shot on their trip to Greece in September. There was a film director on the trip with them who shot loads of promotional videos, since that's kind of the point of those Vampped "tours", producing SM content. I guess someone put that together for them.