Caila Quinn - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Don't get me wrong, I find Lauren really likable so far...but we literally saw her for about 4 minutes. I don't see how that somehow sets her as the golden standard for classiness and who everyone else should be compared to. I bet Lauren herself would tell you that she's gotten into some mischief in her life! I think everyone real and interesting has! I would rather watch a real person than someone who can't even move or talk because they're trying so hard to be perfect. JMO.

nothatgirl wrote:Don't get me wrong, I find Lauren really likable so far...but we literally saw her for about 4 minutes. I don't see how that somehow sets her as the golden standard for classiness and who everyone else should be compared to. I bet Lauren herself would tell you that she's gotten into some mischief in her life! I think everyone real and interesting has! I would rather watch a real person than someone who can't even move or talk because they're trying so hard to be perfect. JMO.

Don't quote me on this because I didn't follow along before the season wrapped up fliming, but wasn't Lauren arrested at Coachella for public intoxication or something to that matter?

Caila may not necessarily be my cup of tea, but I didn't mind the jump into Ben's arms. I've seen worse and in reality she's 23 and 23 is young. I'm only 25 and just two years older, but I've grown some in those two years.

Yup, that was Lauren. Goes to show you that none of them are perfect or classy 100% of the time. They're human. I love the moments we saw of Lauren, but I don't think she's a better person or more normal just because TPTB showed us a quirky Caila or a drunk Lace for a few mins.

I actually liked Caila's jump into Ben's arms... I thought it was one of the smarter ways to make an impression....and Ben obviously didn't mind at all. So far, I like Caila. Queen Sharleen likes her too, so I like her even more

Plus, Lauren could not jump in that dress and she had a built in schtick with the wings. Should Caila have brought him a copy of the software she sells and that would have been perfect. I like Lauren, but she has a meltdown over Olivia. No one is perfect. When we put people on pedestals they are bound to fail.

I'd wager a guess that all f4 will do the jump and spin by hometowns anyway .

bleuberry wrote:I'd wager a guess that all f4 will do the jump and spin by hometowns anyway .

In the extended preview, you see Caila jump into Ben's arms (for a hug), and based on her clothes...it was her hometown date. So yes, you're right! Lol

When I say classy, I am referring to behavior on a TV show, not off the show.
All my comments are directed at how they act on TV.
TPTB made me do it doesn't cut it for me, and makes them worse in my eyes as puppets.
I don't find Caila's entrance classy or mature and no comparison to someone else changes that.

I like Caila and am willing to giver her a pass so far. Don't have a favorite yet. I have 3 sons around Ben's age and if Caila came home with one of them, we'd have a fun time!

bleuberry wrote:I'd wager a guess that all f4 will do the jump and spin by hometowns anyway .

C'mon now, bleuberry! It's a TWIRL ... danceround

Idk, that's assuming we're getting the authentic story and characters, which I assume rarely to be the case, and certainly not after episode 1. Sometimes what they do when they aren't expecting an audience of millions can be more telling, IMO. And that goes for all of them.

FLChica wrote:

bleuberry wrote:I'd wager a guess that all f4 will do the jump and spin by hometowns anyway .

C'mon now, bleuberry! It's a TWIRL ... danceround

Whoops, talk about a faux pas!

Honestly how much maturity and class can we really expect from someone who was 23 when this was all filmed? She's on the younger end when it comes to contestants on this show. Besides jumping into Ben's arms whether it was producer suggestion or not is pretty benign as far as behavior goes. It's just a silly gimmick.

Personally I wasn't much for it but I don't think it makes her this immature, unclassy person.