Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #3

sophienette wrote:

Tiggerlgh wrote:I am in wait and see mode.  Maybe they were asked by tptb not to follow/ like his posts similar to them reaching out to Sharleen.  

I am always surprised when a couple does actually last after the show. But it would be a quick change if they were having trouble already.  

Bens actions towards Lauren B does remind me of Brad with Emily.

But Lauren's actions towards Ben are vastly different to Emily's!

how are they different? it's not irony or anything, I'm genuinely curious, didn't watch the whole Emily/Brad journey

Also Ben didn't mention Lauren in hist latest blog AT ALL, I thought he would at least mention the strolling, so that adds up to my paranoia

limoncello wrote:

sophienette wrote:

Tiggerlgh wrote:I am in wait and see mode.  Maybe they were asked by tptb not to follow/ like his posts similar to them reaching out to Sharleen.  

I am always surprised when a couple does actually last after the show. But it would be a quick change if they were having trouble already.  

Bens actions towards Lauren B does remind me of Brad with Emily.

But Lauren's actions towards Ben are vastly different to Emily's!

how are they different? it's not irony or anything, I'm genuinely curious, didn't watch the whole Emily/Brad journey

Also Ben didn't mention Lauren in hist latest blog AT ALL, I thought he would at least mention the strolling, so that adds up to my paranoia

ok...NOT feeling better..

Emily was not forthcoming at all with brad, he had no idea if she even liked him most of the season!

Ben probably did not mention Lauren b in the blog as they were not on a 1on 1 this week also tptb probably told him not to write so much about Lauren

Lauren's brothers were never following Ben on IG. Only her sister was.

Me thinks he's been told told to keep all public mentioning of Lauren to the 0. I wouldn't look at their social media activity at all for clues if they're together now or not.

BlackHalo wrote:I was unaware that her whole family followed Ben on insta. I agree with @nothatgirl, it just seems like he is infatuated with her. It's not promising which is probably why I haven't been invested. JMO.

I was so invested after night one, but my interest keeps slipping. It bothers me because I do like them. I'm hoping it'll turn around. Maybe it's the mid-season blues The preview itself doesn't necessarily worry me. I'm not sure about off-screen things, though...

When Ben was on Juliet's podcast, she mentioned to him that he & his F1 should not live in CA ... and Ben got a little defensive and asked straight away "why do you think that?" I wondered about this, knowing how much Lauren loves the beach life.. it's not much, but sort of stuck out to me.

Maybe we'll all laugh back at this TPTB attempt to cause doubt.

megaa wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:I was unaware that her whole family followed Ben on insta. I agree with @nothatgirl, it just seems like he is infatuated with her. It's not promising which is probably why I haven't been invested. JMO.

I was so invested after night one, but my interest keeps slipping. It bothers me because I do like them. I'm hoping it'll turn around. Maybe it's the mid-season blues The preview itself doesn't necessarily worry me. I'm not sure about off-screen things, though...

When Ben was on Juliet's podcast, she mentioned to him that he & his F1 should not live in CA ... and Ben got a little defensive and asked straight away "why do you think that?" I wondered about this, knowing how much Lauren loves the beach life.. it's not much, but sort of stuck out to me.

Maybe we'll all laugh back at this TPTB attempt to cause doubt.

I also reacted on that he seemed defensive, or almost a little afraid of what she was saying :cutesmile!:

well, let's hope you guys are right

I don't care how the show continues as long as they're solid now, haha. god I'm such a nolifer

I have no doubt he picked Lauren. It's so obvious from how she's never ever brought up on Bachelor Live. It's like CH knows that Ben will give it away somehow, if her name is mentioned.

Her brothers never followed Ben on social media. Only Mollie did. Usually tptb don't want a lot of family following and liking things. It gives stuff away. About him posting a gif of him and Jojo...well do you really think he would do that if she was F1? No.

Miyala wrote:

megaa wrote:

BlackHalo wrote:I was unaware that her whole family followed Ben on insta. I agree with @nothatgirl, it just seems like he is infatuated with her. It's not promising which is probably why I haven't been invested. JMO.

I was so invested after night one, but my interest keeps slipping. It bothers me because I do like them. I'm hoping it'll turn around. Maybe it's the mid-season blues The preview itself doesn't necessarily worry me. I'm not sure about off-screen things, though...

When Ben was on Juliet's podcast, she mentioned to him that he & his F1 should not live in CA ... and Ben got a little defensive and asked straight away "why do you think that?" I wondered about this, knowing how much Lauren loves the beach life.. it's not much, but sort of stuck out to me.

Maybe we'll all laugh back at this TPTB attempt to cause doubt.

I also reacted on that he seemed defensive, or almost a little afraid of what she was saying :cutesmile!:

I also think joining someone who already has a life and friends in CA vs just moving to LA makes a big difference. I am sure she was just saying (I didn't listen) but sure she meant don't move to CA to get caught up in the hype...go live your life.

I do hope they are happy together.

The SM I have seen doesn't scare me at all.