Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - #3 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Most of them continue to ride on the cocktails of this show, the list is endless even some of the beloved couples

^^ Yes, they do. SeanCat anyone?

Duke702 wrote:I've been re-watching last season, and it is so bizarre to me how different Becca is. I really think she has changed A LOT since filming Chris' season. She is just SOO much more "Hollywood" now, looks wise and personality wise. She seems so different on social media, it's like she's a different person. I don't think she is a bad person, but she just seems really caught up like this stuff is her whole life.

I've been thinking about your post for the last little while, and I agree with the bold. It's unfortunate, and it makes me really sad to agree with the bold.

mysthelma wrote:

DebutAlbum wrote:

mysthelma wrote:Becca did fool us all the last time. Very juvenile to confirm it on sm media she is indeed a mean girl. Eh epic virgin fail. I think it's time someone had sex :Nod: :Nod: :Nod: to grow up

She definitely was out of line but she truly is a kind person, like viewers saw last year. She is also waiting until marriage because she wants to share that special moment with her husband. I might be the only one, but I think that's awesome.

It's just harmless snark, I applaud and respect her decision to wait until she is married to the ONE

I have a hard time believing that she's ever going to meet "the one". Based on her SM, I find she acts too goofy or childlike and it seems she friend zones guys who might otherwise become interested because of what I think is fear of intimacy.

Maybe it's just me, but I wonder subconsciously if being a virgin helps to override any intimacy issues she may have. 
She seems to be so off in many areas that lead to emotional intimacy. JMO And I don't mean this nastily 
She seemed appalled regarding a fully clothed massage that had no sexual connotations.  It really was quite vanilla. 
She reminds me of a mid 20 something trapped in the emotional maturity of a tween.

^ I agree and maybe this is what you meant but I think she uses the virginity status as a way to avoid the inevitable possible situations that could arise with men who may be interested. I mean she's very attractive, good figure and she's already 26 or 27! I'd like to see her get help to find out the root and put the issues behind her.

bluwavz wrote:Becca much like Nick, Tenley and several others, needs Bachelor Rehab badly. I would say it should be an actual reality show but then that would just extend their 15 minutes even further and we know these people are addicted to attention so let's not give them anymore by letting them be on TV again. Too many of them base their identity on being part of this show (just read Tenley's ode to it!) and being part of the "Bachelor Family". So sad!  

  Bachelor Rehab!  You got that right.   Dr. Phil where are you, we need Bachelor Intervention here!  

Becca is caught up in the bubble big time this go-around and I sense JoJo is not such a good influence.  Not a fan at this moment of Becca or JoJo -  they need a "time out".  

Kashathediva wrote:Maybe it's just me, but I wonder subconsciously if being a virgin helps to override any intimacy issues she may have. 
She seems to be so off in many areas that lead to emotional intimacy. JMO And I don't mean this nastily 
She seemed appalled regarding a fully clothed massage that had no sexual connotations.  It really was quite vanilla. 
She reminds me of a mid 20 something trapped in the emotional maturity of a tween.

That could be it...
Part of me wonders if there is a deeper, underlying issue there as well?
Maybe something happened in her childhood or something... because I do think Becca seems stunted and almost has a fear of intimacy, etc.
Or maybe it is just that she really is someone who was extremely sheltered growing up and chose to be a virgin and thus is very limited in experience so anything even somewhat intimate is seen as an extreme.
I don't want to bring religion into it, but sometimes a strict viewpoint (even self-inflicted) can lead to this.

JMO

Kashathediva wrote:Maybe it's just me, but I wonder subconsciously if being a virgin helps to override any intimacy issues she may have. 
She seems to be so off in many areas that lead to emotional intimacy. JMO And I don't mean this nastily 
She seemed appalled regarding a fully clothed massage that had no sexual connotations.  It really was quite vanilla. 
She reminds me of a mid 20 something trapped in the emotional maturity of a tween.

Great Post.  I feel the same way.  Becca's reaction to "seeing" the massage was so telling of where she is emotionally.  Her giddy excitement and embarrassment was so childish.  She definitely has intimacy issues.  Her family eluded to this at her HT visit with CS.     JMO

As some of you know, I am not known for my healthy eating habits. HOWEVER, I am trying a new thing called balance. I'm going to continue eating what I want (cause happiness) & add @flattummytea to help with the de-bloating. #healthkick #balancedAF by @beccatilley

A little & by @tauni901 ! by @beccatilley

bluwavz wrote:
As some of you know, I am not known for my healthy eating habits. HOWEVER, I am trying a new thing called balance. I'm going to continue eating what I want (cause happiness) & add @flattummytea to help with the de-bloating. #healthkick #balancedAF by @beccatilley

I know many contestants promote products like this....I wish they wouldn't.