Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - #3 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Personally, I think Becca is a very genuine and sweet girl who went on this show again because she truly saw potential in Ben. I don't believe that if anyone else were the bachelor, she would return to the show. From the first night of Kaitlyn's season, she saw something she really liked in Ben. So I don't believe that the reason she returned to the show was to get more fame or change her image. If that's what she wanted, she could've gone on Bachelor in Paradise.

I believe BiP is a no-no if you ever want B'ette.

emilymelfan wrote:Personally, I think Becca is a very genuine and sweet girl who went on this show again because she truly saw potential in Ben. I don't believe that if anyone else were the bachelor, she would return to the show. From the first night of Kaitlyn's season, she saw something she really liked in Ben. So I don't believe that the reason she returned to the show was to get more fame or change her image. If that's what she wanted, she could've gone on Bachelor in Paradise.

So why is she changing her image? All of a sudden she is making out and wanting to jump guys bones when last year she wanted to hold hands. And because she is in this for Ben doesn't do it for me because she said the same thing last year about Chris. She was there only because it was him. I cringe watching her sexed up image. I much preferred her last season.

She had some pretty heavy makeout sessions with Chris too, but the camera usually panned away quickly. I think it's because they wanted to present her as the timid virgin. It didn't fit the narrative to show much physical stuff.

mindless wrote:She had some pretty heavy makeout sessions with Chris too, but the camera usually panned away quickly. I think it's because they wanted to present her as the timid virgin. It didn't fit the narrative to show much physical stuff.

I get that, but she is the one talking about how she is not as boring as presented on SM and then bam, she goes on the show and continues about how hard it is wanting someone and making out right off the bat. She moved a lot slower last season. It just seems to me that she is trying to change the timid virgin into the sexy virgin who is not afraid to make out....and be the next lead.

Well perhaps she's just grown more comfortable with the kissing on camera since last season? People say she has intimacy issues, but then when she's acting more intimate, she should go back to hand-holding? Sounds to me like she just can't do anything right.

^ I think it's just because she's not coming across as authentic.

Watching Becca and Ben with the sex conversation followed by slo mo close up slurpy wet kisses was as horrifyingly awkward as listening to Kaitlyn and Nick doing the deed in her hotel bedroom. Some things cannot be unseen or unheard. I felt like bleaching my eyes. TMI and desperate overshare. :shocked!:    

JMO

GuardianAngel wrote:It's ok to kiss a guy tongue and all on national TV, twice, but you must save yourself for marriage and it will last forever?

FYI it's the anniversary of the Lewinsky scandal.

I too agree with those that say she's trying to hard and IMO it's coming off as awkward. Her skirt was so tight and so short she had to pull it down before she sat down. Totally unnecessary IMO to be wearing clothes so tight solely to look sexy.

To be fair, some of the other girls had some pretty short, tight dresses on...Lauren B. being one of them. Oh, I remember those days, to be in your 20s again, but alas, that ship has sailed for me! Now, I have a flabby "Mommy" tummy. They will too someday!

Those other girls IMO looked great in their clothing. Becca seemed to be struggling to keep it together, I don't think her choice of attire since CS season is very flattering on her.

Seabear wrote:Watching Becca and Ben with the sex conversation followed by slo mo close up slurpy wet kisses was as horrifyingly awkward as listening to Kaitlyn and Nick doing the deed in her hotel bedroom. Some things cannot be unseen or unheard. I felt like bleaching my eyes. TMI and desperate overshare. :shocked!:    

JMO

Sharleen believes this whole conversation was all set up and/or prompted. She said if a conversation isn't one you'd be having at that point in time, chances are it is a producer induced. (paraphrasing). 

Here To Make Friends - A Bachelor Recap Show by The Huffington Post/Panoply
https://itun.es/ca/NCXt7.c

rhondam wrote:

Seabear wrote:Watching Becca and Ben with the sex conversation followed by slo mo close up slurpy wet kisses was as horrifyingly awkward as listening to Kaitlyn and Nick doing the deed in her hotel bedroom. Some things cannot be unseen or unheard. I felt like bleaching my eyes. TMI and desperate overshare. :shocked!:    

JMO

Sharleen believes this whole conversation was all set up and/or prompted. She said if a conversation isn't one you'd be having at that point in time, chances are it is a producer induced. (paraphrasing). 

Here To Make Friends - A Bachelor Recap Show by The Huffington Post/Panoply
https://itun.es/ca/NCXt7.c

Exactly what I've been saying. Prompted by producers so we can once again hear her talk about her virginity and she can show us how much she has changed into a more sexual woman because she had the good fortune to perchance meet perfect Ben. I still can't get past those cherries!