Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #5

Beach Lover wrote:What is she planning to do with all these "courtesy" copies?  I hope she's going to send one to #26 so he has time to digest it all before it hits the stands.  Especially since it's mainly about him. Didn't Courtney send a copy to Ben?  Seems like the courteous thing to do.

andi_dorfman Special delivery today!!! Ahhhh! I guess this is actually happening

I don't get the impression that the book is mainly about #26 but more about her experiences on both the bachelor and bachelorette and how she handled her breakup. It sounds like she is going to be very forthcoming about how she could have handled things better. She said it is an "anti self help" book and I think she wants it to be relatable to women who have gone through similar experiences. This of course is jmo and I know it isn't a popular one. I might be wrong, but it is my opinion that she will do the right thing regarding giving #26 advanced notice.

I would love to see a snapchat of 1, 25 and 26 burning their books in a campfire and roasting marshmallows.

Good post Elle. I hope for her sake you are correct.  No worries about popular opinions or not, it doesn't matter

I personally will not buy the book. I don't want to read about the last time she had sex with Josh before she left for NY or how she told JPG off because he didn't care if she stayed or left.

If I was so in love with someone, and they wanted to split, the last thing I'd do is have sex one more time, for good time sake, then tell everyone I did that.

If I told JPG I'm just not into you and you're obviously not into me, I think I'm going to leave. He says essss okayy I understand. Rather than pull a Sybil I'd thank him for understanding. I don't have any friends that are so self fish and into themselves, I really don't think I could ever be friends with someone like that.

I'll give Andi credit....at least she got one thing right.  Those books do belong in a box on a lower self hidden under a table where no one has to see them.

JMO

Where's nothatgirl when you need her?! Read it and report back girl!

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I just saw that Andi is going to be in Buckhead, Atlanta for a Q&A session and book signing on June 2nd.  Nothing like personally airing your dirty laundry where your ex still lives. Seems like just another twist of the knife.

Beach Lover wrote:I just saw that Andi is going to be in Buckhead, Atlanta for a Q&A session and book signing on June 2nd.  Nothing like personally airing your dirty laundry where your ex still lives. Seems like just another twist of the knife.

Josh no longer lives in Buckhead, he moved a few weeks ago.

Even if Josh still lived there, there's no law that says she has to stay far away from there. Not like Josh will attend it anyways.

It is my opinion that as Andi was born and raised in Georgia that she can go to any city or place that welcomes her to promote her book. So she's only doing what he did to her such as parading his Anna to a Heart Radio Concert where he was joining other bachelors whom all did not bring dates and all know Andi. So if the opinion is that Andi shouldn't promote her book in Buckhead because he used to live there then that should also mean that he should not have brought Hannah to NYC where Andi now lives. All's fair in love and war. Just My Opinion

I don't give a rip where she promotes her tacky tell all. Writing a book about her breakup was a classless move in the first place. Where she promotes it makes no difference to me.

All JMO. :halo:

Since, according to her ex, he is the one who ended the relationship and moved on long ago, why would her appearance in Buckhead be another twist of the knife? He just said in his podcast that he's the happiest he's ever been in his life so I don't think Andi coming to Buckhead should have any impact on him at all. Yes, Andi wrote a book which she will be promoting and her ex is on reality show where he is going to discuss past relationships with a therapist. I'm sure there will be some dirty laundry aired there as well, so I really don't see how one can be criticized without criticizing the other. JMO