The Bachelorette - Season 12 - Potential Lead - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

When will they let us know. WTA or ATFR?

casjacknick wrote:When will they let us know. WTA or ATFR?

AFTR

^^Becca didn't shed one single tear when Chris let her go. I think it was hers to lose as stated by Chris' Mom. Looking back now, I think she was never going to love him...and now I see exactly why!

^^^ Absolutely right, Mommy. I just re-watched it, and she cried talking to Chris's mom, but not when he said he wasn't the man for her. So she really felt nothing, just lied about it all so he'd keep her til the end. Classy.

metalgirl wrote:^^^ Absolutely right, Mommy.  I just re-watched it, and she cried talking to Chris's mom, but not when he said he wasn't the man for her.  So she really felt nothing, just lied about it all so he'd keep her til the end.  Classy.  

Well that is just your opinion. She looked really sad to me, and according to DebutAlbum, and herself IIRC, she cried in her hotel room afterwards. She never claimed to be in love with him, so not sure what she lied about.

Agreed, mindless.  Becca didn't lie about anything.  She just couldn't fall in love and accept a proposal in a matter of a few weeks.  It's crazy when you even think about it!

Part of the reason I don't like Becca is that she showed zero emotion when Chris let her go. Why was she still there if she didn't have strong feelings for him? I kind of think that's the kind of lead she'd be, emotionless. Maybe that's just her personality. She always seems the same. JMO

mindless wrote:

metalgirl wrote:^^^ Absolutely right, Mommy.  I just re-watched it, and she cried talking to Chris's mom, but not when he said he wasn't the man for her.  So she really felt nothing, just lied about it all so he'd keep her til the end.  Classy.  

Well that is just your opinion. She looked really sad to me, and according to DebutAlbum, and herself IIRC, she cried in her hotel room afterwards. She never claimed to be in love with him, so not sure what she lied about.

I didn't say that . And Becca posted on here about Chris?!

I doubt JoJo will do Bachelor in Paradise, that would be a slap in the face.

DebutAlbum wrote:

mindless wrote:

metalgirl wrote:^^^ Absolutely right, Mommy.  I just re-watched it, and she cried talking to Chris's mom, but not when he said he wasn't the man for her.  So she really felt nothing, just lied about it all so he'd keep her til the end.  Classy.  

Well that is just your opinion. She looked really sad to me, and according to DebutAlbum, and herself IIRC, she cried in her hotel room afterwards. She never claimed to be in love with him, so not sure what she lied about.

I didn't say that . And Becca posted on here about Chris?!

Oh sorry, perhaps it was RammerJammer then. And no, she didn't post here about Chris, but she mentioned it on SM somewhere.

I just don't see the emotionless Becca that some here see. I guess it's because I tend to hold my emotions close to my chest as well. I don't let them out in front of many people, least of all the negative ones. That doesn't mean I don't feel strongly.

albean99 wrote:Part of the reason I don't like Becca is that she showed zero emotion when Chris let her go. Why was she still there if she didn't have strong feelings for him? I kind of think that's the kind of lead she'd be, emotionless. Maybe that's just her personality. She always seems the same. JMO

Who said she didn't have feelings for him? Just because one might not be in love with someone doesn't mean that they don't care for or have feelings for them. I don't know about the rest of y'all, but I can relate to what she went through in that regard. And for the record, she did like him and think he was nice. She just wasn't in love, and IMO there's nothing wrong with that. Just because she didn't cry doesn't mean she didn't care.

DebutAlbum wrote:

albean99 wrote:Part of the reason I don't like Becca is that she showed zero emotion when Chris let her go. Why was she still there if she didn't have strong feelings for him? I kind of think that's the kind of lead she'd be, emotionless. Maybe that's just her personality. She always seems the same. JMO

Who said she didn't have feelings for him? Just because one might not be in love with someone doesn't mean that they don't care for or have feelings for them. I don't know about the rest of y'all, but I can relate to what she went through in that regard. And for the record, she did like him and think he was nice. She just wasn't in love, and IMO there's nothing wrong with that. Just because she didn't cry doesn't mean she didn't care.

I didn't say she didn't have feelings, just strong feelings. In the long run it doesn't matter but was explaining what I didn't like about her then and a shortcoming I see in her now. Remember, it's just my opinion.