The Bachelor 20 - Ben Higgins - Potential Contestants - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

eversotrue wrote:It's just SAD how Tenley thinks this is acceptable behavior, let alone thinking. Tenley thinks she's blessed. Well, so is Ben, girlfriend. He escaped your leash.

She is seriously all fairytales and rainbows and unicorns. I really think she thought he was her husband from the minute they met and thought it was going to be her happily ever after (..as written by God). She doesn't seem to get that just as she thought she was too good for Joshua and JJ and Michael, Ben might actually be too good for her

That IG photo reminded me of the lingerie women wore in the 50's. (not that I witnessed that--I am not that old tyvm!). Those longer lined bras and crinoline slips and asking god for hope? OK.

loveactually9 wrote:

chasingpavements wrote:Tenley was on three shows and that didn't stop Ben from flirting and possibly making out with her. I don't personally think that Amber will make it far, but there's nothing that sticks out with her for being crazy or desperate. She acted no differently than other girl in the history of the show who has been rejected by a guy.  She's no Ashlee Frazier (that's the bar for being crazy desperate, right?).

It's a lot of Amber in the span of a year. Rejected by the farmer, rejected by Dan, rejected by Justin (or was it someone else)..rejection happens but she keeps coming back for more and keeps wanting it televised. That's very desperate for attention

Oh, yeah, I agree she's a fame-wh*re. Three shows in one year has got to be a record!

I just think that her personality is a lot more "girl next door" than girls like Ashley I, Britt, Ashlee, Clare, etc. that cause drama and make for excellent TV. I'm not disagreeing with the notion that the girl loves attention and is coming off desperate and insecure.

loveactually9 wrote:

eversotrue wrote:It's just SAD how Tenley thinks this is acceptable behavior, let alone thinking. Tenley thinks she's blessed. Well, so is Ben, girlfriend. He escaped your leash.

She is seriously all fairytales and rainbows and unicorns. I really think she thought he was her husband from the minute they met and thought it was going to be her happily ever after (..as written by God). She doesn't seem to get that just as she thought she was too good for Joshua and JJ and Michael, Ben might actually be too good for her

I don't think Ben is too good for Tenley but she definitely thought he was gonna decline being TB after having spent time with her. She needs to look outside this franchise for love.

She wanted Dan. Went on date with Justin, clicked with Justin they even passionately kissed and he was into her. She comes back and tells Dan. Dan says no big because it's not really working between them. She moves on to Jared who gently rejects her. So she's looking back toward Justin who's now going on a date with Mackenzie and now she's feeling all sorry for herself because there is no guy for her and cannot figure out why not. Urrrrg. Watch her in those scenes if you get a chance. Frustrating but entertaining.

loveactually9 wrote:

eversotrue wrote:It's just SAD how Tenley thinks this is acceptable behavior, let alone thinking. Tenley thinks she's blessed. Well, so is Ben, girlfriend. He escaped your leash.

She is seriously all fairytales and rainbows and unicorns. I really think she thought he was her husband from the minute they met and thought it was going to be her happily ever after (..as written by God). She doesn't seem to get that just as she thought she was too good for Joshua and JJ and Michael, Ben might actually be too good for her

The fact that she's STILL indirecting him and the situation puts her on Ashlee level crazy imo. She's being more discreet, yeah, but she wont LET IT GO...after she's said many times she would! Stop Tenley. Arent you embarassed for yourself? We're all embarassed for you. Suck it up, eat a cookie, and go find some male attention.. Or wait for it to fall into your lap as it's already planned..

eversotrue wrote:

loveactually9 wrote:

eversotrue wrote:It's just SAD how Tenley thinks this is acceptable behavior, let alone thinking. Tenley thinks she's blessed. Well, so is Ben, girlfriend. He escaped your leash.

She is seriously all fairytales and rainbows and unicorns. I really think she thought he was her husband from the minute they met and thought it was going to be her happily ever after (..as written by God). She doesn't seem to get that just as she thought she was too good for Joshua and JJ and Michael, Ben might actually be too good for her

The fact that she's STILL indirecting him and the situation puts her on Ashlee level crazy imo. She's being more discreet, yeah, but she wont LET IT GO...after she's said many times she would! Stop Tenley. Arent you embarassed for yourself? We're all embarassed for you. Suck it up, eat a cookie, and go find some male attention.. Or wait for it to fall into your lap as it's already planned..

Agreed. Whatever "it" was, it was one weekend! 2 months ago! Be the grown 31 year old woman that you are and move on

Team Becca all the way!!! I think her and Ben would be a wonderfl couple!!

loveactually9 wrote:

eversotrue wrote:

loveactually9 wrote:

She is seriously all fairytales and rainbows and unicorns. I really think she thought he was her husband from the minute they met and thought it was going to be her happily ever after (..as written by God). She doesn't seem to get that just as she thought she was too good for Joshua and JJ and Michael, Ben might actually be too good for her

The fact that she's STILL indirecting him and the situation puts her on Ashlee level crazy imo. She's being more discreet, yeah, but she wont LET IT GO...after she's said many times she would! Stop Tenley. Arent you embarassed for yourself? We're all embarassed for you. Suck it up, eat a cookie, and go find some male attention.. Or wait for it to fall into your lap as it's already planned..

Agreed. Whatever "it" was, it was one weekend! 2 months ago! Be the grown 31 year old woman that you are and move on

Didn't she write a blog or do a periscope where she talked about how she met her dream guy (Ben) this summer and learned what she wants and needs in a man? It's all so sad and desperate. Tenley, some things are best kept private and not between you and a thousand strangers.

I don't think she said who her dream man was. Did I miss something?

Kashathediva wrote:I don't think she said who her dream man was. Did I miss something?

Tenley did a Periscope after the BIP finale where she talked about how she had met her dream man this summer who was exactly the kind of guy she wants to marry, ect. And then kept blushing and giggling when people asked her if she was talking about Ben. She's beyond the boiling bunnies stage, I think she's on the verge of burning down the house of the girl he chooses at this point

Looks like Olivia dumped a guy to go on the show. The guy was cute too. Make that another fame whore. Lol
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