Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #3

I mean it's great to have different opinions like I think if anyone is phony it's Caila.

Did you guys see bens tweet last night about fixer upper. That's Lauren's favorite show. If that's not a clue I don't know what is.

dpao84 wrote:Did you guys see bens tweet last night about fixer upper. That's Lauren's favorite show. If that's not a clue I don't know what is.

I was just about to post about this because I saw it on my feed! They are too cute with their fixer upper and pizza clues.

megaa wrote:They're both tall & lean with long-limbs. I think it's a cute height/frame couple comparison.





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woah that kissing pic with the kids...aren't these the kids that he mentors? very interesting. he must be proud to be seen with her for him to be so affectionate in his hometown standing amongst kids he mentors... as someone who has a "mentoring/advisor" relationship with younger people I find that to be a telling move -- i.e. taking a girl/guy you're dating and being infront of your mentees and being so affentionate.
in the pic of him walking in with her to a place he's spent so much time volunteering he has a beaming smile.

somebody please give me some clues to how to have a butt like hers  

Lauren's date next week is very telling. He's taking her to a place that's important to him to do something that he cherishes: interacting with kids and mentoring them. If they end up together, his volunteerism will continue no doubt. It also allows Ben to see Lauren in action with children. He'll witness her maternal instinct; as a bonus, kids, as opposed to peers, are the greatest sleuths of all when it comes to a person's character. They just know when they experience real. Lauren also loves basketball. Lastly, she meets his friends!

I see Ben chasing Lauren hard and doing whatever he can to affirm her. After seeing her cry last week, he gives her one of the best dates he possibly could. Ben said on their first date, "I want this girl to really know me" (paraphrase). He's no doubt doing just that, IMO.

^^ After the mid-season preview I was wavering but when I saw the kiss infront of his "kids", it convinced me that she's the one.

Those date pics are great!! I can't wait till Monday! For weeks we've had to just see bits and pieces of them on group dates but this coming week we will get to enjoy just the two of them on what seems like an amazing day!!

veg_out wrote:Lauren's date next week is very telling. He's taking her to a place that's important to him to do something that he cherishes: interacting with kids and mentoring them. If they end up together, his volunteerism will continue no doubt. It also allows Ben to see Lauren in action with children. He'll witness her maternal instinct; as a bonus, kids, as opposed to peers, are the greatest sleuths of all when it comes to a person's character. They just know when they experience real. Lauren also loves basketball. Lastly, she meets his friends!

I see Ben chasing Lauren hard and doing whatever he can to affirm her. After seeing her cry last week, he gives her one of the best dates he possibly could. Ben said on their first date, "I want this girl to really know me" (paraphrase). He's no doubt doing just that, IMO.

Your paraphrasing is perfect if my memory serves  
I think he was a goner the moment he told us "this girl is changing me"

I don't know..she seems fun to me:


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What I'm seeing from the episode pictures is that Lauren is doing her own thing with the girls and Ben is doing his own thing with the boys.  It is so great that they are not clingy and can be in the same place, aware of each other but still able to be individuals.  Really important for a great relationship imo.

iamreal2u wrote:^^ After the mid-season preview I was wavering but when I saw the kiss infront of his "kids", it convinced me that she's the one.

When I looked at the disney pics, there weren't any kissing ones. Could you reply back with the link and how to find the kissing pics?

sophienette wrote:

veg_out wrote:Lauren's date next week is very telling. He's taking her to a place that's important to him to do something that he cherishes: interacting with kids and mentoring them. If they end up together, his volunteerism will continue no doubt. It also allows Ben to see Lauren in action with children. He'll witness her maternal instinct; as a bonus, kids, as opposed to peers, are the greatest sleuths of all when it comes to a person's character. They just know when they experience real. Lauren also loves basketball. Lastly, she meets his friends!

I see Ben chasing Lauren hard and doing whatever he can to affirm her. After seeing her cry last week, he gives her one of the best dates he possibly could. Ben said on their first date, "I want this girl to really know me" (paraphrase). He's no doubt doing just that, IMO.

Your paraphrasing is perfect if my memory serves  
I think he was a goner the moment he told us "this girl is changing me"

Absolutely, Sophie! That's not a casual comment at all... that's spoken out of love (and so early on).