Caila Quinn - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* #2

see2love wrote:

Eviebloom wrote:I relate to Caila and what she said to Ben.  They way she handled that conversation was honest and courteous.  She was saying I am developing real feelings for you, but this is the Bachelor and there are other girls here that talk about their feelings for you to me, too!   She is not just going to go all out and fall in love with him until she has more time with him and also there are not other girls that he is dating.  She is classy, kind and I think very mature.  Her pauses in-between her words were giving her time to think as she spoke.  I felt like it was one of the more real and classy scenes that I have seen in a bachelor episode in a long time.  But that is just my take on it.  Also she reminds me of my nieces and daughter, thoughtful, classy and yet career oriented.  I hope the best for Caila.  I am not sure however if she is suited for the bachelorette.  I think she can do better than that.  But then she might be really awesome, but her season would be much different more cultured.  I would be okay with that.  it is interesting how people take the same situation and see it so differently.  

A girl is cautious and so she is fake? I guess it would have been easier to read and rcecite the same script f I am falling for you and That is it. I like her a lot because she basically said what peole would say in a real lfe situation and did not gve Bachelor speak.
Same way she got flak for being honest about her ex.

Ben faked his relatinship with K ev after the sleeping on Shawn's bed!!! That s FAKE IMHO

MiniDiva wrote:^^This may too much to wish for as TPTB has their own agenda.  But maybe their minions will make note of it as they read this forum.  

If Caila is the next Bette, do you think they would have any TB returnees?  Anyone stand out as a match for her?

Seabear wrote:I think all the cast "clean up" their SM before the shows airs.  Who wouldn't with thousands of strangers coming into your life and over analyzing your every move and action.

My views on finding Caila cultured come from seeing her appreciate museums and art because of my bias as an art collector.  Also from reading her bio and knowing she is well traveled and educated. She shows this side on the show by her style of dress and ability to speak several languages.  Also Caila earns major props from me because she has a decent vocabulary and an understanding of correct grammar when speaking English. I find Caila to be a multi faceted woman and someone who is different that the vapid standard issue Bach/Ette cast.  Ben was very lucky because he had several high quality women to "date" on his season. Thankfully as Ben's own blog affirms he saw those same qualities in Caila as I do.  I don't think Ben and Caila will end up together as they were not the best match BUT I certainly hope TPTB pick Caila as the next Bachelorette.  I also hope that would mean a season full of travel potentially from the USA to Europe to the Philippines and hopefully with some fascinating art filled museum dates along the way.  That would be an amazing journey....

As always JMO

relaxing wrote:

jojo47 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:To me it was pretty clear. She was being asked to verbally express or even reading cards to indicate as certain story line. It appeared she was not comfortable or sure of what to say and transmit and it came across schizoid. Then it was spliced and diced to make it more schizoid. JMO

Ya it was like Ben & Caila were in a play & she was forgetting her lines so they were fumbling thru it.

Exactly how I saw it.  I don't think she was being manipulative.  They wanted her to have some conflicted deep conversation about a fear she can't really fall in love.  As dumb as Ben's "I feel unlovable"  last year but he was able to get his scripted issue out with a straight face and without stumbling over how dumb it was to say.  I think Caila just struggled to backup the lines they wanted her to say because they weren't genuine or her own.  I'm a bit worried at how overplayed her exit will be and she'll be trying to force out a lot of tears and emotion that aren't coming from a real place and it will be awkward.  I'd rather hear what she really has to say and how she really feels, so fail to TPTB

I think she's really sweet and pretty, and def think she's their Bachelorette top choice, but I'm a bit more meh about her than I thought I'd be.  A real, sexy, confident strong girl like Jojo would be a lot better Bachelorette IMO. I miss when the fan fav happened naturally, vs TPTB deciding who should be fan fav/next lead and trying to force it to happen.

bluwavz wrote:

MiniDiva wrote:^^This may too much to wish for as TPTB has their own agenda.  But maybe their minions will make note of it as they read this forum.  

If Caila is the next Bette, do you think they would have any TB returnees?  Anyone stand out as a match for her?

No one stands out as a match to me for Caila and I hope there isn't any returnees next season whether she's the lead or not. A third season in a row of the returnee storyline is overkill. Go on BiP if you want more attention and fame.  

MiniDiva wrote:

bluwavz wrote: I hope there isn't any returnees next season whether she's the lead or not. A third season in a row of the returnee storyline is overkill. Go on BiP if you want more attention and fame.  

  Yes!  Send all the returnees to BIP!