Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - #2 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

I can see them together too! He's a cutie despite the bad rap .

bleuberry wrote:I can see them together too! He's a cutie despite the bad rap .

Yeah, despite his bad rep, I always have found him pretty hot myself.  Wouldn't fault Becca if she liked him.

bluwavz wrote:I really don't think Becca is SO much better a person than Robert that she can do SO much better than him. Just because he may like to sleep around doesn't make him this scum who's so beneath the virgin. What makes her better than him? I actually don't think she's that much different from Robert because I've always thought she seemed like the type of woman who flits from guy to guy. The only difference is she doesn't sleep with them. I don't think it makes Becca a bad or wrong person but I do think she's desperate to stay a part of this show so whether what's going on with Robert is something or nothing, I doubt we'll see her connected to anyone outside the show anytime soon. I won't be the least bit surprised to see her on BiP next year.

Other than Becca flaunting the V-card, these two have several things in common. They are attractive people, are part of Bach nation, live in Cali, attend functions through their Bach connections and are active on SM. 

There are several differences, of course. Robert has actually experienced adult relationships with the opposite sex. Robert has a college education & founded an advertising company that was globally successful which he sold in 2012. He earned industry awards in 2010 for this company. He founded another company in 2012 for which he earned an industry award in 2014. Quite an entrepreneur! That is NOTHING like Becca. 

He probably is not looking for business prowess in Becca or academic prowess. JMOAA. She probably brings other gifts to the table.

@FLChica I didn't know all that about Robert. Thanks.

I think Robert is a cutie too so I don't think it's out of the realm of possibility that Becca could like and be attracted to him. Just because she's a virgin doesn't mean she's a prude or wouldn't want to date a guy who has a more experienced reputation.

bluwavz wrote:@FLChica I didn't know all that about Robert. Thanks.

I think Robert is a cutie too so I don't think it's out of the realm of possibility that Becca could like and be attracted to him. Just because she's a virgin doesn't mean she's a prude or wouldn't want to date a guy who has a more experienced reputation.

I agree with the bolded. I mean she wanted to date Chris of all people.

Still hoping they're just friends though. Wasn't a fan of him leading on Sarah, which I think he did despite her acting really childish about it.

I don't think she would have an issue, but a lot of experienced guys wouldn't date a Virgin. Sad, but true.

I didn't feel like he led Sarah on - at the time, Sarah even wrote a blog and said that she and Robert tried again in LA, but it just couldn't work b/c he couldn't get over how she acted at the end of Bip. She's seemed to take responsibility for everything. Even when she guest hosted at buzfeed recently, she was complimentary of Robert and said they're still good friends.

Thanks @FLChica, I didn't know all that either.

We haven't seen the last of Becca IMO. She'll be around for awhile and will continue to name drop when the opportunity exists. She reminds me of Clare Crawly, who always seemed to be around for no other apparent reason other than being a former F2 contestant.

Whatever the association is with Robert, I'm sure he will be easily replaced if the opportunity arises for Becca.

On the flip side of the coin, a lot of guys would love to be someone's first and mentor into that realm. That is a big notch on a belt buckle, imo from what I remember in my younger days.

^^ it's not like that anymore. Most guys these days are looking for someone who is experienced (but not TOO experienced of course ) and who won't get too attached because it's their first time

Kashathediva wrote:On the flip side of the coin, a lot of guys would love to be someone's first and mentor into that realm. That is a big notch on a belt buckle, imo from what I remember in my younger days.

That's true, but those guys don't usually wish to a marry the girl to get what they want. They're after the virgins who are willing to engage in premarital sex and Becca isn't one of those. Ashley I maybe, but I don't see Becca changing her mind about that after all this time.

I thought Becca was waiting for 'the one,' and not necessarily for marriage?