Lauren Bushnell - Bachelor 20 - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

I just find it hard to believe that she was so disliked early on that even the girls from episodes 1-3 don't follow her. And Ben keeping her if he was made notice of that, which I'm sure he was. Something is not adding up here...

Any mods, have you heard anything on Lauren? And how she was in the house?

Diana wrote:idk when i type up her name it doesn't show up. the only way I was able to follow her on IG was to do it on my computer. Unless they were on when Amanda followed her, it make not show up on their notification feed. I am just saying it's too soon to say anything about this.

I guess we will know tomorrow.

It was the same for me. When I typed her @ in my IG, I got a different Lauren at first.

^^ I think if anyone here knew the answer to those questions we wouldn't be having this discussion

loveactually9 wrote:^^ I think if anyone here knew the answer to those questions we wouldn't be having this discussion

True.

Maybe it has nothing to do with "like" or not.
Maybe it has to do with not having just anyone "follow" you. Maybe it has to do with discretion and being private.
You can exchange email and phone numbers and text without having every person you encounter be involved in your life. I know once my kids got past the age of 25 they became very select in who was privy to their personal life and details. The same is for my nieces and nephews in that age group and younger.

Eh, I'd wait a few days before making any assumptions. It's the weekend, I'm sure people have better things to do than be glued to their phones looking for people to follow.

Kasha if her account is public, anyone can follow it without her approval unless she actively blocks them. If she wanted it to be private, it would make more sense for her to make her profile private and not open to the public. She has had a lot of random people follow, but no other contestants than Amanda

I'm glad I'm not judged on who I follow or who follows me. IMO there could be various reasons why Lauren isn't following any of them yet, and it doesn't necessarily have to do with who she likes and doesn't like. Maybe they aren't following her until she makes the first move to give her space.

I would think she has a million things to do since she's been back. Hopping on SM and following everyone, IMO wouldn't be on the top of the list. Nothing makes me conclude that she isn't liked or she doesn't like them just because she isn't following the others.

I would hope she is more mature than having to worry about who she should follow and when.

The issue is not her following the other girls, it's the other girls not following her. Because they all follow each other, doesn't it seem fishy that she's the only one they don't?

There are different levels of maturity.
Perhaps she simply isn't that close with the ones following each other. That doesn't mean there is something wrong with either camp.
And thank you Loveactually for pointing out the specifics in her account.
Again different strokes for different folks. She might be very nice and march to the beat of a different drummer than the ones that are actively social media-ing each other.

I've noticed on IG that at times when you check a follow list, you can only see a handful of people. For instance, when I checked Amanda's follow list today, I could see everyone. But when I checked Lauren's, I could only see Amanda. Any idea why?

The other girls have had weeks during which to follow one another. And they've had about 24 hours to follow Lauren. No big deal to my way of thinking.