Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #3

bachfanforever123 wrote:Just re watched ep 6 last night and I have to say I was really impressed with the way Lauren handled the situation. She was very composed and calm the whole time even though I'm sure she was angry/confused. I thought it was interesting when she looked away from him and sighed. Ha it was like in her mind "So someone's jealous in the house" It was a very realistic and normal reaction, it showed her frustration.  I liked that she didn't lash out on Ben. Instead she waited until after they were done talking to break down. I think she was trying to hold in her tears in the whole time so finally after he left & talked with JoJo she cracked. IMO, she didn't want him to see her so upset. I'm glad that she also didn't play the "victim card", yeah she addressed her concerns to the girls about why someone would do that but honestly if she was being phoney, she would be crying a waterfall with Ben, to make him feel bad, wondering how dare he questions her, because she's so "sweet". That would have been 100% manipulative to me. She did the exact opposite and broke down in front of her girls instead. (I'm probably biased but she looked so adorbs when she's crying). I've always truly believed that if someone was fake, their true colors will show soon. I've learned this from past experiences. Lauren has a resting B.. face sometimes, but I do too tbh so I can relate to her.  People thought I was stuck up bc of that until they got to know me. Seeing how she's still friends with many girls in the house in the show, and in real life confirms to me she seems genuine. I don't know her personally, so who knows if she's real or not but from what I've seen she seems authentic. I try not to judge too harshly on these contestants just because   we see a very edited version of them. It's usually post show that I can get a better feel on who seems to be the same as they were on TV. So far, I like Lauren a lot. JMHO.

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I'm not looking for a miracle. Look, it doesn't matter to me (obviously ) if anyone agrees with my point of view about anything to do with this show or not, but I do know I am allowed to state it without being questioned or criticized. 

I 100% believe it is possible to see something later that you missed or felt differently about before. I've changed my mind about people or things based on new information. I think it happens often with people on this show especially, due to the manipulation of the truth (due to edits) for some of these contestants. Being able to see things differently though can only happen, imo, if viewers are open-minded and aren't too proud to be wrong.

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