Caila Quinn - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Kashathediva wrote:Just a reminder guys: 
Please don't question the sources in posting. Believe or disbelieve what you want.

^ and please use apparently, if it's true, etc when referring to information that was graciously shared to avoid confusion from proven fact and information shared. TYIA!

Speaking of ex's I think Ben had a recent ex gf.  Her name was Kaitlin. :cutesmile!:   Everyone has a past.  Just depends what you want for your future, reflects your current decisions.

Eviebloom wrote:Speaking of ex's I think Ben had a recent ex gf.  Her name was Kaitlin. :cutesmile!:   Everyone has a past.  Just depends what you want for your future, reflects your current decisions.

Very true.

Eviebloom wrote:Speaking of ex's I think Ben had a recent ex gf.  Her name was Kaitlin. :cutesmile!:   Everyone has a past.  Just depends what you want for your future, reflects your current decisions.

LOL! I love this!

Plus whatever Ben was allegedly doing with Tenley and Cassandra. Maybe he really isn't in a position to judge. Who knows, maybe Caila *gasps* really likes Ben and this ex was all wrong for her.

BlackHalo wrote:Plus whatever Ben was allegedly doing with Tenley and Cassandra. Maybe he really isn't in a position to judge. Who knows, maybe Caila *gasps* really likes Ben and this ex was all wrong for her.

yep. All just speculation.

Maybe I'm just old-fashioned, but I'm of the opinion that if you feel that whoever you're in a relationship with isn't right for you, then you should break up with them first and then move on. Whether moving on means signing up for a dating site or a dating show or finding a new boyfriend. I just can't stand people who set themselves up for the next thing while still keeping the old relationship as backup. I don't know if that applies to Caila, but the timing does smell funny. I don't think many fly through the casting process in a week or two.

the source i know is a family member of the ex. according to them the ex was completely blindsided. she went to major family events with his family, spent christmas with them, went to one of their kids baptism in may, and really was involved with the ex's family. he went to one of her family weddings in the middle of july. She broke things off when she got the call.

rhondam wrote:

ilovethebachelor1982 wrote:from the source that i talked to, said that his family liked her and thinks she's a sweet girl but thought that she was a bit young to get married. Her father apparently was really upset, so it will be interesting to see how her family reacts to Ben

Hi. Her father was upset about what? Caila planning to marry so young? Caila breaking it off with her boyfriend? Caila going on the show?

breaking up with the boyfriend and going on the show.

I certainly have compassion for families after a breakup. My son's girlfriend married his roommate from college. We loved her and she was like a daughter....but.... so for sure the families can have a really hard time with it. But none of us know the real story, but Caila and her ex. My son went on to marry a wonderful woman just right for him. I hope the same for Caila and her ex.

Eviebloom wrote:I certainly have compassion for families after a breakup.  My son's girlfriend married his roommate from college.  We loved her and she was like a daughter....but.... so for sure the families can have a really hard time with it.  But none of us know the real story, but Caila and her ex.  My son went on to marry a wonderful woman just right for him.  I hope the same for Caila and her ex.  

So true!!!

The last thing I want for Ben is for him to end up with a flaky girl but we don't know what's true, what's false, how much is being embellished. I would like to know what Caila has to say. Wonder if this guy or his family will go to tabloids about this.