Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - #4 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Well, she's hit the big time.  She made it onto TMZ in a bikini.  

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Good description gentlemen vs. player -- and good feedback.  

I see no problems with virgins showing cleavage/skin. If a man can't keep his hands, eyes, thoughts to himself..that's his problem. Girls shouldn't have to not dress sexy just because it might send the wrong impression. All women want to feel sexy and/or comfortable in their own skin. Sex and showing cleavage is not the same thing. Just because you're waiting for marriage/the right one doesn't mean you can't feel hot with your body/outfit choices.

IMO.

^^Yep, strictly her choice what she wants to do with her own body.

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:I see no problems with virgins showing cleavage/skin. If a man can't keep his hands, eyes, thoughts to himself..that's his problem. Girls shouldn't have to not dress sexy just because it might send the wrong impression. All women want to feel sexy and/or comfortable in their own skin. Sex and showing cleavage is not the same thing. Just because you're waiting for marriage/the right one doesn't mean you can't feel hot with your body/outfit choices.

IMO.

Thank you. She's not in the Middle Ages, good for her imo. That said, I think it's high time for her to get a new title

Alanna wrote:

Lennoxcolinrolland wrote:I see no problems with virgins showing cleavage/skin. If a man can't keep his hands, eyes, thoughts to himself..that's his problem. Girls shouldn't have to not dress sexy just because it might send the wrong impression. All women want to feel sexy and/or comfortable in their own skin. Sex and showing cleavage is not the same thing. Just because you're waiting for marriage/the right one doesn't mean you can't feel hot with your body/outfit choices.

IMO.

Thank you. She's not in the Middle Ages, good for her imo. That said, I think it's high time for her to get a new title

You're welcome This is the 2,000's. What Becca is wearing is NOTHING compared to what women (virgins, teenagers, mothers, cougar women, etc.) wear on a daily basis. Have y'all listened to what pop culture is all about in the media? I mean...Becca wearing a low cut romper is no biggie compared to all the crap out there. I just don't like the double standard where it's fine for men to walk around shirtless around the house, beach, anywhere. But if women walk around in a sports bra/bikini, they're "corrupting men" because their boobs are hanging out. Like..that's human anatomy! All that being said, she DOES need a new title. How about "Cleavage Virgin"?

IMO.

I think she almost always looks great. Society is far too sex obsessed. Whatever she is wearing, she is wearing it for her and shouldn't have to be worried about being seen as a "tease" because she won't go to bed with a man. JMO.

I always liked what I saw of Robert, but RS has lumped him in with the guys that troll all the fresh "meat" after each season.  He never came across that way to me on his Ette season or BIP though.  Either way, Becca wouldn't be an easy conquest so that wouldn't be what he was after. I'm thinking they probably just have a nice friendship but they would be cute together if they did start dating.

Becca was much more conservative while sleuthing during CS season. I don't care what she wears, but IMO she's over doing it because a lot of her choices simply don't look good IMO. It's as if she's going from one extreme to another.

Whether she's a virgin or not, and this goes for all the others as well, I personally wouldn't be wearing anything that requires tape from one end of my body to another. Her choice, not mine. I just feel it's unnecessary to let the girls all hang out, or skirts up the ying yang, what's the purpose. There are a lot of feminine outfits that you can look sexy in, if that's the goal.

Is it common knowledge that she's still a virgin though? Maybe she isn't, IDk.

Duke702 wrote:Is it common knowledge that she's still a virgin though? Maybe she isn't, IDk.

She better be. I don't want to know that I had to listen to her saving herself for marriage a cuzzillion times and now she's not?

It could have happened since then.
oops.