The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Social Media - Vids - Media - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - #2

Ha! No wonder Lauren Russell got sent home the first night.. She was the one who said she was stalking Ben on social media. LOL. (That was in the new preview btw.)

Lol well if that's not going to scare a guy off..

What else was in the preview?

loveactually9 wrote:Lol well if that's not going to scare a guy off..

What else was in the preview?

That's it. And just shots of the girls on the first night.

But seriously, isn't that what's done here? Stalking of people's accounts to figure things out. We even have pages of why someone is or isn't liked due to followers and likes on accounts. (all absolutely speculative at best and judgmental at worst)
Frightening actions brought to a new high.

Yah but the difference is none of us are meeting Ben for the first time, admitting this, and expecting to have a chance

RS also said that she came back later that same night to talk to Ben and got eliminated again. At least the girl's persistent!

loveactually9 wrote:Yah but the difference is none of us are meeting Ben for the first time, admitting this, and expecting to have a chance

Her admitting it only implies(to me) stupidity vs being dangerous.
In fact, admitting to him makes her even less cunning, in my eyes. She isn't the first cast person to do this. Many out-the-limo cast say to the main that they came on solely for that main. Some have said they watched them and did for lack of better words "research" them. IDK if this is any different and to me no big deal.

Internet stalking is a thing . Let's not pretend.. sooo many of us do it, maybe the younger generation(s). I mean my friends and I text each other "wait did you see so & so's instagram? WHO is the new guy?" and we totally snoop around FB to find out more. But with that said, this kind of stuff leave it between your girlfriends! LOL. Unless that clip was that and not to his face. (didnt see the commercial).

It depends on how she says it, but it comes off as a little crazy to me. Does anyone remember AshLee telling graham the same thing during BIP and him being minorly weirded out by it? I'm sure ALL of the contestants do it but it's not something I would say during the first 2 minutes of meeting someone unless I want to come off as purely a fan girl

I'm definitely not judging her for the Internet stalking either. I would 100% do it if I was a contestant on the show. I think everyone does it when you meet a guy - you kind of have to these days to ensure that he's not a serial killer or something. That said...I probably wouldn't tell him the first night that I met him. It reminds me of Ashlee's "I checked out your instagram, and I just feel like we'd be great together" to Graham.

I don't know why Ben would be shocked by that. All the other girls stalked his SM as well I'm sure. At least she's honest.

don't know if this is old news Dreamer posted it .

The Perfect Ben Preview & screencaps
11/18/15 05:04 PM    
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