Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - #4 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Beach Lover wrote:

Fingersandtoes wrote:

Beach Lover wrote:^^^ Flirty with him and giving him the idea that she's into him when she's really not in that way.

It could be that they're just friends, enjoying each other's company. And being flirty friends is really fun, uplifting and nice.

It can be fun as long as you're both on the same page.  I just think Robert may really be into her and just biding his time as her "friend" hoping it will turn into more.  My husband swears men can't be that close of friends with an attractive woman without wanting more.  

That's just annoying, tbh. If he wants more than just friendship, he needs to speak up, women aren't mind readers. If he isn't comfortable in the friend zone, and doesn't try to actively change it, let her know he'd like to be more than friends, that's all on him.

But this is all purely speculation, of course. I've got no clue if he's really into her. Lol.

Fingersandtoes wrote:...If he wants more than just friendship, he needs to speak up, women aren't mind readers...

Just speculation...it seems like Robert has tried to take their relationship to the next level but for whatever reason Becca doesn't want to go there. They do spend a lot of time together and seem to have a close bond. Not sure why Becca won't give him a chance. He seems like a good guy JMO

jen689 wrote:

Fingersandtoes wrote:...If he wants more than just friendship, he needs to speak up, women aren't mind readers...

Just speculation...it seems like Robert has tried to take their relationship to the next level but for whatever reason Becca doesn't want to go there. They do spend a lot of time together and seem to have a close bond. Not sure why Becca won't give him a chance. He seems like a good guy JMO

Maybe he's just not her type dating-wise. If that's the case and he's been made aware of that then he should give up on being more than friends and move on. If he hasn't been made aware of that then he should man up and tell her how he feels, because as another poster mentioned, women aren't mind readers.

How do we know that Becca hasn't told him, it won't go any further and she just wants to be friends. If he's ok with that, then it works for everyone. She obviously likes posting cutsie pics of them together, with suspect type comments. As we know, she enjoys playing games.

The pic of her on the plane, where they are looking at each other, she posts that she is VERY familair with this look.

Friends don't say flirty comments like that. IMHO

She's probably waiting until SM comments are all positive before she goes public.

JMOAA  this gal is one hot mess. She doesn't know what she wants.

^^^ Agreed.  And she's very pretty more natural.  Why is it she's almost unrecognizable in so many IG posts?  Lay off the filters and tons of makeup, it's not necessary, IMO.

I liked her during sleuthing and airing of CS's season, but then...

I think she is very naturally pretty, also. I don't understand this mentality. When your are young and beautiful, go with it. Don't fight it. When you get older like me(over 50--much), ok then you might need help. (and I don't mean reconstructive, plastic).

Becca and her bestie Robert together. Again

Lounging by a Food Truck

Jet Skiing at Lake Tahoe

Kashathediva wrote:JMOAA  this gal is one hot mess. She doesn't know what she wants.

And I think she sisterhood JoJo so hard because they both don't know what they want

I was just going to say that. Both these girls don't know what they want. They need some growing up to do without a man...

And that's ok. IMO

I'm usually all for people taking some time figuring themselves out before rushing into relationships, but seems to me like Becca's been single for years now, unless you count some dates on the Bachelor. She might want to start prioritising dating over hanging out with platonic friends all day every day. That is if having a family is her endgame. She's turning 28 this year.

Unless Robert is secretly gay, I don't believe he's happy staying in the friend zone forever. I mean come on now: https://www.instagram.com/p/BIhp50mjAZk/?taken-by=beccatilleysnapchats&hl=en