Becca Tilly - Bachelor 20 - #2 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Well, I am sad for her if this is true. She honestly had so much to loose including heartbreak who you don't wish on anyone.

If true, she will be fine. It has to be mutual and you can't force a connection if there isn't one there. She will find a good Christian man someday, when the time is right. Glad to see I'm not the only Becca supporter on the board! I was getting really lonely!

Becca supporter right here!!

Becca supporter here too! It'll hurt her now but can't force something that isn't there. Can't wait for her to find her happiness

Becca supporter here too

I am neither a supporter or a non-supporter. I, in fact, feel fairly neutral for her. I like that she is generally kind and nice but I also dislike her oversharing and cryptic messages on sm. I can take her or leave her I guess, as the expression goes. Jmo

I am not a "fan", but I think she has a great family/friend support system and you can never go wrong with that. :Nod:
Hopefully she will meet her prince soon.

I don't dislike someone whom I've never met who doesn't affect my life personally but happens to play a role on tv but that's jmo.
She's got enough love and support so I'm sure she'll be ok.

I don't dislike Becca either, I just don't like returnees and like to see new contestants. IMO all the details of Ben telling her not to go on the show, make sense. Her coming on all seemed forced, and you just can't force love. Hopefully, she will learn that and meet someone in real life.

I'm closer to a fan than an anti-fan. But all I care about is the possibility of Ben falling in love, whether it was with a returnee or somebody new to the show. I just want the chance to witness it. (And yeah, I know the odds are better that it does not last).

I like Becca a lot and find it a bit unfair how she's being blamed for stealing attention, when frankly she's barely given us anything to talk about since going on the show, apart from being photographed in a wedding dress. It's not her fault her threads keep hopping. And I think the attention has already shifted away from her to the other girls who had dates this weekend.

That said, I can't feel sad for her really. She tried, it wasn't meant to be and she got out before the going got too tough. If she'd stayed she'd probably been F4 or F2, neither of which are enviable positions, especially considering she's last year's F2. It's great that her family was spared another visit and Becca another humiliation and possibly heartbreak. She'll find someone who wants her and only her soon enough!